First of all you're stressed for a reason! You are taking on to many responabilities and not being responsible. Are you married to your guy? If not you need to tell him to take care of his own kid, move out, and take care of you and your kids. Or he can marry you and be a man by taking reasponsiblity for providing for the family he's making and you'll help him with the one he has made before. You have small children they need your full time attention until they are in school! If you don't make these changes you will be stressed out and your kids will learn to be stressed out and who knows what else! ↑ |