hi
i have a 6year old with adhd he is driving me mad he lies,he does"nt listen to a thing i tell him recently he"s become very nasty and horrible to one of his friends hitting him wont share his toys or anything with him,ive shouted at him ive sent him to his room ive taken things away from him and nothing seems to work and i dont know what else to do,no matter what i do hes not bothered,when hes good hes a wonderfull child and i love him so much and theres nothing that i wouldnt do for him hes my star my moon my sun hes the air i breath i love him dearly but i just dont know what to do anymore,any advice would be brilliant thanks, ↓
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| Name: irish4 | Date: May 17th, 2007 2:33 PM |
| Hey, dianne I could write a book on this subject. I have an extra 4yrs on you. My daughter is 10 and we've gone through every thing. Spitting is her favorie. I'm here to tell you getting mad and frustated is what comes along with this neat little package we've been give. Wouldn't it have been soo nice to be given a manual how to raise a kid with a disabilty when they wheeled us out to the car. Some times, we get to laugh but most of the time we just break down and push on and get through the day and hope the next one is better than the next.........and that some one will call and take them out and give us a break for an hour or so.......lol..hope I helped a bit ↑ |
| Name: dianne | Date: May 18th, 2007 12:52 PM |
thanks irish4
thanks for reply it help knowing there are people are going trough the same and that your not alone,people say how do you cope i smile and say you have to because there your chid/kids and yes somedays are brilliant days wheres hes so good we can laugh and play alday then when hes a pain hes a pain then i know from the minute he gets up that the day is only going to be worse and not get any better.....but has parents we get trough the day because we have to ↑ |
| Name: GIGGLES | Date: May 19th, 2007 7:23 PM |
Hiya Dianne
I know exactly how you are feeling, my son is almost 7 and has been diagnosed for about 8mths, he has also been diagnosed with tourettes and suffers with ocd, it isnt easy, and i wish i had the answers for you. I love my son more than anything in the world and wouldnt wish this on anyone, it breaks my heart when i look at him. I ve tried every sticker chart, reward chart, time out etc etc and nothing works, the best thing that seems to work is not to be drawn into an arguement with him, or if hes about to go into one i try and change the subject. i must ask him ten times over to get dressed, its so fustrating!! i seem to have the other side of it as my son is very honest and sometimes too honest and he tells people things that he shouldnt which can cause problems. i hope this has been of some help, just loving them and making sure there safe seems to be the best course of action, XX good luck ↑ |
| Name: dianne | Date: May 20th, 2007 9:27 AM |
| hi giggles,it is very hard but has you say loving them and making sure your kids/children are safe thanks, ↑ |
| Name: dianne | Date: May 20th, 2007 9:28 AM |
| if anyone wants a chat my email [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: GIGGLES | Date: May 20th, 2007 7:53 PM |
hiya
i'm louise, my nick names giggles as i am always laughing!! got to to keep myself going at times, i am free for a chat if you want to, just put my son to bed, its almost 9pm ↑ |
| Name: dianne | Date: May 26th, 2007 12:08 PM |
| hi everyone its the first time in months ive got a break from my son hes at his nans for 4days it feels really strange without him because its so quiet and im not ust to sitting down and chilling but at least in the short time hes away from me it gives me time to recharge my battery lol, ↑ |
| Name: sarah | Date: Oct 16th, 2007 12:13 PM |
| I also have a 6 year old son that sounds like this. He hasn't been diagnosed but we have been refered to specialist but he refused to go in started hitting and screaming at doctor am waiting for them to reply now ↑ |
| Name: DylsMom | Date: Oct 16th, 2007 3:09 PM |
Hi,
I don't have any advice per say but I can totally understand what you are going through. I have recently decided to take my 7 yr old son to his doctor to have him tested. I went through every thing your describing and the only thing that seems to work for me is time outs and being very patient which isn't my stong suite but i'm learning:) If you can take some time for yourself I know that is easier said than done! ↑ |
| Name: anthony | Date: Oct 18th, 2007 3:00 AM |
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