| That's a toughy. First rule is to make sure you put your children first. Make sure you take each relationship slowly and don't introduce your children to your new "friend" too soon. Let your kids know you are going out to meet new people (though they don't have to know why) and let the people you meet know that you have kids that are your first priority. Try to have fun and when you meet someone you are really interested in try to include your kids, maybe have your new friend over for dinner and have the kids help you prepare the meal. This will be good for the kids by making them feel involved and it will make your new friend feel welcome knowing everyone had a hand in having her over for dinner. Now as to how to go about meeting singles...try getting in touch with your church many have singles and divorced groups you can attend, ask friends and family to set you up, or join a dating service. I hope this has been helpful for you. Good luck. ↑ |
| when you figure it out - let me know....i can't find time...i think i've waited too long and my kids are so used to it just being us- and because of the circumstances surrounding my divorce - I probably am at fault for that. ↑ |
| hi dave, i would suggest you get out as much as you can.. try the dating services, share your email adress with other people or begin by looking for a friend first take it from there. good luck.. ↑ |
