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Name: lawbug | Date: Sep 23rd, 2010 10:06 PM
I have a 6 year old boy who is way out of control. He back talks all the time, He doesn't listen to his teachers in school and this morning he hit a kid and threw a rock at another. I don't know how to fix this. Any suggestions 

Name: MARIE | Date: Sep 29th, 2010 6:34 PM
MY 4 YR OLD DAUGHTER IS THE SWEETEST CHILD IN THE WORLD AT HOME. SHE IS HELPFUL, EXTREMELY GENTLY AND GOOD NATURED WITH THE OTHER CHILDREN, SHE IS SOFTSPOKEN AND ALWAYS HAPPY. HOWEVER, IN SCHOOL AND DURING SOME THERAPY SESSIONS IT HAS BEEN DISASTERES. AT SCHOOL THEY REPORTED THAT SHE IS HITTING, BITTING, BULLYING AND ACTING OUT WITH OTHER CHILDREN AND CONSTANTLY ON THE GO. I TOOK HER TO THE NEUROLOGIST 2X'S TO DISCUSS THE SCHOOLS REPORTS BUT HE SEE'S NO HYPERACTIVITY, ABSOLUTELY NO AUTISM ACCORDING TO THE DOCTOR. SHE DOES HAVE SOME LEARNING DELAYS. I AM CONFUSSED AS TO WHAT IS CAUSING THIS.

LIKE MOST 4 YEAR OLDS I FIND THAT SHE DOES NEED REDIRECTION EVERY NOW AND THEN BUT SHE COMPLETES TASK THAT I HAVE HER DO. SHOULDN'T I SEE THESE SAME BEHAVIORS AT HOME OR DURING SOCIAL EVENTS MEDICAL APPOINTMENTS. I'M DESPERATE AND DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT IS CAUSING THIS. 

Name: doug | Date: Oct 11th, 2010 1:57 AM
My 4 year old doesn't do what he is told. You can put him in time out he gets up. You tell him to get in the car he runs. what do I do because it only seems that he acts this way when you correct him, then he takes it to extreme. 

Name: Tamara8385 | Date: Oct 27th, 2010 9:26 PM
I need help!!!! 

Name: Aixa | Date: Nov 8th, 2010 2:02 AM
I have a six year old who has been diagnosed with ADHD and ODD. I feel like I am loosing it. I either want to smack the crap out of him or just to that to myself. I love him so much, but he surely beings the worst of me. I have tried everything, from counceling to medication which he is currently taking. I have read many books and programs to should help but wont. I don't know what else to do. 

Name: Aixa (again) | Date: Nov 8th, 2010 2:08 AM
And I forgot to mention that in school is hell. In our house there is no peace. I can see him as a little angel when is just the two of us, but when the whole family is together, its hell. Teraphy does not work. Medication does not work. Prayer is not working either and I feel like I want to die. (Not that extrem of course, but I am tired of all that crap I have to put up with). 


Name: anonymous | Date: Nov 23rd, 2010 10:59 PM
not a popular answr but it might be spanking time 

Name: Angela | Date: Nov 28th, 2010 6:03 AM
Hi Steph I'm sorry to hear that I can epathize with you ihave 3 children and I am currently almost 6 months ihave all boys a 13, 5, 4 year old boys. The others are all fine well be haves we did have a bit of trouble with the 5 year old copying his the 4 year old but now he is amizing than ever. My 4 year old son since the day he was born he is a go getter energetic hard headed stubborn smart clever witty argues and best of heart of gold. However he is out of control doesn't want to and he is choosing not to listen to anyone not a school daycare home no where. He has to have the last word he doent seem to comprehend for example if you explain to him close the door calm down and when your ready then I will open the door for you hewill sit here and throw a fit and argue thinking he is right. He got kicked out of daycare last Thursday and the daycare teachers are afried of him an if you threaten him with anything he will call youout on it. Im poising it I have no more strength energy and i have tried everything and every idea nothing work 

Name: jen | Date: Dec 7th, 2010 1:18 AM
i have a 10 year old son. he is will be 11 years old in march. he was diagnose with ADHD when he was in kindergarden we tried many medications for him now finally for a few years we have the right medications for him. he does well with it in school and at home but this is were i get concerned. just recently he has been having this loud outburst where he will scream the top of his lungs if he is mad about something and he won't stop. Is this something that ADHD does to a child or is it his age. I would like advice with this not sure what to do. 

Name: brenda | Date: Jan 20th, 2011 4:13 PM
I am searching for my 4 year old. I need help with him. He is out of control my husband and I will holler at him, whip him, put him in time out and nothing works. We are looking for a military school because the doctors wont diagnose him for adhd or add so we are to the point that we don't want him here. That is bad to say i know. I love him don't get me wrong but he just don't listen to anything. He goes to gric school Monday Tuesday and Thursdays and I talk to his teacher and she sais he doesn't do that at school. So really i don't understand why he wants to act up here. 

Name: tiffany | Date: Jan 31st, 2011 11:57 PM
i have a 4 yr. old boy, and i feel that he is really OUT OF CONTROL. i've tried every form of punishment there is and nothing works. He hit, kicks, bites, screams at us, punches walls, trows thingscusses at us, he talks back. i'm at a loss, i just wish there was something i could try that would work with him. if there is anyone who has anything that they think would help please let me know asap. 

Name: barb | Date: Feb 22nd, 2011 9:15 PM
could be true

mine is 6yrs old and knew something was wrong yrs ago
nothing worked with her either 

Name: robin | Date: Feb 23rd, 2011 6:53 PM
I have twins a boy and a girl they are 12 and my boy throws fits fights me hurts his sister and i dont know how to control him the harder i try the worse he gets. please help me i am ready to give up 

Name: robin | Date: Feb 23rd, 2011 6:56 PM
I have twins a boy and a girl they are 12 and my boy throws fits fights me hurts his sister and i dont know how to control him the harder i try the worse he gets. please help me i am ready to give up. he takes medician and sees a dr. but nothing helps. im lost 

Name: jill | Date: Feb 24th, 2011 5:58 AM
Hi Steph, I like you am having similar trouble.. I have a four year old daughter who is the same way... and have heard all the same things... at one point a pre k teacher even locked her in a closet at school in the dark because she just couldnt handle her. it takes a toll on the whole family. i had talked to her doctor about it many times and just now because of yet another school incident he is finally hearing what I have to say. I had tried everything there was to try to help my daughter, nothing worked. What I did which was helpful was compile a list of everything that was a constant everyday problems and where it is happening, for example school home family gaterings. Just do some homework on it and show that you are genuinly just out to make your childs life better, not just to make parenting easier. Like I said I know what your going through and definatly feel for you. Its very very frustrating to know something is going on with your child and no one wants to help or hear you out.... I hope all the best for you and let me know if i can help in any way! Best wishes and god bless! Patience is the key! 

Name: sandy | Date: Mar 5th, 2011 2:23 PM
My son is very hyper and rude, I was wondering if anyone has tryed anything natural or omega 3 or anything?? My son will be 4 in june 

Name: jason | Date: Jul 21st, 2011 11:39 PM
adhd 

Name: Kaycee | Date: Jul 24th, 2011 3:43 AM
I would recommend taking your child to a neurologist. This doctor can give a definite diagnosis with specific tests. They are not invasive. My own child at 5 year old and even myself have gone through them. One is merely hitting a spacebar only when a certain item comes up on the screen in a timed test. Most family doctors are not equipped to diagnose ADHD. A neurologist is a doctor of the brain and ADHD is a condition of the brain. I took my daughter to just about every type of doctor out there and the neorologist helped her. The bad news is repetition is essential with this condition. The good news is if your child does have it, then he can get help before school starts and avoid common problems with those diagnosed later. 

Name: joan | Date: Sep 20th, 2011 12:27 PM
My 3 yr. old grandson is hitting and throwing things. This child is very bright, he is reading and printing with the accuracy of a 3rd. grader. We as a family are worried about him, but I must say I feel that perhaps the parents are contributing by giving him everything he wants. I don't mean material things, I'm talking about the fact that he makes the rules. If he doesn't want to eat, it's ok. If he doesn't want to nap, it's ok etc. 

Name: [email protected] | Date: Dec 30th, 2011 4:18 PM
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Name: Karsten | Date: Jan 21st, 2012 9:19 PM
To have all your questions answered please go to www.adhdrelief.weebly.com and fill in the contact form at the bottom of the page. ;) 

Name: tania | Date: Feb 16th, 2012 4:34 PM
my son is 6 and i have been told the same i have got a son off 3 and i fell the same way just fell no one is out there to help i can not go out with my son or i end up having rows with people if they tell me to control your son will you 

Name: amanda | Date: Feb 22nd, 2012 7:25 PM
my son is 5yr old now we have been to pediatrician after pediatrician since he was 3. we noticed he had major behavior issues like u were having and a realy bad temper. they told me the same he was too young but I stuck with it and kept on and finally found aplace tohelp. my suggestion is to find a family counseling place or a child counseling center. they have people to talk to them and that can get them help with meds if needed. i would look online and in the phone book and maybe your pediatrician can offer some suggestions of some places. 

Name: Jeni | Date: Feb 23rd, 2012 11:20 PM
You must stand your ground! He wants to be boss and that is what he is doing! Get your devil voice ready!! That is what my kids call it! I have a 16 year old son, we have been fighting ADHD since he was born, so I do know. Look you got to get the bluff over on your son. Try this next time- Grab him by the elbow pretty tight, make him look you in the eyes, and in a deep angry voice growl out that he is in trouble and what for, lead him to a chair, growl out you sit there til I tell you to get up! Never take your eyes off his eyes, dont talk alot make it short they cant remember alot at once. If you have to ruffle his butt a couple times its ok, I promise, but you have got to learn the growl in your voice and major eye contact!! If it works for you let me know, it did for me and I have many other tricks of the trade, remember Im a pro now! Just email me [email protected]. Single mother with 1 ADHD boy, and typical girl who are now 16 and 15. 

Name: rose cooley | Date: Apr 27th, 2012 8:22 AM
my child is very very hyper and will not respond to us when we call him... this mainly happens when we are out in shopping malls or at special occasions like weddings etc or wend away in hotel..i'm at my wits end as i cannot seem to help him calm down, we have tried to remove from situation and calm down but as soon as he returns he is the same way

anyone have any advice as i hate to see other mums shouting at him... this makes me very upset :(

He is fine at nursery and when just him and one other kid but when group he tries to hard to impress them and follows them around etc 

Name: old grandma | Date: Aug 13th, 2012 8:48 AM
I have seen these types of behavior with my own grandchildren. Trust me, I spoiled my own children and my grandchildren. My grandchildren will not mind their mother. One thing I see very much...threats from mom such as if you do that...blah blah blah...but!!! It's not carried through. If you tell your child "Stop that right now" Second time you say "Stop now, or you will sit in a chair" Third time, put them in that chair, even if you have to sit on them...lol put them in that chair! 

Name: jnystrom | Date: Aug 13th, 2012 3:31 PM
I have an eight year old with ADHD. I have found the program Play Attention (www.playattention.com) and I have seen immediate results with her. The program is based on the concept that the brain has the capacity to grow and change. Even when she is irritable, the program redirects her brain into being calm and focused. We use it before she gets on the bus in the morning and use it during her homework at night. 

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