I am in my 30s and am married. I have three kids...one from a previous relationship, one is my husband's child from a previous relationship that now lives with us and the other is with my husband.
the problem is that my mother cannot stay out of our business. my oldest daughter is close to her and calls her all the time, telling her everything that goes on in our house. my mom questions me on everything I do and even will tell my husband what we need to do with the house and with the baby...needless to say, he gets very angry. my mother never liked my husband, she always thought he was "beneath" me.
I never wanted to hurt or disrespect my mom, so I took all her criticism and then blew it off, but it put a strain on my marriage.
after years of problems with my husband because of my mother's interference, I tried to talk to my mother about it, but she got offended and told me that I no longer have a mother and never to call her again.
Does anyone else have a problem like this? How do you deal with it? ↓