I can't really offer any advise but I can say you are not alone. I am 8 months pregnant and my husband decided he wants out of the marriage. I have never been so scared and anxious. All I do is cry! It is overwhelming to say the least. I too am working full time but I have no other children. I can only imagine trying to do this with a lil one already depending on me. I feel so alone and hurt it is just awful! I wish I had some advice for both of us but alas I don't. I just hope it gets easier! ↑ |
I too am in the same boat. All I can really do is keep my head up high and not stress myself out. Everything has a way of working it'self out. My daughter is 4, has adhd and bi polar, and she is very hard to take care of, calm down, and keep under control!! The only advice I can give you is that being pregnant is a great gift!! You might be feeling lonely, but believe that you are not alone! You have a child who needs you and one in your belly who needs you as well. Keep your head up and stay strong. Although I am pregnant by somebody who I'm still with, he is never there for me. And my daughters dad lives in another state. I work 40+ hours a week, and I'm exhausted when I get home. But fact is, rent needs paid, bills need paid, my daughter needs clothes and soon I will need a new wardobe. Sometimes you have to do things you don't want to do, but nobody can do them for you, you have to do them yourself! ↑ |