Hi, my name is Liz and I am new to this. I am looking for some advice from you women out there that are in the same boat or from anyone that can offer advice. I am a full time working mother of 2. We have a 7 year old girl and a 5 year old boy. After we had our son, since we had one of each and because he wasn't the easiest child in the world, I could honestly say that we were done. Now, 5 years later. I am 32 and I am having an urge to have another child. My husband is not too fond of the idea but does not want to turn me down since this is something that I feel I really want, or do I? We have been trying to weigh the pro's and cons of having another child. One is the financial part of it, he seems to think that the baby would become a third will. He wants to be able to pack up and go, whether it be out of town or to the movie, he just thinks that a baby would tie us down more. I am trying to figure out if this is a hormonal thing that all women go through once they realize that their kids are not babies any more. I just don't want to regret the decision, whatever the decision may be. Any advice? ↓
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