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Name: momo
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I am new here...I have a 4 year old son born with MAny Major Heart Defects.....He has had many surgeries and his last one was in August...Right now he is doing well.....Better than ever...He is a bright intellegent boy and my pride and joy....Though he doesn't have a condition that require alot day in and day out....I have to deal with many emotional pains of all these surgeries....times spent in the hospital...He will have them for the rest of his life...I didn't get to enjoy a good birthing experience ( didn't even see his for about 4 days)....His last surgery he almost didn;t make it...I guess its just been hard to process at times that while though I would ever trade him for anything....How can I deal with this better.....I guess I just need outside talks with people who go through same things
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Name: fancy | Date: Oct 10th, 2006 3:16 AM
hi momo my heart goes out to you I cant even imagine the pain and heart ach your going though just hang in there and do your best and mainly have the faith and I always believed that and my faith hasnt let me down yet and I truely believe your handling it better then I would I have three boys from ages 9, 7, and a two year old who will be three next week and I couldnt imagine the heartach if something ever happen to them so just put your faith in the lord and he will see you though this good luck and if you ever want to chat email me at [email protected] 

Name: momo | Date: Oct 10th, 2006 5:03 AM
Thank you for your words of kindness... 

Name: MyMiracle | Date: Sep 22nd, 2010 2:34 PM
My daughter was born was Ebsteins Anomaly of the tricuspid valve along with hydronyprosis of the left kidney with bladder reflux. She has already had to have surgery on her bladder. They are going to test the kidney to find out how much function it has. They said if it's less than 25% then they are going to remove it. She will also have to have surgery on her heart, they are just waiting until they have no other choice but to do surgery. So, although I cannot tell you I know exactly what your feeling, I can tell you that I know the fear of what may lie ahead and also at the same time have hopes for a beautiful future for my baby. I also know that it's hard to relate to other friends who have healthy children. Nobody understands what a parent goes through when they find out their child is and always will be sick. My heart goes out to you and your son--I wish you both a bright and beautiful future. Just remember-when no one else on earth understands, God does! 

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