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I read your post, and believe me, your life IS NOT OVER. I was pregnant 5 yrs ago, and for many different reasons, decided to give the baby up for adoption. I am happily married now, (not to her dad) and have a wonderful husband, and almost 2 yr old boy, and halfway through another pregnancy. I tell you this to let you know that whatever does happen you CAN and WILL get through this tough time. Oh, and as for your friends not coming around, the only thing I can think of is that they don't understand what it is like to be a young and pregnant, and they still want to "go have fun and party" and probably figure you can't or don't want to because you're preoccupied with the pregnancy, or something like that. I can't be to sure, but there is one theory. Also, as for your boyfriend, I hate to tell you this, and I don't know if you've ever heard this or not, but men mature much slower than women. Fact is, he may be getting freaked out by this responsiblity, even though it is his child. Guys that young often can't handle the thought of a commitment or responsibility that is as serious as another life. Why do you think most young wives are married to someone older than them? I'm not saying he won't be there for the baby and you when the baby is born, I can't judge that, cause I don't know him, but he probably is not too thrilled about having this huge responisibility around the corner. I hope everything works out for you and good luck. ↓
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