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Name: sexcbaby
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I am 28. I was told two years ago that I would never have kids. I was very ill and accepted it would never happen. I was in a relationship for 11 yrs and we broke up. A long time friend came back into the picture. He was very pushy with starting s relationship although I wasn't ready. We messed around and eventually started spending a lot of time together. He lives in a different province from me. Anyways, his temper started getting the best of him. He hacked into my work schedule, my phone bills and an email acct. He totally invaded my privacy.he didnt like if i wanted to go away to visit fsmily as he always accused me of being with other guys. I wanted to break things off. And of course I found out I was pregnant. I felt so trapped but at the same time blessed that I did get pregnant. I do not want to move in with him because of this and my parents are behind me 100%. They know due to my illness I will need all the help. They transformed the basment to a suitable spacious living area for my baby and I and are going to helo any way they can. But the father is determined that I move with him and sacrifice my happiness for the baby. He threatens me all the time to take her away as he says I am not fit. I've learned to be civil to prevent arguements but I don't want to have him harassing me all the time. I told him that I will never keep him away. When he comes to town he's more than welcomed to see her. Or if he moved here we can slowly try and build a relationship for her sake. He has no intentions of moving yet but feels I should include him in everything even though he is never here. I've gone to appointments alone and gone this far. So when she is born I don't want his last name in the certificate or his name as a matter of fact. Does anyone know how that works? We have a home in florida and I want to know that while on maternity leave, I can take her ad I please with my family. Any advice. Am I being impossible?
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