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Name: Toobusy
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Need advice or opinions...I am 3 months pregnant and I just started a new job today. Since my husband is on unemployment right now, he is going to stay home with our 4 yr old daughter. I have worked before and done side jobs or classes and had to do everything. He did not help with his own laundry, hers or cleaning when we both worked. So, needless to say, I am nervous about how this is going to go. Anyways, today was my first day back to work. In the morning my husband was supposed to go pick up our daughter from his mother's house where she had spent the night since Saturday. By the way, his mother has just gotten out of the hospital a few weeks ago, is weak, can't walk far, won't do stuff for herself and still occasionally uses oxygen. We had agreed to let our daughter stay if his brother (who lives with her) was going to be around. Sooo, today, when I got home from my first day of work and wanted to see my daughter, I found his big gas guzzler gone, no child in her bed taking a nap like she was supposed to be, and my teenager home unexpectedly with three other teens. No note, didn't take his phone. Nothing. So I called his mother and she said she hadn't seen him. I said he was supposed to be there around 9 or 10 this morning. He shows up about 20 minutes after I call his mom. I am like, what is going on?? Why didn't you pick her up when you told me and your mother you would??? He said he just went there and no one was there. He said he did the dishes, played on the computer, watched a movie, something else, by now I am pissed and not listening that well. We argue and he thinks nothing was wrong. He didn't do anything wrong. I am wondering if I should be pissed. We both didn't want our daughter staying with just his mom when his brother was not there, which by the way his brother was at work all day. I didn't get to see my kid when I got home, now I have to go make a special trip to go get her. He wasted a ton of gas $ by doing this and also left teenagers at home alone. So he also decides to finally go pick her up at what should be the middle of her nap time, duh. I am pissed and frustrated. I just seems like he was enjoying the day and taking advantage of the situation and was studpid enough to drive all the way into town during what should be our kids nap time. Can't even think or stick to plans or a schedule. Should I be mad, would you?
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