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last weeken i caught my 11 year old sister in bed with 2 boys that were 15 i went over and pulled the covers off of them and told them to get the **** out of my house then on saturday i found her smoking pot and drinking a harvy wall banger i took it away and through it away. i dont know weather to tell my parents or not. shes been sent away twice and even to bootcamp 1 but nuthin ever works should i tell? ↓
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| Name: emtf71 | Date: May 9th, 2006 12:45 PM |
| wow tough call. If your close to your sister enough were you can tell her to stop and that you just care for her. Your in a tough sititation. But tell her she is going to have regreats and something really bad can happen to her. Give her that warning but if it happens again tell your parents as soon as possible you don't want to see the worst thing to happen to her she needs help and guidence. Right now she thinks its a party but it can lead her down the wrong road. She is way to young. I thought this behavior started at 15 or 16 not 11. she is giong beyounder her years and is to immutuer to handle the consequences. ↑ |
| Name: chelsey | Date: May 15th, 2006 9:00 PM |
| im not real close with her but yea she looks beyond her years and yea she acts more like 15 idk but anyway my parents found out and now shes in counciling again so i dont know but maybe this time it will work ↑ |
| Name: toni | Date: Jun 9th, 2006 1:58 PM |
| hello i think that ur story is terrible.wb ↑ |
| Name: chloe | Date: Jun 9th, 2006 2:00 PM |
| i think dat ur sister is sick! and if it was me i wouldnt speak to her again! but it is ur call ur the only one that can make the dicision. ↑ |
| Name: jody | Date: Jun 20th, 2006 12:09 AM |
| wow i have 5 kids and and none of them would ever do that my oldest is 15 and if she did that i would want to know.u should tell normal 11 year old children wouldnt do that sounds like she needs some major counciling or some major disipline before its to late.she is still young enough to change her behavior if it is adressed right away.you dont want your sister to end up in juvinal hall or worse.dont take this the wrong way i can see u love your sister,but trust me your doing her a favor by telling.good luck ↑ |
| Name: jody | Date: Jun 24th, 2006 3:24 AM |
| that was not very nice skimmy what if u had a child and someone said that,if u have a concious at all or know how much trouble u can get in for saying that on the internet i would definatly apoligize and do it NOW.if that was my child and you said that i would want to find you and beat the HELLout of u.get a life asshole. ↑ |
| Name: Girlyduds | Date: Jun 30th, 2006 3:58 PM |
| That's a really hard thing to deal with. I have a younger brother who was very defiant towards my parents all the time when we were kids. From age 8-9 he bagan until my paretns got fed up with bailing him out of trouble all the time. When he was 16, my mom found him doing pot (this is after they spent over $5K to send him to a detox/counseling program), she & my dad called the cops on him & had him locked up. He had to do community service, pay fines, find a job to pay those fines & learn the hard way. He's now 26 & is a great husband, father of two & a really appreciative person to those who dealt with him the hardest to knock him back in line. Maybe tough love isn't so bad. ↑ |
| Name: tattybabe | Date: Aug 2nd, 2006 9:06 PM |
| i think u need to tell some1 bout this for ur own saftey as well as ur sisters good luck ↑ |
| Name: MichelleM-W | Date: Aug 2nd, 2006 11:18 PM |
| How is the counceling going? ↑ |
| Name: Monarch4 | Date: Aug 4th, 2006 6:39 PM |
| I would tell your parents, for her sake, she needs help and if you can help in getting her that, it's the best thing. the sooner someone gets help the sooner that maybe they can wakeup and get the help they need. Some don't want it and some won't take it but it's worth trying. She's too young to be doing these things and really needs to get help. ↑ |
| Name: rebecca | Date: Nov 24th, 2007 8:56 PM |
| Name: om prakash | Date: Dec 7th, 2007 6:42 AM |
| Name: op | Date: Dec 7th, 2007 6:44 AM |
| where are u............. ↑ |
| Name: daniel | Date: Jan 3rd, 2008 6:10 PM |
| don't tell parents! kill sister. Idknow, jus beat her ass or somethin ↑ |
| Name: james | Date: Feb 1st, 2008 1:08 AM |
| Name: mom2nadhdson | Date: Mar 12th, 2008 4:12 PM |
| YEA YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS WHAT SHE IS DOIN REGARDLESS IF IT PUTS HER BACK INTO BOOTCAMP !..SHE SOME CONTROLLING BEFORE IT IS TO LATE !!!!! ↑ |
| Name: ashley | Date: May 24th, 2008 2:39 AM |
| yes! 11 years old thats awful...if she was 16 or 18 then no but 11 thats terrible ↑ |
| Name: hannah | Date: Jul 11th, 2008 9:22 AM |
| Name: ciara | Date: Feb 20th, 2009 3:28 PM |
| i any 11 year boy that has mxit and that is cute ↑ |
| Name: Mydnyte | Date: Apr 23rd, 2009 6:24 PM |
| Actually, this is kind of surprising to hear. I know that statistics show that somewhere around 40% of 2nd graders have tried or regularly smoke pot. But I never heard any stories. I'm only 18, and when I was a counselor at 6th grade camp, those kids were pretty bad. But handling this stuff is fairly easy. Warn her than you will tell her parents, and she'll stop. And if she doesn't, then say something. And yes, I'm aware this post is 3 years old now ↑ |
| Name: cp | Date: Apr 24th, 2009 7:41 PM |
| you need to log this under troubled teen not ADHD ↑ |
| Name: BABE | Date: Apr 26th, 2009 4:21 PM |
| Name: sandy | Date: Aug 4th, 2009 7:52 AM |
| well she is your sister but she needs help ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Dec 7th, 2009 7:02 PM |
| I think you should tell it will help her in the long run ↑ |
| Name: abcd | Date: Sep 9th, 2010 5:21 AM |
| Name: lanaya | Date: Dec 20th, 2010 2:59 AM |
| no not really this teach her a lesson and talk to her u noe if u have any thing else to ask me write me on facebook lanaya mompremier and i'm a black small little girl u will see me trust me bye hope u take my advice ↑ |
| Name: nicole | Date: Mar 2nd, 2011 12:12 PM |
| i think that you being the older sibling should be doing your best to help her. instead of getting angry at her maybe talk to her normally spend more time with her do things with her that girls her age should be doing. from getting into drugs and alcohol at a young age i can tell you that counseling and boot camp are not a good idea and also people constantly tellling you off it can feel very victimizing. be loving and caring make her feel she can come to you with her problems, and also if you find her in bed with older boys again the police should be called, because i dont think that age difference is legal. hope this can help. ↑ |
| Name: lexisthebbi | Date: Mar 10th, 2011 7:46 AM |
| omg yes.....! im 15 n if i ever find my lil sisters doin tht stuff.. i will beat their ***es first then tell.. she has no business doin tht.. trust me tht not the life u want her to live. mi older sister used to do stuff like tht.. having sex. selling weedgoin out n drinkin..and i wasnt just hurtin her. it was hurtin me and my lil sister. then i saw her doin tht stuff and picked up her bad habits as she dropped em... trust me no 11 yearold should go thur the pain ands heartache tht comes with sex acholco and drugs.. neither should i.. but we all make mistkkae s try to tawkk to her first thoe if she truly hears u out i mean its up to u if she dsoewsnt tell its for her own gud ↑ |
| Name: Suraj | Date: Apr 1st, 2011 1:51 AM |
| I thought she need love and affection from ur parents. But dont hide this incident(espeacialy of drugs) ↑ |
| Name: andile | Date: Jul 23rd, 2011 6:48 PM |
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