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Name: David [ Original Post ] i am 15 year old and my dad used to spank me but it was months ago. but about a week ago he spanked me cause he saw me kissing a girl and he found condoms in my room. i havnt had sex yet or anythin. but he just went mad. he spanked me 50 times with a hairbrush and spanked my bare butt infront of my youngr bros who are 11 and 13 years old. i couldnt help cryin which makes it more embarassing. this is the first time he spanked me with a hairbrush. he used a belt before. but just a few days ago he spanked me again cause he got a letter home about my school work and he said i need to learn to behave and focus on my school work. now all the time he has started making me do chores and do house work and has taken my phone off me and if i argue i get spanked. will he continue spanking me and i am grounded for 3 months. i asked him if he was going to continue and he says i will be punished when i do wrong and as long as i am under his roof i obide by his rules. i am findin it difficult at school cause the girl keeps coming up to me and she wants to have sex just as much as me and shes dead good lookin and i told her shes nothin special cause i am scared my dad will spank me again. most of the boys in pe class know i am gettin spanked cause my butt is bright red and there is marks where he spanked me so am gettin laughed at. i also punched a boy yesterday in school cause he was tellin people about me gettin spanked and the principal called home and that night my dad spanked me again for about 30 times . he also drove me round to the boy i punched house and explain what i did was wrong and how i was spanked. if it was nt bad enough my dad told him i cried like a baby. tomorrow am goin to be made fool of cause the boy knows i got spanked and my dad says its my own fault. will my dad stop spankin me and when can i start seeing girls and goin out and have relationships cause loads of over boys have got girlfriends and they are havin sex and they dont get spanked. my dad also told me any time i misbehave i will be spanked infront of my little bros cause it shows them that he will not tolerate misbehviar. he is a single parent. ↓

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Name: Jane | Date: Sep 17th, 2009 4:23 PM

I know what its like being young but your dad wants whats best for you. I probably would have spanked my son at school if he punched someone over a few teases. The only thing I dont believe in is being spanked with a belt. ↑

Name: PDeverit | Date: Sep 23rd, 2009 5:40 AM

Child buttock-battering vs. DISCIPLINE: Child buttock-battering for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit. Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit. I think the reason why television shows like "Supernanny" and "Dr. Phil" are so popular is because that is precisely what many (not all) people are trying to do. There are several reasons why child buttock-battering isn't a good idea. Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals: Plain Talk About Spanking by Jordan Riak, The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children by Tom Johnson, NO VITAL ORGANS THERE So They Say by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D. Most compelling of all reasons to abandon this worst of all bad habits is the fact that buttock-battering can be unintentional sexual abuse for some children. There is an abundance of educational resources, testimony, documentation, etc available on the subject that can easily be found by doing a little research on "spanking". Just a handful of those helping to raise awareness of why child buttock-battering isn't a good idea: American Academy of Pediatrics, American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, Center For Effective Discipline, PsycHealth Ltd Behavioral Health Professionals, Churches' Network For Non-Violence, Nobel Peace Prize recipient Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Parenting In Jesus' Footsteps, The LDS Church (http://education.byu.edu/ youcandothis/spanking.html click "quotes on spanking"), Global Initiative To End All Corporal Punishment of Children, United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child. In 26 countries, child buttock-battering is prohibited by law (with more in process). In fact, the US was the only UN member that did not ratify the Convention on the Rights of the Child. ↑

Name: PDeverit | Date: Sep 23rd, 2009 5:43 AM

Talk to a school counselor. If that doesn't help, contact Jordan Riak at www.nospank.net for additional advice. Depending on which state you live in, spanking a teenagers' bare buttocks may not be legal. ↑

Name: Kelly | Date: Sep 24th, 2009 6:52 PM

I know its hard getting a spanking at 15 when you think you are the only one getting one, well im a 19yr old girl and my dad spanks me,I dont't know how you get spanked but I get spanked over dad's knees on my barebottom now thats embarrassing, but my dad loves me and he only spanks me when I deserve it, and im sure your dad loves you, but I agree with you your dad spanks you to often, right now in posting this with a very sore bottom as I got spanked for the same thing you did dad caught me necking with my boy friend. ↑