| Name: sally | Date: Oct 3rd, 2006 4:24 PM |
| I don't know why its so strange at 17 to still be punished im 17 and I still get punished I get grounded and sometimes I get spanked I don't like geting punished but I know I still live at home so my parente can still punish me ↑ |
| Name: CrystalMichelle25 | Date: Oct 3rd, 2006 7:36 PM |
I helped raise my four younger bros sisters after a family split. I found the same problems ... You are in a bit of a different situation.
Tell them your mothers wishes were for you to take over her role. Not that you will ever replace he ... but fill in for her. Remind them you are still your big sister and thats its a new experience for you too. However ... you are taking the mother role which needs to come before the 'understand big sister role' they may dislike you for a few years BUT MOST TEENAGE KIDS DOTN GET ALONG WITH THERE PARENTS ANYWAY! so what you are experiencing is nothing your mom wasnt ... In five years or so they will have so much respect for you. Because you cared enough to tell them no when no one else would. Good luck sweets! ↑ |
| Name: bobbie | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 10:08 AM |
| my sister is the greatest sister in the whole world, she takes care of me and she even cares enought to spank me when I do anything wrong she only punishes me because she wants me to become a good man ↑ |
| Name: Theresa | Date: Oct 8th, 2006 3:02 PM |
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| Name: seema | Date: Oct 12th, 2006 7:20 AM |
| Name: to theresa | Date: Oct 16th, 2006 10:12 AM |
| hi how old are you im 17 are your parents strict mine still spank me hope to hear from you ↑ |
| Name: Stephanie123 | Date: Nov 19th, 2006 2:02 AM |
| They need you to be their parent whether they will admit it or not. You must do what you believe is best for them. Do all that you can to help them make good choices and to not develop bad habits. Keep their best interests at heart and do your best - don't worry too much about mistakes, all new parents make them. The important thing is for them to know that you are fighting for them - even when that means you have to fight them. ↑ |
| Name: Babygurl15 | Date: Nov 22nd, 2006 5:34 PM |
| i think that you should discipline them but dont restrict them let the sixteen year old have fun like give them both a cerfew but let the sixteen year old stay out longer and make sure you know where they are going they are kids they want to have fun but not too much ↑ |
| Name: stepmom19 | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 4:37 AM |
| hi there... thats an awful situation to be in. While I havent had to experience anything traumatic like that... I do understand your sister/daughter dillemma ... I am 22 years old and I have an11 year old step son and 15 year old step daughter... my fiance is 32... its hard sometimes giving advice or parenting while also wanting to stay on the "good" side... ↑ |
| Name: badbrother | Date: Aug 17th, 2007 7:22 AM |
| Name: Travis Stewart | Date: Aug 28th, 2007 10:02 PM |
| Name: David Weidemann | Date: Sep 8th, 2007 5:38 PM |
| Name: annett | Date: Sep 11th, 2007 6:01 PM |
Hi sis3,
It's hard for me to say but if it was me I'd try and be someone in-between the two. A sister most of the time, but a mother when it comes to discipline. Easier said than done when they're in their rebellious phase though. Explain to them how difficult your situation is and how you understand it's difficult for them too, but you need to work together. Forgive me if I'm out of order, but I write features for a woman's magazine and wondered if you'd be interested in sharing your story with others. It may just help people in a similiar situation to you and also help you to come to terms with your loss. Let me know what you think. Kind regards. ↑ |
| Name: clshadrick | Date: Sep 26th, 2007 6:51 PM |
| Well in my option you should do what you feel is right. Of course thay are going to have hatred towards you, there world just came to an end. Stick with it and things will get better. ↑ |
| Name: Alex | Date: Sep 27th, 2007 8:08 PM |
I am in a similar poosistion as you.
My two brothers were orphaned when our parents died in a car accident. Both were surly, foul mothed teenagers.
Rules were broken at leisure, and when grades were flunked, I had had it. Needless to say, both my brothers were spanked for a long time, and quite soundly. Both I am happy to report are well behaved teens now, with the occasional "reminder" spaning for good measures. ↑ |
| Name: Justin | Date: Nov 1st, 2007 3:54 AM |
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| Name: michelle | Date: Nov 15th, 2007 1:00 AM |
| i really think u are doin wot is expected of you but try n look at the situation and think you are not mum are you but u must be there to guide the kids so your mum will be proud of you for what you are doing and what the kids are achieving you mum will be proud ↑ |
| Name: susan | Date: Dec 9th, 2007 10:26 PM |
| My older sister spanked me for stealing money from my gran im 14 yrs old she did in front of my younger sister and her friend she pulled down my jeans and as i was wearing a thong i got it on the bare.The spanking was bad but my sister and her friend have told every one now everyone at school makes fun of me the punishment far exceeds the crime. ↑ |
| Name: riaz | Date: Dec 11th, 2007 6:18 PM |
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| Name: Jeff | Date: Dec 12th, 2007 8:26 PM |
| How old are you for starters. you as a female should know that spankings are very much a part of life no matter how old you are. You need to spank both your sister and your brother. your little brother should be bareassed and your little sister should be stripped naked. you need to go buy a paddle with holes in it, and use it on them WHENEVER they break a rule. For serious offenses they need to receive somewhere between thirty and fifty swats. In front of their friends if around and also spank their friends if they DO something wrong as well. ↑ |
| Name: Susan | Date: Dec 12th, 2007 9:15 PM |
| You are SICK jeff it is terribly embarrasing to be punished in front of others they make the punishment last much much longer with all the people they tell and you dont need a paddle a hand is all you need its not the pain its the SHAME you jerk. ↑ |
| Name: krystal | Date: Dec 28th, 2007 7:05 PM |
| Name: bro 2 | Date: Jan 10th, 2008 3:08 AM |
| the way my sister punished me after our parents died in a car crash was she had 4 very effective punishment she used.this one is more effective by age,she would use the rectal thermometer.This is very effective to 12 year old boys she would put a latex glove on and lubricant her index finger and very slowly insert her finger in and up my anus until her finger was fully inserted in my rectum then she push a little on my rectum walls making sure not to hurt me but make me feel embarrassed and and little discomfort.the 3 thing which embarrasses littler kids like 5 year olds more then older kids,she would give me a little soap suppository up the rear end and dipped a q-tip in vaseline and insert in just past my anus and sit me down on the toilet and watch me go which made me feel a little embarrassed.the 4th punishment was she would start to insert 3 pieces of ice up my butt until they melt after 4 minutes then another 3 pieces of ice until she thought it was enough.good advice everyone else. ↑ |
| Name: younger brother | Date: Jan 10th, 2008 10:30 PM |
| When i was 5 years old my parents die in a car crash to and my 22 year old sister had to take care of me and she was a nice,gentle nurse.When i use to get sick or even felt hot to her she would tell me that she wanted to take my temperature and ask if she could use the rectal thermometer and i would always say that i didn't care (personal i actually like getting my temperature up the rear even at 12 because she was so careful and gentle i barley felt a thing even when she was giving me an emana) she would get the thermometer and the vaseline while i got bare butt and when she returned i got across her lap and she would slip the thermometer up my bottom slowly until the silver of the thermometer was in and when she took it out so gently i couldn't even tell that she took it out.After a while i started to see her as a gentle caring sister/nurse.just try being gentle and caring plus loving and when it comes to giving them a spanking just tell them "i'm sorry for having to do this but you were bad and you must be punished.i'm sure they'll be loving back especially the boy us little brothers like sisters that look so cute in a mini skirt that you look like one of the cutest girls he's seen and along with the cutest girl try to be really nice like you were his nurse or something like that and i'm sure like you like he would if he have a crush on you. ↑ |
| Name: sue, | Date: Jan 26th, 2008 5:58 PM |
| why do we female lie so much about thing as we love to see boys naked but we say we do not. The facts we love to see boys and teenager boys nude. ↑ |
| Name: pb | Date: Feb 1st, 2008 12:30 AM |
| Name: gina | Date: Dec 6th, 2008 1:07 PM |
| say they have to respect you becouse you have to do everything for them and if they don't listen you have to ground them or take away their mobile's or something like that and if they skipp school or something like that mayby you have to spank them they will get more respect for you good luck ↑ |
| Name: Jeannettewhiylow | Date: Feb 21st, 2009 3:17 PM |
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| Name: John | Date: Jul 28th, 2009 2:07 PM |
| Even in families with both parents living the older siblings some times have to enforce discipline when parents are not home. When I was a boy ny older sister had to spank my bare bottom a few times. You as the parent figure in your siblings lives have a responsibility to discipline them ↑ |
| Name: brendan | Date: Feb 22nd, 2010 7:41 PM |
| were you spanked recently ↑ |
| Name: anon101 | Date: Mar 3rd, 2010 2:06 AM |
i am in custody of my 23 year old sis. she mads me undress so she got full view of my penis. she then grabbed it and made me lean over. she spanked me alot.us i kinda liked it.us she would squeeze my dick if i squirmed around. it hurt
later when i was 13, she started kicking my balls as punishment. she always supported me. ↑ |
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