yep last summer hubby was starting to get like that....he just couldn't handle his booze anymore, and would act like a fool...I just told him to fkin' grow up!! lol....you're not 19 anymore, you're 30 for cryin' out loud....with children....and a wife....i had to tell him to not bother coming home if he couldn't act civilized, cause I wasn't taking anymore of his bullshit....not fair to me, and not fair to the kids....i STILL have to tell him, before we go out (if we do go out), that he has to take it easy....cause if i don't he will not know when to stop....i just don't know WHY it's so hard to do for some people....i can definately feel when I've had enough, and i just slow down or get a water....but nooooooooo...hubby can't do this, cause what will the guys think if he's drinking a water?????????? GOD FORBID!!!!!! men eh?
now...there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time...but be responsible. act your age, know your limit, and don't go overboard
this evening when we were watching the fireworks....one of the neighbors came out of their house with a bunch of people. he was so totally stupid drunk and yelling and slurring and stumbling around like a fkin' idiot...ugh....i wanted to grab our snow shovel and smack him across the head with it. like, can you not see how much of a LOSER you are, acting like that? are you proud of yourself?
lol...sorry....I can't STAND annoying drunk people who can't control themselves!!! lol.... ↑ |
| momo I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I thought that you guys had worked all of the drinking stuff out. If he is going to do things like take the debit card and over do your budget then you really need to put your foot down. I am not sure if he thinks you should mommy him because he works so hard but that seems to be what you do for him all the time. ↑ |
you know he has been good on his drinking all other times..he doesnt drink when i am not with him..he doesnt drink ust to drink.he drank cause it was a special occasion..but what he did was drank to much obviosuly..and i did give him water..5 damn cups of it..
at the begginning of the night..everyone was so pissy with me becasue they were so loud and obnoxious..falling down..This mind you is at 10..calling me a prude cause i am telling them to simmer down just a notch before they get us kicked out..its not that i am a prude..mabe its that i grew up a little..and realied that I am no longer 19..i would rather have a fun night..than be falling down..being loud obnoxious..getting kicked out of cabs.. ↑ |
oh geez I remember the first time i turned into a nana!! I wanted to cry :-(
You are giving too much and he is becoming dependant...baby number 3 He KNOWS you will take care of it all, Men are just twits! When the power shifts they sulk!
Sit down momo, put your feet up and let him do some of the mothering, every now and then they HAVE to walk in your shoes...Go out, get pissed before hand and let him clean up after you....let it hang out girl :-)))) Let him pick the kids up while you nurse your hangover...let him clean up after you have all eaten...buy plastic cutlery and crockery...HAVE A BREAK.
Finely orchestrate it and he will have an eye opening evening hahahahahaha ↑ |
