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Name: momo
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i find it funny..some of the moms at school can be so cliquey.i usally take rylin to school early to play on the playground (kindergardeners dont get a morning recess and until sept they dont even get a luch recess) .Last week a group of moms was , one in particular ,was really rude to me..but i brushed it off..i am there to watch my son..This morning i was walking to take him back there and the same very mom who was rude to me was running late for an appointment..so she asked if i could walk her son back there too..I said of course..id be happy too..

i just find it funny...inside i was laughing so hard..thinking so now you want to be nice..well mabe me being nice will make her think twice
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Name: cinner29 | Date: Aug 22nd, 2007 3:32 PM
I believe that we are not in control of the way people treat us (rude like her) but we are always in control of how we treat people.....I would have done the same thing as you did and walk her son......but to be honest, this may not change to way she is............If it does then you have made a friend.....if not then you were better off not knowing her............but I know you would still help her out if need be!!! 

Name: momo | Date: Aug 22nd, 2007 3:44 PM
yep better to kill people with kindness..a concep for me long in the making, but i think i got it now.. 

Name: maxieellis | Date: Aug 22nd, 2007 4:06 PM
yeah momo the gals are right.....and most of us can tell ya....there are lots of "those." Time will tell huh.....if she or others are worth YOUR time. Some have very "refined" ways. In other words......someone 'like" that may well in the end.....be just that......a rude or undesirable person. Know way to know for certain......that where time will do the explaining for you. Like you, I too feel........"sure." I'm there anyway......no troubles. Im now just cautious of the moms........who begin to EXPECT you do it for them. Its a fine line to walk.......but you do just as you have.....carry on.....let time make you aware...and just use ........caution. Your time is valuable too. Most importantly to your kids. Caution not to let others take up that time.........without "thought." 

Name: homemommichele | Date: Aug 22nd, 2007 9:29 PM
That is sad Momo, I have made most of my good friends here at the playground, later they ended up classmates of my son as well. There was a Mom here (they moved a few years ago) her dh worked at the tatoo parlor. She had tatoos all over and piercings...but I got to know her, very few did. She was the nicest woman and a GREAT Mom. Her little girl was my sons age and the politest, sweetest kid I ever met. God forbid I ever "judge a book by it's cover" and miss out on a great friendship like I had with her!!! 

Name: Judge.Judy | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 12:25 AM
Oh please! This kind of dynamic happens everywhere. Even on internet forums. Just look at the way many of you have treated some on here. I am sure more than one person has accused this forum of being a little cliquish. Grow a thick skin and get over it. If you live in a small town you better get use to people treating you this way. Small minded women in little towns always find someone to gossip about. There is usually one or two women about town they like to gossip about. What could they possibly have against you? 

Name: maxieellis | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 12:31 AM
i gotta run.........jj........are you on drugs??? What topic are you on??? like wtf???? you are sooooooooo lookin to piss someone off.......and its beginning to be clear who ya got a issue with. You cant help yourself. We have seen this here too a few times.

I aint agreein on this either.......your speal.......is outlandish and has no merit in this conversanion........the bouncin ball man....try and follow?? 


Name: maxieellis | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 12:39 AM
just slipin on my shoes.............damm good thing i dont live in a small town.....sure as hell aint and hasnt been for a long time now.. Cuz acording to you...yet again....small town women like to gosip.....???? Never.....have i come across a person in Vancouver that did that while living and working there??!!!! If you beleive that...................you are stoned llllllllllllllllmao!!!!!!!!!! 

Name: maxieellis | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 12:43 AM
sh*t.............*while i was living and working there*

now..........i gotta go see some "moves" lol........and maybe i can find a mom.....that wants to gossip!!??! HEY! JJ you can be the topic!!!!!! You dont mind right lllllllllllllmao! You expect it right?! Otherwise i guess I'm just assuming......sort of like you.
Tootles! It was fun......maybe another time. Have a great night JJ! 

Name: momo | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 12:58 AM
Why Why oh why is it that my posts are taken over by the great most knowlegable and thy queen Judge Judy..recognize a pattern anyone?

and another question is why are they taken over in a manner that really has nothing to do with the topic at hand...Never once was gossip mentioned in my post..gossip is not a bad thing..the mothers i was refering to me weren't gossipping..Cliques are everywhere..and thats fine..the post however was about a mother who said rude things to me and her group follow suit..and how i brushed it off to them and didnt involve myself in their wild banter..then helped the mother this morning..the post was about irony..the post was not about gossip..

what i think JJ lacks is reading comprehension..mabe that is a part that you failed in school..i dont know, but you sure lack a sense of someones writing..everyone else understood and answered acordingly..but you failed..so that tells me either your have problems with reading comprehension or you enjoy trying to get under my skin..i personally think it is both..but either way..it has become comical rather than irritating to know you have such precious problems with me.. 

Name: homemommichele | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 1:03 AM
JJ yes that is true, people are judgemental (notice the word I use....) and like that everywhere, but that does NOT make it right, nor does it feel good. Her point was that the woman was all nice when she wanted something, and that is pretty cold. My point was that being like that could make you miss out on some good friendships. 

Name: momo | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 1:05 AM
yes michelle it could..because i am a kick a$$ person to know ..LOL 

Name: kimber | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 3:11 AM
I don't know if I would have been as nice as you. 

Name: marija | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 3:44 AM
some people just stay rude too :-( they think themselves above others ....she probably thought YOU SHOULD walk her son in as you are going that way, besides that fact....SHE WAS LATE!!!! hahahahahaha. Theyre a dime a dozen. in small towns AND big cities.
i would of done the same thing as you...BUT....LOL if she continued to be rude to me, and then asked again...i would have no problem WHATSOEVER in looking her in the eye and saying NO...to me she has shown she has to learn to be courteous and polite :-)...not to mention that i too may be a kick ass mum and do i really want that person in my life????....i think not :-)
dont look the playground cliques in the eye....theyre evil ...evil i say!!!!........LMAO ...btw just kidding hehehehehehehe 

Name: .atomic snowflake | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 9:15 AM
I avoid the other parents at all costs because they are evil and dangerous. I only have one friend who's son is in my son's class......she's okay, but I avoid the rest of them like the plague! 

Name: Judge.Judy | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 11:48 AM
Well momo if the clique was rude to you, I can guarantee they were gossiping about you! By the way, what exactly did she do or say that was rude? 

Name: Dawn C. | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 1:03 PM
How can you guarantee that they were gossiping about momo?? Is it because that's how YOU behave? Or maybe you are more than a little paranoid and your self-esteem is in the gutter so you automatically assume everyone is talking about you. Hmmmmm...you've given me something to analyze now. 

Name: momo | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 2:36 PM
LOL dawn...too funny.. 

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