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I am more looking for the perfect answer that no one can give me, but do they ever come back? If they have a pattern of coming and going as they please? I have not heard from my babies daddy in over a month..but he has done this 3 times before. I was not pregnant the other times though. How do you get over it? Im so confused. I get angry at him sometimes but other times i just can not see what everyone else does that he has really hurt me and used me for everything i had and more. I don't understand my situation and i want to be strong for my baby. ↑ |
It just sounds like your guy is afraid to be alone. I don't know your whole situation, but at some point you need to put your foot down and say enough is enough even though it may be hard. I hurt too and even more so when my so called friend turned her back on me when I needed her most. But I promise you life does go on. Things do get better and there are other guys out there that have a heart and would love to be apart of your family. For now just focus on your baby's needs and believe me that will take up at least 98% of your time. You can email me directly at [email protected] if you like. ↑ |
I'm in the same situation, but after he left me, a week later he went to jail.He's been in there 6 months and i feel relieved. My pregnancy has gone by fast. Now he writes me and wants to make things work. I love him, but i'm so confused. Is he just coming around because he thinks i'm a sure thing. I think i'm going to move on. I'm going to the police academy in january and i a lot to lose if i stay with him. By him leaving me, he made me stronger and now i'm doing something with my life. ↑ |
Good for you alissa!!!!!! ↑ |