| Name: rohnda | Date: Sep 2nd, 2007 10:13 PM |
| Name: Avril | Date: Sep 5th, 2007 6:58 AM |
| How about this I was invited to join two girlfriends at a restuarant for a girls night out, which I welcomed seeing that I never do anything like this anymore, I made arrangements with my other half to look after the kids while I will be gone, and he agrees, only to be phoned and told by my sister that my baby is crying!!!!!!! At first I thought somethin was wrong with my baby love only to find that sheer selfishness was in operation, my husband and father of my kids left the baby with my sister, but now my sisters baby became feverish and he was crying which made it near to impossible for her to give any real attention to my baby, whereas her father just left and visited his father, I wanted to kill him but then decided it still will be to generous of myself. I went back home and picked my baby out, and continued my meal with my little angel by my side and decided not to ask anything nor to comment and just go my way and believe you me it was very good to my well being, he on the other hand was filled and devoured by feelings of guilt and I think he expected me to say something and vent my frustration and he got nothing, I can still see the worry in his eyes, Do you think I should make him suffer some more!!!!!! Becuase this was real serious, I think some people get divorced over things like that! ↑ |
| Name: Rhianna | Date: Sep 7th, 2007 5:18 PM |
My husband suffers from captain save-a-ho syndrom coupled with croninic lying. He has no regards for my feelings and his answer to every thing is I'll move out but we still lived at his parents house with our 5 children. Oh yeah he'll leave me there while he go hop on Ho train which is weeks long. I know the what the answer is but it 's hard!!! This last episode he went over to his neice and nephews house to help thier mother whom he's had an affair paint and clean her hjouse. Lied about it!! Then go pick up his niece whom is in her 20's and lkive with her cousin whom he's been trying to "get " with for a minute and LIED about it . When confronted about it he laughs and tells me to quit "getting butt tight " what the hell does that mean?
Now if I done anything close to that I'd been fuckin g everyone one in the 25 mile radius. ASSHOLE ↑ |
| Name: Allie | Date: Sep 7th, 2007 6:09 PM |
| They are all the same I love my Husband however.... they think it is the wife that should take care of the child (all the time). I work full time and take my little one to work with me, but he still thinks that he works the most and the hardest. I get up at night when the baby needs anything if I ask Jarrod to get up he says I have to get up at 5:00am to go to work. 1st of all we run a Marina and we live there. So going to work is walking outside. Now I have to get the baby and me ready so I can go to work. He goes to work and gets a brake. I just don't get it. When I get home he is so tryed I just want to shoot him. ↑ |
| Name: koolma | Date: Sep 9th, 2007 10:12 AM |
| Mine loves to say, "well someone has to make the money areound here" He had the balls to allocate 15% of his overtime pay to go into a savings account that he opened on his own to which I have no access. Si, if we have a big payment, like our six month insurance premium or the yearly balloon payment on the principle of our home loan, I have to ASK him to please transfer the funds. ↑ |
| Name: forget Husbands | Date: Sep 10th, 2007 8:24 AM |
| yes i understand how you feel. I am a mother of two nd a wife 2 one. My husband does not care how i feel what so ever. He is six foot 2 232lbs. He beats me each and everyday nd my child also. I am scared when i come home from work. My baby has bruises all over her body and when i come home most of the time he DEMANDS sex, so if i don't give it to him i get hit. nd if i don't moan nd make it seem like im having an orgasm he gets angry with me. ↑ |
| Name: Lana | Date: Sep 10th, 2007 10:10 PM |
| yeah, my husband is probably the biggest fucker of all...not even needing to exaggerate. drunk, asshole, blah blah beligerent - and now the fucker has given up alchohol (mind you, it's only been 1 1/2 weeks so far), so he's throwing tons of shit in my face now - not like i don't have 10 years worth to throw in his. he's a capital a-hole. ↑ |
| Name: Cris | Date: Sep 12th, 2007 1:32 AM |
Dear Forget-Husbands,
Please, please get out somehow!!! Your health and your baby's safety are on the line. There are places to go to be safe. Your message makes me want to cry. Anyone else who is being abused, please call your local women's shelter and get help getting away from those assholes!!! ↑ |
| Name: Jen | Date: Sep 15th, 2007 11:58 AM |
| My Husband is the same way, he does whatever benifits him and him alone!!!! I thought after our son came that he would change things a little bit do what is best for his son at least!!!! I work evenings and or nights, he works during the day. All I ask is that he gets done at a reasonable time to pick our son up from his mother's. Can he do it????????? No, by the time I get home at 11pm he is just getting home from his mothers!!! Who the hell knows what he does after he leaves work which is suppose to be 6pm not 11pm, I try asking him and he blows up at me over a simple question!! I have tried talking to him but he gets so defensive and mad that I would just rather not talk to him about it anymore. Right now Im waiting for him to get home so we can go to a family wedding, he said 2 hours at the most well its going on 4!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! ↑ |
| Name: emily | Date: Sep 15th, 2007 7:20 PM |
| My husband told me that I am also lazy. I am a stay at home mom. You know why because 2 years after we got married we got custody of 4 kids of his from a previous marriage. That makes 6 total. I had to quit my job and stay at home. We want the same pair of pants washed everynight. He wants just a perfect living room when he gets home from work. HELLO we have 6 kids trashing the place!!! Now I am on bed rest with a difficult pregnancy and like today he is bitching about the things I usually do for the kids that he takes for grantied. I would much rather work, but with his added kids to the bunch it is not cost effective. Men are jerks! ↑ |
| Name: Miss Led | Date: Sep 15th, 2007 11:36 PM |
My husband is so damn cheap I have to work 2 jobs to support my self while he supports his daughter and her dead beat husband . He has also told me before that I was lazy , this coming from the man who supports his daughter who won't work and her husband who works when he feels like it.
Every week she's over here getting money for something but if my car needs worked on I have to take it and pay to get it fixed while he'll pay for whatever she wants and work on her car for free.
Call me selfish but isn't marriage supposed to be a 50 / 50 relationship. Men are such jerks... ↑ |
| Name: 1depressedwife | Date: Sep 20th, 2007 2:31 AM |
| I would like to give my husband the worst husband in the world award he is never home, doesnt work, and won't even do any chores around the house not to mention that he got in a car accident in my car never paid for it then tried to make me seem like the bad guy for getting mad at him when he did it, gosh I never thought I could hate a person so much until I married this man and I have hated him for the last two years he is the asshole of all assholes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :{ ↑ |
| Name: 1depressedwife | Date: Sep 20th, 2007 2:36 AM |
| p.s. does any one know of any chat rooms designed for fed up wives to vent and bash their husbands I think that would make me feel better about being stuck with such a lost cause to know that I am not alone ? ↑ |
| Name: Marie | Date: Sep 21st, 2007 1:24 AM |
I work all day 12 hours, my husband sits on his ass in front of the computer and draws pictures. When I get home after work, food is not cooked, laundry is not done, and even sink dished are stinking from the night before. Today...he called me a loser, because my job does not require imagination. I just cried...I work more than full time, I clean and cook and do laundry. He stays home "working" and complains all the time about how it is everyone's fault that he's not a millionaire yet.
I just cry...I give this marriage everything I have got and I am still a loser . ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Sep 21st, 2007 10:25 PM |
| Ummm, yeah, sorry, Ihave one of the worst husbands. he had an affair last winter-she claimed she was pregnant(unprotected sex). Pretended he was "working" on our marriage and has been sleeping with 4 other women. He was actively trying to sleep with many more. I broke his email code and discovered what a male wh*re he is. Absolutely devastating. Worse-he is trying to justify this whole thing to our kids-placing the blame on me. I have had to be tested 2x for STDs-ENOUGH!! The pictures of these women places them as high risk women. Ladies-I have discovered a terrible place in some of these internet sites-know where your husbands are going!! ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Sep 21st, 2007 10:29 PM |
| Ummm, yeah, sorry, I think I have one of the worst husbands. He had an affair last winter-she claimed she was pregnant(unprotected sex). Pretended he was "working" on our marriage and has been sleeping with 4 other women at the same time. He was actively trying to sleep with many more. I broke his email code and discovered what a male wh*re he is. Absolutely devastating. Worse-he is trying to justify this whole thing to our kids-placing the blame on me. I have had to be tested 2x for STDs-ENOUGH!! The pictures of these women places them as high risk women. Ladies-I have discovered a terrible place in some of these internet sites-know where your husbands are going!! ↑ |
| Name: she | Date: Sep 21st, 2007 10:58 PM |
| you have no idea!!!! "control freak" (my husband) is now having a tantrum because our 5 year old is not putting the toppings on our home-made pizza exactly the way HE wants. It is all about HIM all the time. I feel like I have 4 children instead of 3 children and one husband. ↑ |
| Name: amy2 | Date: Sep 24th, 2007 6:03 PM |
ye my man says it as well, we both work durin t wk, i wrk prt tme, but come hme and mind 2 kids 3 dogs, cook clean do the shoppind the gardening, look after my dad who just had stroke, and when i ask him to get up on sat morn so i can just have an xtra hour his reply is
"A BABY IM IN WORK ALL WEEK THIS MY DAY OFF" when do women get a day off? ↑ |
| Name: Alicia | Date: Sep 25th, 2007 12:48 AM |
| I can not stand my husband right now!!! My first husband passed away about 4 years ago. I met this man at church, omg, yea right!!!! He told me when we first got married, that I did not have to work. Then, after I had been sick, he was verbally abusive and so mean to me. Pressuring me, etc...while all the while he is hoarding his money!! He has money but does not spend it, when he does, he complains and give ME a guilt trip!! Never brings me any flowers, and has not made love to me - well, one time since last April of this year!!! I doubt he is having an affair because he is on depression medicine. I am back to work now, but have been so sick since we have gotten married. My 7 year old son now has behavior problems, my husband pretty much ignores both of us. I feel like we are a burden. I can not stand this anymore, he has made me use all my money for bills...I can not afford to leave. I almost feel like packing up, putting my things into a storage space and then I will stay at a shelter. I can not stand to be treated like this anymore. Tonight he hung up on me 2 times. Screw him!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Alicia | Date: Sep 25th, 2007 12:50 AM |
| Oh yea, I forgot to tell ALL of you!!! I was MUCH HAPPIER when I was alone!!! Now I have gained 10 lbs, and am just plain sad...I don't know what to do. ↑ |
| Name: RE:Alicia(1depressedwife) | Date: Sep 27th, 2007 1:34 AM |
| I can feel your pain too about the weight gain I got back with my husband in 02/07 and I had lost 30 lbs, I was at 165 now I am 191 , my hair is falling out, and I spent about 2 months on stress leave from my job as embarassing as it might be to say he even drove me into the worst depression ever causing me to cut myself now I wear scars on the outside as well as the inside and he just comes and goes as he pleases for weeks at a time without even calling me, but I am so weak now and I use to be a very strong woman in every thing that I did I am trapped in this marriage and I know that no other man would ever want to love me or be with me because my husband didn't just put me at risk of a std he gave me one that happens to be incurible so how do you tell a new man that your bastard of a husband gave you herpes and really expect him to be in your corner. I dont know what else to say ladies except my husband has took all of the essence that i once had within me ↑ |
| Name: clshadrick | Date: Sep 27th, 2007 4:02 PM |
| girl, I know how you feel, my husband says the same thing. Except my husband works nights and I work days so when I get home, its just me and kaylee. No daddy to help. Just mom. Then all day he gets to sleep with no distractions, like a crying baby. TMen have no idea what we wifes and mothers go through to provide for there family's. Ya, dads make the money, and little old mom does nothing, besides hold down a full time job, get up eariler then the family and get yourself ready, then the kids, put them in and out of car for school. Go to work, work hard, rush, rush, rush....... ect. then get into car and load kids in and out of car to go home, cook dinner and clean up kitchen and well mothers you know the rest. Love making time, and they wonder why we are so tired. Screw men that don't care. ↑ |
| Name: Sam | Date: Sep 30th, 2007 3:20 AM |
| Yeah, husbands are such complete poisonous assholes. I would have bailed on mine a long time ago if it weren't for our 2 girls, who he's really great with. Mine had the gall to tell me at one point that he gets to bail on housework because he makes "most of the money" in the household. He was only making about 8k more than me (not a huge difference, %wise). I never let him forget that one. He's also said at one point during an argument that I'm bad at my job, and that I'm a bad wife and a bad mother to boot. Mine's a real gem. ↑ |
| Name: jenniferb | Date: Oct 1st, 2007 4:27 PM |
| yes may of time i have 3 kids of my own 2 of them which are my ex husbands and one we have together they are 7, 3, and 7 months my husband ask me all the time why i am so tired if i dont ever do anything raiseing 3 kids is a job in its self plus i work ↑ |
| Name: she | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 11:47 PM |
| so..I'm the one with the control freak about the pizza. Well, he snuck out the other night and got a DUI - he blew .18 - more thantwice the legal limit. This will cost me and my children THOUSANDS of dollars, plys I will have to lie to everyone to cover HIS SORRY ASS] ↑ |
| Name: Annette | Date: Oct 8th, 2007 5:25 PM |
| My husband has said worse. Men are simple, slow minded creatures. They think that since they go to a job five days a week, they deserve to be waited on hand and foot. they do nothing around the house, they just shit, sleep, play video games, burp, fart, pick their noses, jack off and expect everything else done for them. Most of the time, they probably goof off at work too, either crusing the web for the port stars they think they deserve, or standing around making crass comments with their work buddies. I pretty much hate all of them and have better sex with my vibrator. Good Luck honey. ↑ |
| Name: Rennie | Date: Oct 10th, 2007 7:30 PM |
| I'm not sure what to say...except I got the same crap said to me. My husband was on a course in TX, and was gone for 2 weeks. We don't have kids, been together 5 years married 6 months. We made plans to talk every night for abut 5 to 10 minutes, so when I called him on Friday night, he told me he was sitting in a bar watching football, and hung up. I called him back and asked who he was with and this started WW5!!! He refused to answer my calls, texts, hotel messages for 1 week!!! When he got home, honestly, I didn't no what the hell to expect! I'm still walking on eggshells and it's been 5 days since he's been home. He is such an ass. He rants all the blame on me...but guess what...I still love him...go figure! Then yesterday, he came home grabbed a garbage bag and started to through out the mail, newspapers, and his bottle of beers that I didn't bother to throw out and he cussed me out as having a pigsty house. My friends will confess, I'm an obsessive cleaner so go figure that one out? I lelft a good job to marry him and move to AR. Now he is cutting me off $$$ and complains that I don't contribute anything to the house...Well who the f**K does he thinks cleans the house, wash the clothes, does his errands, gets the yard and landscaping done, and cooks the meals...and when all is said and done expects favors in bed? It isn't his mom or some other woman, it's ME....and I don't do anything! He is driving so crazy that I ended up going to the DR. to get something to eaze my anxiety before he comes home....I've even gone to a lawyer...who told me to stay put! I think they don't know a good thing when its right in front of them! ↑ |
| Name: MAUREEN | Date: Oct 15th, 2007 1:44 PM |
| MY DEAR HUSBAND woke this morning to twll me the coffee i made sucked thanks pal you can make it feel free to help when ever you like who in thworld wakes up in the morning complaing about niceties? ↑ |
| Name: Lynn N.Y. | Date: Oct 19th, 2007 12:33 AM |
| OMG! I have to say that I'm sorry your man acted like such a jerk. But, I also have to say that I'm relieved to see that I'm not the only one out there who is married to a guy who does and says asshole things. I'm so angry that I don't even have the words to express how pissed I am. But to make a long story short, Ater waking up at 5:30 am to wash the dishes form the night before, getting the kids ready for school, working all day, cooking 3 nights out of the last 4 nights, cleaning, homework, and all the other crap, he says, "You don't do anything." and "Because of you, my life is horrible." How's that for an asshole? ↑ |
| Name: Margie | Date: Oct 20th, 2007 10:42 PM |
| EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE...IGNORE HIM...JUST SMILE...IN A LONG RUN IT REALLY DOESNT MATTER WHY THEY ARE JEALOUS OF YOUR LIFE...YOU ARE NOT ALONE.. ↑ |
| Name: Mandy | Date: Oct 27th, 2007 12:48 PM |
| I googled "husbands are assholes" and it came up with this thread. I work Mon-Fri, 9-6 and go to school 2 nights a week 6:30-9:30. He works Wed-Sun 5pm-1am. Through the week I wish we have more time together but on weekends when we are home at the same time I hate it! He sleeps til noon and I can't waitl ti 4:00 when he walks out that door to work! My 2 boys (6&4) have been patiently waiting for him to get up so we can do something today and now that he's up (for less than an hour) I don't want to do anything with him! He's already griping at me. So I told him to take the boys somewhere and leave me alone! ↑ |
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