please help me i feel horrible inside i love my baby ↑ |
Stop beating yourself up over something you can't take back. We've all made mistakes -- just think of that perfect little baby you are carrying and of the joy he/she will be. S--t happens and even though we wish some s--t didn't it doesn't make it go away. As to you being the only one it's ever happened to haven't you ever watched Maury -- they never know who their baby's daddy is! lol. But seriously, just relax you have enough to be stressed out over don't stress out over the things you can't control. Good luck. ↑ |
hi libby thanks for that its made me feel a lot better its just hard especially when people ask me who the father is... to make things worse i just found out that the guy im 80% sure hes the father has just gone to prison for 18 months and i dont talk to him he doesnt believe me and the other guy we dont see eye to eye so im in an even bigger pickle now. im having a little girl and she would be better off without him anyway she will do fine..
thanks again libby! ↑ |
thanks chrissy,
thats what i needed to hear. someone else that its happened to not just me, you would have felt the same like your the only one its ever happened to. im more worried about my dad than anything ive told him who i think the father is but what happens if it came up negative. he would go off his rocker at me. my mum knows that i have to get tests though and she is being very supportive. ↑ |
hi what is going on do you want to talk this one is older but I know that people come back every now and again to check! Let me know and I will talk. Look I wasn't in the same boat I knew who the dad was and all but I was 17 and pregnant and that is emotional enough ↑ |
hello thanks for your support its just nice to talk to someone other than my mum. i have no one else to talk thats why im here its so frustrating when people ask who the father is, someone asking that will spoil my entire day. ↑ |