| Name: anonymous | Date: May 10th, 2008 8:12 PM |
| It's me again. I'm the one with four step children whom I love dearly but I hate their father. We have only been married for a year and a half and together for six. He just punched me in the face and put my tooth through my lip because I didn't want to go to a party at 2 in the afternoon. I was studying for my nursing finals and he came back from a softball tournament (his true love) drunk and started calling me a boring never want to have fun cunt. I said I am going to nursing school so we will have a better life and my finals are tomorrow. He told me that it wasn't important and I was a worthless bitch so I slapped him. Then he punched me and knocked me out. The kids aren't home thank god. My tooth has gone through my face and won't stop bleeding. After I was done crying and shaking trying to decide what to do I went to find my keys(can't find them) to leave and he is passed out on the couch like nothing happened. No apology. nothing. He doesn't love me he just wants me to be his slave and god forbid I don't do what he wants me to. I have no friends anymore because of him.. I don't know what to do. Alls I know is my face hurts and I have a nursing interview on tuesday.. I guess I will tell them I got hit in the face with a softball. I just hate myself. I used to be a strong woman now I am hiding in out in our guest room dredding the moment he wakes up. I wish I was rich and could leave his dumb wife beating ass. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: May 11th, 2008 5:40 PM |
| ANONYMOUS, I don't know about you, but money issues is never a reason to stick around and get treated like shit. I have a husband who has a good job, I am a stay at home mom to an almost 2 yr. old boy, and halfway through my next pregnancy. If something happened at my house like what you've just described, I'd be kicking his ass out so fast, the door wouldn't even come close enough to hit him. He'd fly out. I have no college degree, and not much job experience, as I married my (thankfully) wonderful husband VERY young. When I was 20, and I just turned 23. BUT, for the sake of myself, and the happieness of my babies, I'd find some way to make it. Nursing pays good, when you are established enough in a job, LEAVE HIM FAST. ↑ |
| Name: parker | Date: May 18th, 2008 10:21 PM |
| Boy after reading all these negative things about your husband one question comes to mind "WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM" Well I must say I'm very very lucky!! I'm been married for 14 years and he great, helps clean the house, tries to do laundry ( he folds only now) runs errands for me. ↑ |
| Name: crmk05 | Date: May 19th, 2008 10:33 PM |
| Arent all of them assholes??? They all treat us like slaves and I think just let them cook for themseelves, and clean and then they will know we are not putting up with their shit! :) ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: May 24th, 2008 6:14 PM |
| Stop being so damn lazy and do your duties. Lazy wench. ↑ |
| Name: Vanessa | Date: May 24th, 2008 8:03 PM |
| I despise my husband sooo much that sometimes I wonder if Iam better off without him. He works on the weekend's @ a bar and gets home at 6 in the Morning.Mind you this is he's only two days he works a full 8 hrs a day. During the week he works a total of 15hrs and he says he is always tired. I let him sleep he's full eight hrs on the weekends and still manages to be a grouch to me and my kids. He says the most asshole things! For some reason I can tolerate anything else except being grouchy. It's like he's 70 yrs old already and he is only 25! I am soo frustrated! ↑ |
| Name: jeni | Date: May 25th, 2008 11:06 PM |
| well i guess in all truths this is simply a place to vent what we chose not to tell them...or know that someone is actually reading (listening) my husband drives me insane hurts my feelings and is an over all complete asshole,,,however i would be gone if i wasn't on levels okay with whats happening right?.....i know i could move on and i know i could find someone else as he could so i love him and i know he loves me ...its as simple as he's a guy and i'm a women and we're different. i want him to do one thing and he wants to do it his way and does. then fucks it up and the i go and fix it.....i'm misserible so he must be too right? blah blah blah blah thanks for listening ladies thanks. ↑ |
| Name: singlechristina | Date: May 25th, 2008 11:37 PM |
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| Name: cass | Date: May 26th, 2008 11:33 PM |
| Men are just inconsiderate. And when I say something to mine all I get is I'm to sensitive. But I'm pretty sure according to him I've done nothing right in the last year and every argument has been started by me. ↑ |
| Name: cass | Date: May 26th, 2008 11:42 PM |
| I have a specials needs 5yr old whom I stay home with. Every time I mention getting a job my husband says it will all fall on me because if he gets called to work he makes more so he gets to go. He acts like it easy caring for him. drs. and therapies every week and my sons total meltdowns wear me out. I am not the perfect housekeeper but my house is in pretty good order. I am tired of him being a crab ass and then asking me what my problem is. I finally told him today my attitude is him treating my like shit and being condescending to me. ↑ |
| Name: mis | Date: Jun 6th, 2008 7:48 PM |
| My husband told me today that I was looking for free ride. If I were looking for a free ride through life I would not be here!!!! Like all of you I do all the house wk, bills ect... I wk pt time but am looking for another job. I cant believe he says things like that. So I just googled Why Husbands are Assholes and this is what I got. Sounds like there are plenty of them out there!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: sherrylynn | Date: Jun 6th, 2008 11:22 PM |
| that was a little rude!!he should have been thoughtful for you and the baby.tell him how tired you are and get out of cooking or laundry and he might respect you next time he comes in late and noisey. ↑ |
| Name: kathy | Date: Jun 8th, 2008 8:46 AM |
| My husband assumes I should be the one to get up with the baby every morning. When I asked if he could get up with him this morning I got yelled at and was called vulgar ( because i raised my voice)..Then he sprang from bed, took the baby, and locked himself in another room...like a child...Meanwhile, I do this everyday, make him coffee and start cleaning.. I blame his mother..spoiled spoiled spoiled ↑ |
| Name: ntb | Date: Jun 10th, 2008 3:44 PM |
| im six weeks pregnant with my first baby and about ten minutes ago i tiold my husband that im nervous about the pregnancy. he says "what the f*** must id? ...make me feel guilty about it..." and he carries on playing his videogame whil i start crying silently and google 'asshole husbands' ↑ |
| Name: tdr | Date: Jun 12th, 2008 12:34 PM |
I just read through each and every post here.... and so many of us have similar situations. What gets me is we are probably all bright, intelligent, working women. I was a stay home mom for 12 years and my husband always said I "don't contribute" and found stupid reasons to argue. If I make a comment (observation), like... it's sure cloudy today. He says all I do is bitch. Last year I decided to get a full time job since my daughter is going into 5th grade. So now he thinks he can shop and spend money freely. He expects me to come home from work and cook, do laundry, clean etc. Now he decided that since I work he's tired of his job. He's a high-end global IT guy and travels a lot. Now every day when I get home from work he's laying on his backside watching TV. He has his laptop close by and says he's "working from the house." Yet when I get home the kitchen is a mess, he's laying down, and not one shirt has been ironed. I told him I refuse to iron his shirts now that I work. So there must be 20 folded in a stack just waiting. I'm going to win the waiting war.
He insisted on buying a new suit so he could go on interviews to find a new job. OK, I give him $500 for a suit and he went out and bought a $700 suit and $200 on 2 shirts and 2 ties. That was a month ago and the suit is still hanging in the closet in the bag he brought it home in....
So here's what prompted me to google Asshole Husbands.
Last night my daughter and I gave him his father's day gift early. We used an online publishing program and made him a large glossy photo book devoted to pictures of him. Him with our daughter, him with his siblings, him with friends, him him him. Everyone who saw it before we gave it to him were really impress and said "WOW! This is cool - your husband is going to love it!" etc. His reaction, "Who wants a pictures of themselves?" He briefly leafed through the book. He didn't read any of the captions or look closely at any of the photos. The last page had an inscription and he didn't look at it. He flipped the book shut and said, " thanks" in a sarcastic tone.
My daughter and I burst into tears and he told us we were ridiculous for being hurt. He was just expressing HIS emotions - and we had not right to our emotions. Asshole
That's the last gift he'll ever get from me! ↑ |
| Name: jen | Date: Jun 13th, 2008 5:55 PM |
| my husband is such an asshole that sometimes I secretly wish he would get hit by a bus so I wouldn't have to listen to him bitch any more ↑ |
| Name: donna | Date: Jun 16th, 2008 8:47 PM |
| All men are assholes! Mine wants to be waited on hand and foot. For example, I hold three part-time jobs, clean the house, do all the grocery shopping, take care of the cat, make sure all the bills get paid on time, do all the laundry, set the table, cook dinner, do the dishes, etc. After dinner when I start the dishes, he says: "Where's my pudding or cake, or whatever.?" Now, that's an asshole. Why I put up with it, I don't know. I certainly am starting to hate him after 20 years of marriage. I, too, have a desk job, and believe me, I know where you are coming from. Taking care of a child is a job in itself. Cheer up, sister, you're not alone! I just wish men would appreciate what they have. ↑ |
| Name: stephnanie | Date: Jun 17th, 2008 10:27 PM |
| I have the kids all day and most of th e night while he sleeps during the day b-cause he works at nite. Then his day off I tell hiM I need a break he says why? U always need a break. Wat an asshole!! ↑ |
| Name: Jenn | Date: Jun 18th, 2008 1:38 AM |
| Husbands are assholes. My husband offered me to wear his shorts but stated they probably wouldn't fit me either. Like he is slim and muscular. ↑ |
| Name: Mari | Date: Jun 18th, 2008 2:33 PM |
| Totally understand! My husband is 38, has no children...married me with two kids one 18 one 11. He finally got a Great paying job after 1.5years of being unemployed. I took care of him and the bills...now even the friggen Cable Bill He agreed to pay gets looked over. This Sucks...honey just do what i plan to do leave his ass. Men like mine are Hipocrates! "Do as i say not as i do type of guys.... ↑ |
| Name: lisasing | Date: Jun 19th, 2008 5:37 AM |
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| Name: queenbzz | Date: Jun 20th, 2008 12:30 AM |
| I have 2 girls 7 and 2 years old. For the first 4 years of our marriage my husband consistently left and stayed out all night and didnt even call. He has never helped. In 10 years he has helped me cook or clean maybe 10 times, he goes days without speaking to me if I 'disrespect' him (usually its "my tone" when I speak to him). He refused to have a relationship with my father but actually had the nerve to cry at his funeral. He doesnt speak to my sister because she 'disrespected' him 12 years ago. He actually got pissed when I told him my mother was coming to town for 2 days and might need a place to stay. I stayed at home for 16 months when my first child was born and managed to budget my savings to pay all my bills and buy food the whole time. After my second child I went back to work 4 months later and paid the $850 a month for a nanny including half the rent and my own bills. Now I still work full time, pay for all the food, half the rent and daycare. And dont forget, run the house and all that implies. Last night he got mad at me because while I was outside washing my car, after I had cooked dinner and put it on the table, my 2 year old fell out of her chair. So he picked her up put her in the chair again and PULLED HER HAIR so she could look at him while he told her not to do it again. My 7 year old told on him and he actually got angry because I questioned him. If you can top that and have found a way to stay married let me know. Because I an half packed or on my way to catching a case for assault. ↑ |
| Name: keeto | Date: Jun 24th, 2008 8:34 AM |
| BACK UP!!!! You're husband provides what your desk job dosen't EXTRA $$$$. Be appreicieatave and say "thanks" he works hard. I have been at this fo 15 years and you din't complain you just help ↑ |
| Name: lisasing | Date: Jun 24th, 2008 10:09 PM |
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| Name: Jen | Date: Jun 26th, 2008 12:03 AM |
| My husband is also an ASSHOLE. Just because he hates his job and stresses out over the dumbest shit I always get blamed for everything. He comes home and screams at our 2 girls and they get upset and then they start to cry because they don't understand why daddy is mad at them. My doctor has started me on zoloft to help me deal with my stress and anger issues that have resulted from him always being so angry! ↑ |
| Name: Bama | Date: Jun 26th, 2008 3:25 PM |
| I understand completely!! When I ask my husband to do something he goes 180 degrees in the opposite direction. We just celebrated our 5th anniversay.. I am miserable... ↑ |
| Name: bad decisions | Date: Jul 7th, 2008 12:16 AM |
| Yes men are assholes! My husband also happens to be one of them. He works 2 days a week and plays video games the other 5....... did I mention that he is 34 years old. Nothing I do is good enough, I'm always wrong he's always right, etc. etc. We have been together 13 years. I think I have been miserable for the last 12 and a half. I stay for financial reasons, and because the only thing he has going for him is that he is wonderful to our son, and my son adores his father. I feel guilty when I think of leaving, because I feel like I am putting my own needs before my son. BUT I AM MISERABLE!!!! I wish he would just leave so I wouldn't have to live with the guilt of breaking up our family. ↑ |
| Name: youneverknow | Date: Jul 7th, 2008 12:18 AM |
| Today was my birthday, my asshole husband, thought he would give me the day to clean the house myself, and he was so kind as to take the kids boating. needless to say, i told him what an ass i thought he was. so he has left for the night, and i guess wont be home. He is a narcassistic ass, who comes from a family full of them, i make him look so good to everyone, including our kids. its making me physically sick at this point. so i can definitely relate. sorry to hear you also married an ass, but i assure you your not alone. now il sit up the night, and make myself sick over the life i want this to be, for myself and my kids. It would take such little effort, for him to have it all. its amazing what they are willing to give up and for what.. It breaks my heart when i think about how much his behavior will begin to hurt the kids, i hide it as best i can now, hoping that he will change but im smart enough to know that you can not change anyone . especially one who is happy being himself. regardless of the pain that causes others. ↑ |
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| Name: frenchy2000 | Date: Jul 9th, 2008 9:59 PM |
| my husband is a guitar teacher and he even taught me. But where he works is a few miles from our home. When my son was a few months old he got home late and was in a pretty bad mood. I thought he was drunk. For some reason he started telling me to work harder. It's similar to your story. I work really hard. I'm a lawyer. I told him that I work harder than he does. Then Jon, our son, woke up which stopped us. Now we're fine. We get in fights like that but they end like five minutes later ↑ |
| Name: 3honeys | Date: Jul 12th, 2008 1:16 AM |
| These men and mine are assholes-they only think of themselves- mine can bitch for more than 2.5 hours on the same subject come back to it after 1 day of rest without missing a beat! ↑ |
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