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i know being 14 is way too young to have a baby. but i do want a baby NOW. and i have had people tellme they want to...ya know. but i dont want to have a baby and it never know its father i dont know what to do i want a baby so bad but i want my baby to have a dad ↓
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| Name: jayde07 | Date: Jan 27th, 2008 7:30 PM |
| i have a 8 month old daughter i had her wen i was 18 and wen i found out i was pregnent i was sure it was wat i wanted but it is hard and its not all fun i wouldnt change my lil girl for the world but if i was you i thin you should wait your still so young at least wait till ur a bit older if u need to talk let me knw xxx ↑ |
| Name: Jenny | Date: Jan 27th, 2008 8:29 PM |
Hi Heather!
I'm 17 and I want a baby real badly too. But now, I'm NOT having my OWN children til after I'm married!!(AND! I'm NOT! marrying til I KNOW! Its the right guy!) but instead I've been thinking I'll adopt! There are a lot of girls still in high school who are pregnant and can't keep there babies! Maybe I won't be adopting for a while(A few years) But til then I plan on helping these girls! I any way I can! :)
Take care!
Jenny :) ↑ |
| Name: elvagreen | Date: Jan 28th, 2008 3:52 AM |
| yes, it's a little bit earlier to have baby for a 14y/o. singleparentloving.com ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Jan 28th, 2008 4:29 AM |
| WHAT? Don't do it. It is so much harder than you think it is, and it is EXPENSIVE!! And don't think your friends will babysit when you want to go out, cause they're young and they'd rather go out than babysit. Also, you need to wait for a good husband when you are much much older. I mean a GOOD one. Most of the fifteen year old dads I know, don't see or pay for their children's anything. Don't do this to your children. Have them in a loving secure home where both of its parents are happy together, with the finances to support it. That is not what a fourteen year old unmarried high school girl can provide. I promise, you'll be glad you waited. Also, your WHOLE life will change. There is a COMPLETE difference between life bfore and life after a baby. And it just isn't a cute little baby to tote along wtih you. Social, physical, sleep, mental, finances, all of these things will change when you have a baby. ↑ |
| Name: Lloyd | Date: Jan 28th, 2008 4:57 AM |
| hey look if you really want one then it's up to you.but i really wouldn't as i got my ex pregenet to early in her life now is she is 22 and has two kids that dont live with her so please wait for a few years and make sure it's with the right guy. ↑ |
| Name: Lauren | Date: Jan 29th, 2008 6:12 AM |
| You are way too young to plan a baby. Are you in a serious relationship, are you financially stable? Do you have and will you have all the support you and your baby will need? Think about all that first...it's a decision only you can make but consider your situation first and what sort of situation the baby will be in. I had my son at 21 and love him more than anything but it's hard work. My son hardly knows his father and its not fair on him. A baby needs a family. I don't know your situation so i'm not being nasty, i just urge you to think about it carefuly please ↑ |
| Name: singleparentchat.net | Date: Jan 29th, 2008 9:12 PM |
| Being a single parent as an adult is hard enough. Enjoy your youth and enjoy being a young adult first. When the time is right you will know...the fact that you're asking this question should let you know know the time isn't right. SingleParentChat.net ↑ |
| Name: elvagreen | Date: Jan 30th, 2008 5:44 AM |
| SingleParentloving.com is a good place to find the friends in common with you! Good Luck! ↑ |
| Name: roxiex | Date: Jan 31st, 2008 12:31 PM |
| WHATS WRONG WITH U! babys ARENT JUST A FASHION acccsesary thir for life ↑ |
| Name: roxiex | Date: Jan 31st, 2008 12:32 PM |
| they cry, scream, and NEED LOVE, MONEY AND A HOME! ↑ |
| Name: kayla | Date: Mar 31st, 2008 12:30 AM |
| well that solution is easy wait to have a baby until u are older more stable with a guy whos not just saying that they would have a baby with u just to get in ur pants...ur 14 u have so much more u should want to so with ur life then to have a baby right now i was 17 when i got pregnant with my first and although i had help of family and friends it was hard tried finishing school didn't work...i dropped out in 11th grade had one more year to go..i would never say either of my children were a mistake but i know if i would have waited i could have gave them a better life. ↑ |
| Name: Laull | Date: Mar 31st, 2008 7:11 AM |
You are WAY too young and it is alot of hard work and responsibilty!!!!
Wait till the time is right and think about the baby you would be bringing into this world!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Mar 31st, 2008 9:36 PM |
You have your whole life ahead ov u darling, although i understand how your feeling having gone through feelings like that myself but for a very different reason, u reali need to wait a few years...finish school and get a career to fall back onto...when you do have a baby it will be so much more special as ul ov waited and matured...
And ye it is important for your baby to have a father, if the circumstances are right...but i reali do think u need to wait a while....xxx ↑ |
| Name: pock | Date: Apr 8th, 2008 5:21 PM |
| We tell me about you I can help you with that if you really want one so email me [email protected]. Ok ↑ |
| Name: Share Your Story w/ Us | Date: Apr 8th, 2008 7:32 PM |
I'm casting a documentary that focuses on teen girls who are pregnant. The documentary is a groundbreaking project that will give the chosen girls a voice and an opportunity, to share what their lives are like as they enter the next chapter of their lives.
That being said, as time is of the essence, if you are a pregnant teen (or know someone who is), we hope to speak with you as soon as possible. Also, please know that if chosen, the girls will be compensated for their time.
Best Regards,
Lande Yoosuf
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: starla | Date: Jun 1st, 2008 4:44 PM |
| hi heather! im sorry to tell you u are just bored and apparently need someone to love you! i have a four yr old that you can spend time with anytime you like! also a 11 and 9 yr old girls im not sure what area you are in but if you are welcome to contact me i have four kids and im divorced at 35 and it is no joke! my exhusbands are not even trying to help! i know there are people in your area if you are not near me who would love for u to sit with their child or infant while they do chores or errands or jus have some alone time! an infant is a HUGE CHALLENGE EVEN FOR AN ADULT I cant imagine trying to have an infant at 14! u r a little bored and jus need someone in your life to love that shows love in return! i hope you are near me! hope to talk to you soon ↑ |
| Name: chel | Date: Jun 17th, 2008 9:57 AM |
| i want a baby to but i have noone to have one with ↑ |
| Name: darcymichelle | Date: Jun 17th, 2008 8:39 PM |
Being young is no reason to not have a baby,
really i'm a little older than you and I feel that
I am responsible and mature enough to have
a baby, and i want to too.Age doesn't play a role
in being a good mother or not. ↑ |
| Name: Pock | Date: Oct 11th, 2008 9:52 PM |
| I want a baby too well email me so we can chat maybe have a baby ok [email protected]. Ok ↑ |
| Name: keli | Date: Oct 14th, 2008 12:40 PM |
| i really want t have a baby too im 13 but so far i havent been able to get pregnant!! ↑ |
| Name: Liyla | Date: Oct 16th, 2008 10:22 PM |
Heather,
When I was fourteen I wanted a baby so bad soI had sex with a guy freind. I got pregnant and I was scared/exided. What I didn't bargin for was that being so young I could have a baby with speacial needs. My baby was born when I was seven monthes pregnant and she passed away.trust me don't do this to yourself. It is the single saddist thing that you will ever go through.
Missing my beautiful baby girl so much it hurts
Liyla ↑ |
| Name: Mal | Date: Sep 17th, 2009 8:56 PM |
| I am 15 and lately have felt extreme jelouse when I see my pregnant friend she is putting her baby up for adoption. she doesnt even want her little boy, and all i can think about is how much I do. The only reason I dont go have sex for the first time is because when I have a baby I want to give it a good life. I know this cant be normal but I needed to say this. If anyone has anyadvice please tell me ↑ |
| Name: sf567 | Date: Oct 31st, 2009 6:25 AM |
| i know exactly what you mean. im 14 and i want a baby so badly. i see so many couples now adays and they r all happy and they have there babies or have babies comign but i dont have a guy i know who would be there for me and the baby. but you should probably wait till your older and i should too. think about everything you will have to deal with.. ur parents your friends your school responsibilities. it complicates thigns to have a child on your hands especiallly at our age ↑ |
| Name: maria | Date: Nov 5th, 2009 7:56 PM |
| Name: melandtwo | Date: Dec 2nd, 2009 12:44 AM |
| Please think long and hard about this! I am a single mum at 29 and I find it hard financially and emotionally wait, grow up, enjoy your freedom and youth - there is no way that at the age of 14 you will be able to provide a stable environment for your baby. ↑ |
| Name: hope | Date: Dec 5th, 2009 10:00 AM |
| no your way to young i had my first child at 20 and i wish i could of waited. enjoy your life you have so much still to learn. and experience. believe what im saying it best to wait. dont rush ↑ |
| Name: Ashleyy | Date: Dec 30th, 2009 5:08 PM |
| i know exactly how you feel im 17 and i want a baby really bad too. and i have a boyfriend too who loves me and would do anything for me. buut im not IN LOVE with him. but i DO love him and care for him alot. and he wants a baby with me. i want one too. and i think it would work out cuz he would be a very good dad. and im not irresponsible and i KNOW the expenses that come with having a baby. and all the time and effort in it. im not like all those other girls that just want one because they think it would be cool. But anywho i know EXACTLY how you feel. But im not quite sure what im going to do. ↑ |
| Name: GothicKitty | Date: Dec 31st, 2009 8:14 AM |
Hi. I'm 25 yrs old, pregnant with my first kid, and not married. The guy I'm with is staying with me, but that doesn't change the fact that he is a full time college student and I'll be having to care for the child alone for the most part, except for the family help I'll be getting.
I never wanted kids and am having a hard time dealing with this whole situation. You're too young right now to have children, I suggest waiting until you have found the guy you will spend the rest of your life with that way you don't go through the whole situation thinking you did the wrong thing or taking it out on the child because you regret it. ↑ |
| Name: Savannah | Date: Jan 9th, 2010 10:38 PM |
hey, im 15 and have a baby, i got pregnant at 14, i really wanted a baby, so did my boyfriend. its harder than it looks. lucky for me my boy friend stuck by me.
not everyone is so lucky my parents even stuck by me my dad chased my boyfriend from the hosue when he found out but he lives with us now and he stays at home to caare for our son while i go to school.
wait a while please ↑ |
| Name: angelaowl | Date: Jan 22nd, 2010 2:36 PM |
all i have to say is wait .
i had my son when i was 14 and straight up t was the hardest thing ever, i want another but i can wait. its easyer said then done raising a baby , for real. im telling you have patience when the time is right things will roll into plan but dont plan so young. ↑ |
| Name: Annabelle | Date: Mar 11th, 2010 11:00 PM |
heather,
i know exactly what u mean, im 14, and i want a baby. idk y. idk wut to do ↑ |
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