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Name: rblack7754
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I'm a 41 year old single father of 3 boys, ages 14,12,10.My 12 year old son has been hyper acting for years now, always on the go,gets bored easily,can't sit still for even 5 minutes with the exception of when he is sick and he is acting as if he is in control.I have strict rules in place for all, and all are treated equal and recently he has became impossible for me to control.He lashes out anytime he doesn't get his way which up till just recently I could still control somewhat, but now he is beyond my control, I'm at witts end,he has cursed me out, threatened hitting me with a skateboard while cursing at me,threatens to run away all the time,tells me if I spank him he will call the cops,tells me going to bootcamp or living on the streets would be better than living here, and the list just goes on and on.Even my fiance was told yesterday that he hated her,he called her a curse word,broke a few things during his temper tantrom...where do I go, what do I do? I love all my kids but can't tolerate any more,it isn't only hard on me and unhealthy,it is hard on the whole family.I need help,and/or advice....thanks for all
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Name: MN-MOM | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 6:55 PM
Is your son diagnosed with ADHD and any medication? If not, don't know whether it's just his age, but there are a lot of behavior modification techniques which help with what you are talking about. I would see doctor who works with kids who have ADHD (even if yours doesn't actually have it) because the doctor can help teach parenting skills for those behaviors. It seems like ODD (oppositional defiant disorder), which my son has. 

Name: tina | Date: Nov 30th, 2010 3:01 PM
im in the same cituation he is 12 treats im a f b stupid idiot etc he does not respect me at all i don t know no more what to do he kicked my car this morning after i dropped him of at shool he hates me etc......he has put his hands on me 3 times i love him as my son but i don t love his behavior i can t send him to his dad cause he lost case but i cannot and will not keep on putting up with it i have a 25 and a 19 year old they still respect me until this day he is my problem child i need help please 

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