| Name: Jamie | Date: Apr 12th, 2009 1:29 PM |
| Oh...mine ranks up there I tell ya...there's an old saying "the new broom sweeps clean" oh it was nice in the beginning....we did things, he was kind, made good money...6 years later..i have the asshole from hell.. he tells me I'm fat..but when I"m on my treadmil trying to do a power workout with my tunes blasting..he'll come in the room and shut it off ..so he can watch TV (oh, like a five year old child..he watches the simpsons, college co-ed girls, anything that has absolutely no ounce of brainpower or educational purposes whatsover). Mind you we have 4 TV's in our house..but he has to watch THAT one. he tells me I'm a loser..and to get a job..which I have working from home..it sucks I hate it..but when Im scheduled to go on..I give him a heads up to please not go upstairs..I need total quiet. What does asshole do? he purposely removes the babygate that I have in place and let's my too very loud barking dogs upstairs...every freakin' time!!!!!! cuz he needs to make a sandwich..and of course needs the dogs right next to him while he does this 10 feet away from my office. .one sudden bark..and I lose my job..and then I'm BIPOLAR..I need pills..he's freakin addicted to Vicadin. he's a freakin mechanic..what do we have 3 piece of shit cars..that barely make it to walmart and back....he's a trucker..what do i do?..go get a freakin CDL 4 years ago to dirve with him...now i don't drive cuz I'm too 'stupid" and will wreck the truck. 3,000 down the drain..i pay 600.00 a month to him EVERY month..he tells me I don't pay shit and need to work a little harder..well maybe asshole if you didn't try to scam the government out of taxes we would be able to refinance the house..but he shows no "salary" and now we are screwed paying 1,200.00 on the mortgage. he's carrying the mortgage..but im on the deed too..he tells me F U...when we sell ill get 40,000 and you will get 5,000 that's all you put into this house..WTF? im been cleaning and taking care of this place since day one. oh he gave me a piece of shit ring..5 years ago...r we married no thank god.. i will leave in a heart beat..but now if I do..I have to "rent" a place with me, my two dogs, and two cats. all I can say I better get with the program..im 39 have the world ahead of me...and Im with boring a-hole who sits around and watched TV all day....ya think the bastard ever compliments me on my dinner? oh hell no..eeewww what's this? Fuck You...i bet your sweet ass a lot of men would be happy to have someone cook for them...and when we go to dinner...who has a coupon? me..trying to save this idiot a freakin buck...my "big night out consists of running to the local buffet, chowing down..then driving back home...r u f''ing kidding me? and he only does this to shut me up. stop feeding me bread crumbs asshole. you sabotage every part of me..emotially, physically. and you want a "young hot girl"? grow up..loser..you r turning 50 next month...and by the way..get a set of freakin teeth...tired of looking at your gums flapping. ↑ |
| Name: jill | Date: Apr 15th, 2009 7:05 PM |
| OMG girl. They must all b like that my hubby pretty much does the same thing, but when he wakes my child up he puts her back to sleep. then its back to the bedroom for u kno what. Make up is the BEST stress reducer for me. hope this message helped you out. ↑ |
| Name: LittleMiss | Date: Apr 22nd, 2009 1:24 PM |
| Haha, Nice Jill, nice method of relieving stress. :-p ↑ |
| Name: his kamar | Date: Apr 24th, 2009 3:35 AM |
| well i think all men are assholes!!!!!! to begin with...my wonderful husband is addicted to work..all he does is talk about it..the worst part he work nights and i wait up for him.he geds a 30 minute break and a (2) 15 minute break through the night..mean while im waiting for these calls..that never come..always a lame excuse..so i send him a text to his cell phone..letting him know that he is missed..calls me on his lunch break for 2 minutes and his partner comes back and he hangs up on me and says ill call you when im done eating...so as dumb as i am..i waited ..he calls me back 15 minutes later just to tell me the time he was supposed to call me he calls his retarded work buddies and told me his lunch is over.what a winner he is...he just causes me so much stress ↑ |
| Name: Ashley | Date: Apr 26th, 2009 10:34 PM |
| My husband is always bitching and negative about everything. He never says anything nice to me or does anything nice for me. If he wants to do something, he throws a fit if I don't want to do it too. If we are out and I want to go home cuz I'm tired (I'm 5 months pregnant right now), he gets mad and throws a fit in front of our friends. It embarassing! And in the middle of all this, he calls me a psycho!! I don't get it. I am so calm and he's the one yelling and freaking out. That makes ME the psycho? He drives me crazy and pushes my buttons all the time. He doesn't care about me. We haven't had sex in over 2 months. He says its weird because I'm pregnant. He needs to get over it cuz I am one of those horny-more-than-normal pregnant women. I am so frustrated and I have had it with him. I drive everywhere we go and he gets to drink. Even when I'm not pregnant, that's what happens. Sometimes I wish I never would have married him. I feel like I deserve a guy who will do stuff for me like rub my feet, buy me flowers for our anniversary and tell me I'm beautiful even though I'm 5 months pregnant. He doesn't do any of that stuff. I always do nice stuff for him and I get nothing in return except a bitchy attitude and negative responses to everything I say. I am so sick of him!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: lucasmommy06 | Date: Apr 28th, 2009 5:14 PM |
| Ohh ive got that from my boyfriend many times i work from 7-3 pick up our son go grosery shopping cook dinner and all he do when he comes home is to sit and watch tv i i could kill him when he says why are you so tired you didnt do anything... When i was on maternity leave he said it many times then i just started to wash me and our sons chlotes and make dinner for the two of us only and when his dirty chlotes didnt go to the laundryroom i put it in the yard now he never says anything anymore... And ive tired to leave our son with him from he wakes up til hes going to bed and he told me when i got home "man i dont know how you can do it everyday"...lol ↑ |
| Name: jodi | Date: May 4th, 2009 5:29 PM |
| I worked a super long day amost 3 hours. Iam super tired and my husabned wanted me to touch his pee pee. what nerve, iam steaming. please help me I don't know what to do. ↑ |
| Name: jennifer | Date: May 5th, 2009 6:41 PM |
| Hell yea my husband does this so finnally he halfass cleans up the house and when i say it looks like a mess he accuses me of being lazy when i bring in more money than him while going to school i dont have a job im disabled but two weeks ago i did everything in the house even his part the dishes so that he would be caught up and come home to a clean house then i cleaned my house before that for HIS father to come and visit cause he sat on his ass all week and did nothing and said well i was waiting on you i was doing homework and miraculously my areas are clean we dont even got kids and he is an ass hes great when he wants to be but when hes an ass hes an ass ↑ |
| Name: Donna | Date: May 8th, 2009 10:38 PM |
| Men are rediculous, helpless creatures who somehow have a need to feel superior in the face of incompetence and dependence. They simply can't handle what women do & will never admit it. WHY would anyone bite the hand that feeds them?? Why do they feel a need to beliitle a person who handles twice what hey can?? ↑ |
| Name: CARRIE | Date: May 9th, 2009 3:13 AM |
| I hear you.... my husband is an amazing ass hole, f--king dick. He won't answer his phone calls when I call him when he is suppose to be home. He says he dosen't thing he should have to answer every time I call. MIND YOU!! It is now 9:30 at night and he was suppose to be home by 6 at the latest. SO, I said to him, " remember you stinkin' words", cause from now on I am NOT going to answer his phone calls for any reason. That is just bullshit. When he is away at hotels on work. He always has an aswer why he can't anwer right awy. Aside from being so drunk he cannot anser. If he does, he falls asleep on the phone while I am talking to him. Don't worry, I am already filing for a divorce. Only he doesn't know....I just inherited 3.5 million from my great Aunt just 3 days ago. I am having them hold it until I am "offically" divorced. Thank you very much. His lose....my final resting heart place....I can't wait to to for him to be out of my life. ↑ |
| Name: christine | Date: May 10th, 2009 2:59 AM |
| My ashole husband is outside with his friends right now doing what he does best, drinking beer. He is so boring I mean thats the only way he can socialize is with a beer in his hand. I'm realy mad right now because tomorrow's Mother's Day and we were going to go out to dinner tonight for my gift, but he was "so tierd" and now is relaxing w/ his dumb friend. Every time we argue its about money or disciplining our kids. He just gets on my nerves ↑ |
| Name: julia | Date: May 11th, 2009 11:55 PM |
| my husband thinks im too strong minded and have an opinion and dont give him enough sex and blow jobs! i gave him one two days ago and he is complaining!! i just dont get it. where do they get off! ↑ |
| Name: Sorry | Date: May 13th, 2009 11:59 PM |
| Name: LISA S | Date: May 15th, 2009 1:19 PM |
| Here's a good one, just say when they have a problem with you work ethic. You know the stuff that You say I dont do, well today I didnt do it, so thats why the house is a mess. ↑ |
| Name: GOD | Date: May 15th, 2009 2:54 PM |
| You women have way to much time on your hands if you can come here with your little sob stories....Grow up...If you dont like what your man is doing, don't play games...Your just gonna make it worse, no two men are alike, so no approach should be the same. What you need to do is disappear for a day or two with the kids to a hotel and say that you are trying to cool of and maybe see what it is like cause he is an ass...Oh but the nagging on the ladies part is killer. Don't say you don't nag because every women was born with the ungodly talent to annoy the shit outta her man.. If he pisses you off ignore him with silence...He may take a day or so to realize that everything he does from breathe air to no do the dishes is quieter...Then he will think something is wrong....And trust me you will always have to ask men to do things....We don't come home and think of doing shit around the house...because it isn't important to us..So either live with it or find a way to share the load of irresponsibility. ↑ |
| Name: Tara | Date: May 15th, 2009 11:13 PM |
| My husband and I have 2 kids one who receives Occupational and Physical Therapy. While I bend every which way to make the therapy possible, he finds the time to go out after classes instead of coming home. He seems to do any and everything to get out of being a father. He uses us as trophies but never puts forth the effort. ASSHOLE ↑ |
| Name: Anna | Date: May 18th, 2009 6:03 PM |
| My husband used to say the same thing..we would argue about something and he would be like.."you dont do anything all day i dont see why you're mad or upset or sad..maybe even depressed"...even though i took care of my child alll day..he stopped saying that crap after he took care of him for a day... ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: May 19th, 2009 7:39 PM |
| Okey do you want to know about my asshole of a husband? We have been married for 12 almost 13 years and I have two children from a previous marriage they are now 15and my oldest just turned 18 and will be graduating from H. S. this week. My husband has always picked on my oldest son and I have always defended him because my husband is the one with a real problem. He is emotionally abusive .My children are will behaved kids and do very well in school and marching band. my oldest will be going to college this fall. My husband says that now that Jake is 18 he can get out and get a job because he is not supporting his ass anymore. Well my son does have a job, he wont start unil next week, and my paycheck and the boys s.s.i supports them. My boys father passed when they were little. The ssi helps pay for food for them as well as all of there needs. My husband calls me and the boys,"u people", as if we are not his family. He goes through the house F n this and F n that. I dont use that language nor do my boys and I dont like it one bitt. I would have left him a long time ago if is was not for my health. I need his insurance and my paychecks are not much but they help. I have lupus and I cant count on my health enough to support myself if I were to leave. I would have no place to go and as of now well the last 8 years we live in my home town and the boys go to the school I went to. My parent live by . My mother tells me all the time to just tallorate it and go to our bedrooms when he starts in and just to pretend the he is like the wallpaper on the wall. got to go here he comes ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: May 19th, 2009 8:22 PM |
| Okey I am back, anyway what I was saying is that I am so emotionally tired and so are the boys. I just might have to take the chance and leave. I just hate living my home the home that I made for the boys and I. Plus I take care of a 90 year old lady who lives with us. Life just can never be easy for one day. I would just like to have peace in my life. The boys are almost growen up , my youngest is almost 16 and will be in 11th grade and like I said my oldest is going to college in the fall. My husband acts like he resents us for just being here. Sometimes I fall into a deep depression when he goes on like he does but I pull myself out of it so that my boys wont see. My husband blames me for every thing that goes wrong in his life. He should be happy because despite of how he is I have been a very good wife to him in every way. Well almost everyway. I dont much feel like making u know what when he acts like he does. Its not much of a turn on. I work,all these years, I keep the house very clean and laundry done up, I take care of all the cooking, good home cooking everyday, the boys share in chores around the house like mowing, taking trash out and recycling, and they help with any other things that come up like painting, cutting tree branches, weeding out the flower beds, and the 90 year old likes to fold the towls for me. We all keep going, all my husband has to do around here is go to work mon- fri. I have always showed my appreciation to him and have told him that I appreciate him. not good enough for him I guess. Well thanks for letting me vent today. Good luck to you all, Michele ↑ |
| Name: Deb | Date: May 24th, 2009 9:33 PM |
| Oh honey, i feel your pain..I work part time and i am a full time mother of 2 boys. 4yrs and 2yrs..I consistently pick up after everyone, cook, clean and sometimes do 5 loads of laundry in a day, while keep the kids entertained all day.. My husband works nights, and when he gets off of work, instead of coming home and beign responsible, he sits at work playing darts and drinking beer, while he could be hanging out with me...I get a fucking guilt trip when i do yoga on a wednesday evening..which is pretty much my life..The only break i get is when the kids go to bed and the bottle of wine i have for me to decompress by myself..My list of complaints abput my husband could go on and on, and this is the first time i felt like googling "why is my husband a asshole" cause i continuously feel unappreciated..I am called lazy when i sit down for 1 hour while he is home and has to watch the 2yr old outside, so i can rest for a second..He thinks he is a babysitter, when I am like, NO ASSHOLE you are their father you moron, start acting like it.. Its insane what we have to deal with, but we are sensitive women, and those women that get those men that do the half, i know that it isnt perfect everywhere else..I take what i can get and settle, but when he complains about the little things it makes my blood boil! He gets more freedom and time to play while i try to keep this family in order..I love my husband, but yes, and even he knows it, and people all the time say it, he is a asshole!!! ↑ |
| Name: I have an asshole husband too! | Date: May 29th, 2009 2:05 AM |
| It must be a male specific trait that only becomes more obvious when a child is involved. Instead of being in bed sleeping at 1AM I'm venting to someone I don't even know because my husband doesn't seem to get it that he's such an inconsiderate jerk! I don't even want to get into the long story all over again, let's just agree that it's who they are and the best you can do is not let it affect you to the point where you 're raging pissed & losing sleep over their stupidity! Sometimes I wonder if I was really meant to be married? Or meant to be married to him. ↑ |
| Name: CaliMama08 | Date: May 29th, 2009 11:51 AM |
| Lol.. take a deep breath sister, yes.. he was kinda ***. It ever happened to me to several times, but every time he was snappy at me, I whopped his *** lol and I think he got tired of it and don't want to mess with me anymore. I did like what everybody said, don't cook dinner, ignoring him, don't do his laundry, everything that can make his day miserable lol.... kinda mean but hey.. it's work..:) ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: May 29th, 2009 9:35 PM |
| I don't know how much more I can take. I am really feeling depressed today. All these years of putting up with such an asshole has wore me down mentally and emotionally. My health has got so bad sense we were married 12 1/2 years ago. I am stuck in a bad unloving controlling marriage and I feel so hopeless. I wish I was young again so that I could have the strength and health to start over again however feeling like I do now I would never merry again. I am 39 and I feel like I am 70. My son just graduated this past weekend and my other son is almost 16. I try my best day by day but today the depression has won me over. Please ladies if you are young enough and in a bad marriage do something about it now, don't wait and then become like me. I don't promote devorce at all but I would suggest getting some help if needed. Best of luck to you all. I will keep checking post. Michele ↑ |
| Name: ss | Date: Jun 4th, 2009 9:51 PM |
| Yes i woukld like to vent . mine is a bigger asshole !!!!!!!!!! he is fat bastard who does not care for me . some times i wonder whaere he came from . and why did i choose to marry him . i fear if i hve this same thought more than once a month , i might need to quit on this relationship ! ↑ |
| Name: kat | Date: Jun 6th, 2009 7:49 PM |
| My husband is just an asshole, im prego so im extra tired but i still keep the house clean and i take care of our son. I was fortunate enough to be able to quit my job about a week ago. But one of the nights i was working he got drunk and was helping a neighbor move. I came home and went to bed but the next morning i couldnt find my 2year olds sons guitar. Turns out in his drunk state he gave it to the neighbors little girl. I payed 100$ dollars for that and he just gave it away, it was Evans not his and now its gone. Im so pissed all i can see is red and to top it off all he wants is sex and i dont want to touch him, Then he gets mad at me for not doing it, and today since i wouldnt do it with him he left. I dont expect him back for a few days.. Now tell me thats not a dick of a hubby what was i thinking marrying him then quitting my job i feel double screwed ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: Jun 6th, 2009 8:52 PM |
| Dear Kat, Yes your husband sounds like an ass and he sounds like he has not growen up yet. He also sounds like he is self pleasing and not considerate of your feelings at all. You are still young it sounds so stand up for yourself so you dont end up like me, hopeless. You deserve to be treated with respect.. insist on it or he can please himself. Best of luck. Michele ↑ |
| Name: Tara | Date: Jun 7th, 2009 6:15 PM |
| Mine is in the asshole club as well. He leaves for ny tommorrow for work. His plane leaves at 7:50am and we literally live 15 minutes from the airport. He tells me he is waking up at 5:00 am. I said can't you wake up a little later? He gets mad and tells me I am selfish!!! Excuse me I do not want to wake up my two year old at that time! He gets all mad and says he is waking up at 5:00 because he will feel better about things. Ugggggggg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Needless to say I haven't spoken to him since! ↑ |
| Name: a pissed wife | Date: Jun 13th, 2009 2:14 PM |
| Yeah my husband is an asshole too! He constantly critisizes me and says i am demotivated and always tired, he is a freak ↑ |
| Name: help me... | Date: Jun 19th, 2009 12:05 AM |
I agree, show him how to appriciate you by stopping what you do. Go on strike!!
I hope you don't mind if I ask advice...
Before we were married, my husband cheated on me with two girls. No sex, just make out sessions. It hurt when I found out both times. Women throw themselves at him because he is handsome, funny, and artistic, and his will power is none. After our marriage, he swore to me that he only had eyes for me. Well, I have always been a skeptic and after he came home at 3am "hanging out with the boys" I searched his car and found a pair of panties. This was yesterday. We have a very happy amrriage other than this shit, really we do. We get along perfect, our home is nice, our 3 kids are happy, we have alot of fun. What should I do? He told me that they made out and she slipped off her panties, and he stopped her. He told her that he was happy in his relationship with me and he didn't want to f it up. Please don't state how he is lying and they had sex, I believe that they didn't do the deed. Who cares anyway, it is still cheating to me. What should I do guys? ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: Jun 19th, 2009 3:03 PM |
I am sorry for all that you have had to go through however I think that it was foolish of you to merry this man knowing he would not be faithful. I think that you are in some denial and that you need to wake up. You deserve much better for your life and well being. You are a door mat to this man and he knows it that is why he does what he does, and you believing that he just made out with a girl and her panties came off but now sex, Please!!!!!!!! What man would get him self all worked up and then stop??? Wake up girl, I know you asked us to not to comment on his cheating but you really need to get your head out of the sand. No man is worth your insanity. I do wish you the best but for yourself I think you need to look deep inside yourself and ask some questions and get real. You only live once and wouldnt it feel good to have someone who really loves you. He does not because if he did he would not even think about being with other girls, kissing or what not. You asked for advice and I hope that you dont take it the wrong way or be upset with me, I really want to help and I hope nothing but the best for you.
Michele ↑ |
| Name: H | Date: Jun 19th, 2009 6:43 PM |
| mine is just a dick with no love in his eyes. totally insensitive and rude. doesn't appreciate anything i do and i feel expects it. probable the standard i set b/c of the self sufficiency i had before him. ↑ |
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