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My little on is sick again, and she ws up all night. I am so tired, all I want to do is take a little nap. But my husband got off the fire department at 6am, so he is now sleeping a bit so he can go to his other job tonight. What makes me mad is that he could have said, "I slept last night so why don't you go grab a nap and then I will lay down later." NOPE, he sat with the baby for a few minutes popped a waffle for each girl in the toaster and said I'm going to lay down. I just wanted to yell "Whatever, once again mom is last" I tell him that this is how I feel that I come last in everything. Should the kids come first, of course, but why is it that I should be last in everything. He doesn't see why I feel that way. ↓
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| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 2:32 PM |
| i know how that is. i've been feeling sick lately, the baby threw up last night, ive had no sleep. hubby gets off at 2 this week, but can he arrange for someone to bring him home at that time instead of sitting around til 5? OF COURSE NOT!!!!!!!!!!!! men are by nature selfish creatures. ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 2:34 PM |
| Yes they are. What makes me mad is that when I say something like I would like a little appreciation, or something like that, he gets defensive. My husband helps but it always seems like he helps when i don't need his help. I am coming down with whatever the girls have is anyone taking care of me??? Let me look around and see, yah, NO!!! ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 2:35 PM |
| Just fowarning everyone I will be in a mood today so pay me no mind. ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 2:41 PM |
| one day last week, hubby went in to do more hours for our house and promised me that he would take care of the baby all day this past sunday. sorry, but i dont think changing 3 diapers and putting her down for one nap is considered taking full care of her! ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 2:45 PM |
| Yes I know!!! I really shouldn't complain my husband does help me, but like I said, it is only when I don't need his help. Here is an example of what makes me mad. One of my friends wanted to go to dinner so I was talking to my husband about it, making sure it wasn't a problem since he would be taking care of the kids. He says, well there is one problem, I am suppose to go to Troy's house to watch a fight. Okay so you can make plans without consulting me because you assume that I am the mom and do nothing but take care of the kids, meanwhile you make plans as you please. ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 2:53 PM |
| yet we must account for every minute of our day! ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 2:55 PM |
| Yes!!!!!!!!! I can't even sit on the couch, because I will fall asleep. ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 2:56 PM |
| is there any time u can maybe lay down on the couch for a while? ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 3:02 PM |
| As long as everything goes as planned, I will lay down when my girls and the one daycare kid take a nap. See I have 3 daycare kids, They get here at 6:30am and I put the oldest one on the bus at 7:30am, and then I put the middle one on the bus at 11:20am. So I will start fixing lunch at 10:30am. then when they are all eating, I will lay blankets out, for my oldest and the one daycare kid that I have all day, then by then I put the middle on the bus, and have the other 2 lay down, while I lay on the couch and get my little one to sleep, when she falls asleep I take her upstairs to crib. Then I hopefully will come down and lay on the couch and take a little nap. But knowing how I am I will probably be wired by then and not be able to sleep. ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 3:04 PM |
| well, i hope u can get some kind of rest today. even if u dont really go to sleep, it will help to just close ur eyes for a little while. ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 3:05 PM |
| I know, I just hope that I will be able too. ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 3:11 PM |
| sometimes u just have to force urself to do it. ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 3:13 PM |
| Yes I know!!! They way all these kids are acting today it shouldn't be a problem. The baby is getting fussy, and the others are fighting, I'll be back, ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 3:21 PM |
| what is it that ur girls are sick with? ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 4:10 PM |
| Colds, and their sinuses. I had taken them to the doctor and she put them on meds, but it is back again, so now I have to take them back. ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 4:13 PM |
| well, at least it colds and not the flu. thats how i feel about this stupid bladder infection i have now. its an E.coli infection which is easily treated. while i was pregnant, i had an infection that was deadly. ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 4:18 PM |
| That sucks!!!! When I first found out I was pregnant with my littlest one, I had the stomach fu and then I had the flu, that is in you chest. My mom had to take my oldest for 2 days because my husband was working and I couldn't get off the couch. Last year my stepson started throwing up and then the next night he was fine, then 2 days later my oldest daughter got it, and was throwing up everywher, then she was fine, then my husband got it and then the baby. Finally when everyone was better and rip rarin to go, I got it. Of course my husband was working so I was sick as a dog trying to take care of the kids. My husband came home I was laying on the couch in a turtleneck, sweatshirt, sweatpants, 2 pairs of socks, my heavyiest robe, and 2 blankets and he askes me what's wrong. ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 4:19 PM |
| i swear, men can be so thickheaded! lol ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 4:20 PM |
| Tell me about it!!! And it starts at an early age!!! ↑ |
| Name: mspeachpit | Date: Nov 15th, 2006 4:26 PM |
| i know! hubby's family told me how he had to be bribed with candy bars before he would potty train! but, i think part of that was also them trying to make him do it before he was ready. ↑ |
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