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Hi- I have grown to absolutly hate long car trips because no mater how little I drink before them, I ALWAYS HAVE TO GO PEE! And not just a little bit, either. Once I have to go, my parents pull over and I tear off my pants and go on the side of the road(we camp alot, so mostly on remote roads) I've done that since I was a little girl, but now I'm getting too old for that, so I have to wait for the nearest pit stop( sometimes 60 km). We've tried depends and everything, but they're not THAT absorbant we quickly learned! I've been to the doctor for it too and it's aparently not uncommon. But I can't stand it!! Does anyone have ANY advice on the matter? ↓
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| Name: emilyy | Date: Mar 19th, 2006 11:25 AM |
I understand what you're going through with that- my older sister is the same way. We have to pull over right away or else - well, you know!! My sister's 16, and has had it since she was a little girl, too. Only in the car, though. Wierd how that happens, eh? Probably just all the bumps and the motion of the car. What my sis does is wears depends and lets a little out at once, so it's tolerable. When she was younger, she went in a beach pail! (in the car- ewwwww) Sometimes I hear my sister whisper in her head -I'm going to make it-HA! She's yet to make it to the girls room. To make ya feel better, vicky, there was this one time not to long ago when we made it to the restroom, only to find it was out of order! And my sis, dana, wet her pants right then and there! so at least you only wet your pants in the car!! How old are you ? I'm 13, so my sis says I spend more times making fun of her than anything else, but I've grown to understand when dana gotta go, she really gotta go! Well, I hope this helped a little xxoo
emily ↑ |
| Name: Gertie :) :) | Date: Mar 19th, 2006 11:34 AM |
| Sounds like you got a problem, Vicky. I'm sure your friends and family understand- you should try talking to them about it. What I find works well is drinking a litre of water 2 hours before the trip, then practice holding it until right before you get into the car. This way, you empty your bladder, too. Like Emily asked, how old are you? If you're under 10, there's no problem pulling over- you sure aren't alone! ↑ |
| Name: vicky to emily and gertie | Date: Mar 19th, 2006 11:38 AM |
| I'm 14 ........ so I'm too developed to just pull down my pants infront of even my family!!! Thanks for the advice- I'm glad I'm not alone ;) ↑ |
| Name: Natalie | Date: Mar 19th, 2006 12:45 PM |
| I have a daughter who is 4 years old and just can't seem to ever be able to hold it...... we sing a happy song and try to distract her and it works-sometimes! ↑ |
| Name: rebecca] age 12 | Date: Mar 20th, 2006 6:46 PM |
| wow- i had no idea other peopl had this too....... i just dont tink about it....... but mostly i just go onthe side roads and stuff............ ↑ |
| Name: Bladder implant | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 5:52 PM |
| Why not have another bladder implanted into your abdomen next to your existing one? You will then have two bladders and twice as much room in which to store your pee! This extra capacity should be enough to last you your entire trip, although when you do have to go you will be peeing for hours! ↑ |
| Name: Emily P. | Date: May 12th, 2006 4:58 AM |
you could try to strengthen your PC muscles, the ones that hold in urine. You can find plenty of information on this online. The PC muscles run from the vagina to urethra, clenching your 'down there' muscles for like 5 minutes straight works them out. I work with a girl who used to go to the bathroom like three times an hour and her doctor suggested that therapy. You can do it yourself. My friend does three sets of five minute holds. Its worth a try!
It is unlikely that you truly have a small bladder, it is probably urethral muscle that is weak.
I am a college graduate with a Bachelors in Psychology from Indiana University and have taken many human physiology/biology courses. ↑ |
| Name: tia | Date: Aug 5th, 2006 12:08 PM |
| well i understand what ur going through, i have 2 wear diapers 2 bed and during the day cause i always have an accident. i even have pooping accidents. i try 2 it just happens. i even wear diapers 2 school. ive had a accident wear i wasnt wearing protection.- how embarrissing!! ↑ |
| Name: vicky | Date: Aug 14th, 2006 10:49 PM |
| yes my dad takes down my panties when he spanks me but its different getting a spakkng or making a pepe ikn front of dad ↑ |
| Name: to vicky | Date: Aug 15th, 2006 11:09 AM |
| you said your dad takes your panties down when he spanks you how old are you if you are older then 16 you are to old for your dad to see you without your panties on if you can't hold your pee then on a car trip you should were a diaper you could change back to panties when you get were your going. ↑ |
| Name: to Tia and vicky | Date: Aug 19th, 2006 8:20 AM |
| there are meds that can help please go to a doctor and find out about them I used to be a bedwetter and I often peed in my panties the dr. helped ↑ |
| Name: vicky | Date: Aug 19th, 2006 9:21 AM |
| ok i will see a doctor I don't want my dad to spank me just kiddying he never spanked in my life ↑ |
| Name: to vicky | Date: Aug 19th, 2006 11:12 PM |
| insted of a diaper you can were depands it works like a diaper but its thinner so it will look like you are wereing panties ↑ |
| Name: to vickey | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 3:08 PM |
| i wish my mother would let me wear depands everytime i pee in my panties they spank me and make me wear a diaper it no fun getting spanked and diapered in front of your friends im 16 im to old to be sp;anked. when i go to school in a diaper mom makes me wear rubber panties over my diaper so i wont leak ↑ |
| Name: ??????????? | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 3:02 PM |
| why would anybody spank their boy or girl for makeing a peepee in there pants ↑ |
| Name: to ??? | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 5:59 AM |
| I don't know I still wet the bed not all the time thank god my parents do not spank me ↑ |
| Name: Nancy | Date: Sep 9th, 2006 2:08 PM |
| Iam 18 female and pee my panties mom pulls down my panties turns me over her knee and spanks my bare fanny till its red and sore. ↑ |
| Name: David | Date: Sep 12th, 2006 1:27 PM |
| There is a mypth that not drinking will cause children to have to pee less, but the reality is that it makes them need to pee more often because their bladder isn't large enough. Start drinking more water during the day to enlarge your blatter and see if that helps ↑ |
| Name: Aemi | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 6:59 PM |
| I usually don't have trouble in the car, but when I get out sometimes it starts before I know it. I can stop it by holding myself, but then it burns when I get to the bathroom and go. ↑ |
| Name: Kevin -- Still In Diapers | Date: Sep 20th, 2006 6:08 PM |
This is a great topic....and I consider myself to be an expert on this subject.
Wetting and weak bladders is SO common. I've had it all my life too, and I still have to wear diapers 24/7 for it because my control didn't fully develop either. Luckily, I'm healthy, strong, toned, and fit as a fiddle. Being a wetter was OK for me growing up. My parents understood that I couldn't help it, and treated my wearing diapers and plastic pants as normal and natural for me. Like most kids, I felt comfortable about wearing them openly too, and often did so in nice weather ...or to show off in them for fun....and still do. Changes were (and still are) pretty much on a 3-4 hour schedule ... before I become leaky from being too saturated.
Today, wearing diaper protection is a practical and cool thing to do, and if the astronauts can wear them, so can everyone else.
Millions of kids, teens, and adults wear diaper protection either some of the time or all the time day and night...and more are discovering how practical and acceptable they are. Additionally, people of all ages are also discovering that wearing diapers are perfect for long trips, stadium events, and dealing with urgency when it hits.
About absorbancy...
Disposables:
Most of the disposables on the market cannot handle a large-flooding bladder release, and will leak ... MAJOR. Diapers such as Depend and other generic products are not adequate just by themselves for successful fluid containment and will almost always leak ... causing embarrassing wet pants.
For superior functionality, I recommend overnight absorbancy diapers (Attends, Tena Super, Abri Form X-Plus, Tranquility ATN, Molicare Classic) with booster liners or diaper doublers. Cloth diapers can also be folded inside, and are ideal as soakers. Also, even though disposable diapers are supposedly waterproof, I always wear plastic pants over them for added security. I have several pants in colors and prints that I like to mix and match with a tee or polo shirt. Combinations can make some very cool looking and really cute diaper sets ranging in styles for a babyish look ... to a more adult style.
Re-usables:
Cloth diapers are widely available for over the internet , and provide the most absorbancy because you can fold and layer several diapers inside the main one to make them as thick and thirsty as needed.
In the long run, the cost is only a fraction of what disposables are, and all you have to do is wash and dry them. Most people who use cloth diapers do wash every 2-3 days.
I wear a 26" x 34" prefold gauze diaper with several 34"x32" flat birdseye diapers folded inside as soakers. Although cloth diapers can tend bet bulky...especially when several diapers are layered as soakers... they are comfortable and feel nice to wear. Waterproof or plastic pants are all you need to wear over them, and as mentioned above, mixing them with a shirt makes a comfy and fun diaper set for casual wear around home and running around in for general outings and day trips where diapers can get changed (when needed) , put into a waterproof sack, then simply dropped into the diaper pail when you get home.
I'm very socially active, and am out and about several times a week. Wearing diapers allows me to have a full and active life without having to worry about inevitable potty accidents.
Last thoughts:
It's probably safe to assume that those who have posted here are Ok with and comfortable about wearing diapers, are able to do so without being embarrassed (or can get over being embarrassed), like wearing them, and that the readers are open minded to new thoughts and ideas.
One trick in preventing diapers from leaking and getting over- saturated is to ... "never cause a flood by releasing a full bladder". Since you are wearing diapers for one main purpose anyway, it's automatically assumed that you are going to wet them at some point in time and to some degree before you have to change into fresh ones.
If you're going to be wearing diapers for practical reasons...whatever they may be... make sure only to do small wets of no more than a few ounces at a time in them ... and at regular intervals of say 15 to 30 minutes. This will guarantee that you'll not only keep everything dry on the outside, but will increase the efficiency of the diapers so they will absorb wetness optimally in the most efficient manner, will be able to absorb multiple wettings ... and still remain comfortable. A thin layer of Vasaline Nursery Jelly never hurts to prevent diaper rash at any age.
Hope this helps:
Kevin
diaperKev@yahoo.com
Feel free to send feedback. ↑ |
| Name: hi | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 10:36 AM |
| Name: Hilary | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 2:17 PM |
| that is kinda like me when i have to pee i have to pee and if no one will stop then i pee my pants and i get yeld at if i do that and once i had to pee realy bad and i could NOT HOLD IT ANY LONGER and my friend was diving and she nos i have probles like that and she thogh it would be really funny to keep driving and let me pee my pants so i did pee my pants and when we got to her moms and dads thay saw and thay said that i have to go and change and then thay said thats they wanted to no how long i could hold it so i hald it for 5 mins when i had to go is thats preety bad or not? ↑ |
| Name: sara | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 5:11 AM |
| how could any parent spank there child or young adult for peeing in their bed or panties, i was spanked as a child but not for peeing in bed ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 5:48 PM |
| How about using one of those plastic thing's called a jane? If you can manuever well you could probably use it as you're riding and then dump it once you do stop. ↑ |
| Name: to lizzi | Date: Sep 30th, 2006 8:01 AM |
| what is a jane? i were a diaper and i do not like to so maybe a jane can help? thank you ↑ |
| Name: donna | Date: Oct 5th, 2006 8:09 PM |
| I think a jane is a plastic bottle that you put under your skirt and pee into ↑ |
| Name: ed | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 11:58 AM |
| Name: ED | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 12:03 PM |
| Name: Samantha | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 7:33 PM |
| i have the same problem and i get spanked with a belt and get put in baby dipers with no pants ↑ |
| Name: samantha again | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 7:39 PM |
| i get diperes and plasticpants put on me ↑ |
| Name: to sammanthaI approve | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 8:36 PM |
| I approve of spanking I still spank my 18yr old son but I do not approve of spanking for peeing in your panties ↑ |
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