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I was with my then girlfriend in 2003. She had 2 daughters from her 1st marrige and they wer both great at the beginning I guess maybe of the nolevity or even their ages(10/12) Since then we were married in 2006 and for the last 6 months the youngest who is now almost 15 has been tough.It seems what ever I say or suggest comes back with smart remarks which gets me frustrated and fuels my anger and then I guess you know where it gos from there-yes I am the bad guy, I'm to rough on her etc etc. per my wife. I mention to my wife some things that are being done with/withouthout her knowledge and there are times when both of them really talk down to them and my wife choices not to battle it out with them, but I really get frustrated with that and tell them they should no talk to her like that, and you know what that leads to. I guess I am desperate for anybodies imput that has run into this. I hope it is a temporary issue. But in the mean time what can I do to get a better realationship with the 15 yr old without having look fake, because I really to care about her and want to spend many years in her life-OPEN to any sugestions please reply ↓
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