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Name: Kirsti

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Hey, my name is Kirsti i'm 13 years old and just saturday my grandma died... august 6th, 2006... her husband dies 3 years ago and i never had a chance to tell her goodbye... i just got back from her funeral today (aug.10, 2006) and it is soo hard... i keep feeling like i'm going to throw up and i can't stop crying... what do i do... i love her soo much... she was the best person in the world, she has never cursed in her life and she used to spoil me to death and buy me all the sugar i wanted... she also NEVER raised her voice to her children growing up and never to her grandchildren, she was the most kind person i have ever met... what do i do to get her off of my mind for a while? ↓

Name: rain | Date: Aug 10th, 2006 10:05 PM

Call a friend to come visit. Watch movies, I always clean when someone passes away. I will reorganize a closet, this helps keep you busy. It is ok to be sad right now. That is the right way to feel, it is ok to cry. Every day, it will get a little better. Try to keep busy. I am so sorry, sweetie. ↑

Name: Layne | Date: Aug 11th, 2006 2:52 AM

I lost both my grandmothers 3 weeks apart when I was 12. Of cancer. It was the worst summer ever. I feel so bad you wont have her to grow up with. Do you have another grandma? being with her might help. or some other close family member. If you dont live close write a letter or E-mail. Find some way to bond.Grandmas are the best. I am so so sorry and hope your heart heals soon. (((((much hugs))))))) ↑

Name: Lizzi | Date: Aug 12th, 2006 3:17 AM

Remember the good times you had with her Kristi. Always know that you meant as much to her as she did to you. Make a special photo book of pictures that you love most of you and her.Ask if there's something you can have of hers like a piece of jewelry,or a certain sweater she wore,this way you will always feel like you have a part of her with you! ↑

Name: Kirsti | Date: Sep 11th, 2006 5:29 AM

well i wanted to have a book of all photos of her and me... but... i have none... and what hurts the MOST!!! is that 2 weeks after she died... my other grandma died... I HURTS SOOOOOOOO BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑