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Name: dava32
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First, I am very sorry for how long this is, but if you would take the time to read it and respond to it, I would be so grateful!

I wrote this about 2 months ago to a Facebook forum:
My child's father is recently married. They have both bullied me over the past year off and on. This weekend, it got ugly. His wife started saying my child is behind because of me because she isn't potty trained, still uses a paci, and when at their house they have to feed her. My child is 2. She feeds herself at my house, and yes she still uses a paci, but only at night. None of the kids in her daycare class are potty trained. I just don't think she is ready yet. However, my child's father thinks she is. That's what she had to say about my child. About me, she called me a psycho, fat and ugly-glad the child looks like her father, and a few other really mean things. The father is at least 6 months behind in child support. When he did pay, it was $52 every few months($52 is the weekly amount he is due to pay). As of today, is he $2,400 in arrears. He also has never paid or helped with daycare and diapers for daycare. I don't think he buys her new clothes because everytime I send my child to his house in clothes I've bought for her, I never see them again. We have no court ordered visitation. I let him see his child because I want my child to see her father, but why should I put up with the way her father and his wife treat me? I really would like to file some kind of charges against the wife for the phone calls and texts she sent to me. She threatened physical harm to me over the phone. So, what should I do? I am torn, very stressed out and don't know what to do. Can someone pleae help? If you have something mean to say, please leave it to yourself. I've had enough mean things said to me, so please spare me.

I wrote this one today:
I need help with a situation going on right now. My two year old daughter's father(and his wife) and I agreed a while back on visitation - when he gets to have her. We agreed that on Wednesdays, they can pick her up from daycare, she can stay the night with them and they can take her to daycare the next morning. Also, they are to pick her up from daycare every other weekend on Friday and take her to daycare the following Monday. Well, for the past month, they have not had my daughter on Wednesdays. They come up with different excuses as to why they can't get her each time. That's not what I have a problem with. My problem is that every Wednesday, I try to text them both while I'm at work just to make sure they are getting my daughter. For the past month, they either don't text me back at all or text me back 5 minutes before the daycare closes. One day, they said they would be picking her up, but I got a call 10 minutes after the daycare closed saying that my daughter was still up there! I was agitated and annoyed. Today is a Wednesday, and again neither one of them responded to my calls/texts. So, I called the daycare like I have had to before to see if they have picked my daughter up. Surprisingly, her dad picked her up. SO, I am seriously thinking about taking both of their names off of the list of who can pick up my daughter at her daycare. Also, I would let them know that I'm doing that, and tell them that that it is really insensitive (I'm not sure if that's the correct term) of them to not let me know if they are picking up my daughter from daycare. What should I do? What should I say to my daughter's father? I don't want to have a conversation with his wife because, first she is not my child's mother, and second she has been rude to me in the past - saying things like I'm making my child be behind. Anyway, please let me know asap because this has been going on too long, and I want it to stop soon.
Thank you!
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