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Name: Nini
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I am two months away from being 20. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years now and we live together. The other night I found out I was pregnant, and was completely shocked to find out he wanted me to get an abortion. I have always told myself that the only way I would get an abortion is if the child came from rape. He sat me down and told me it was impossible, I only have a part time job and he doesn't make enough to afford the rest. I don't have insurance but I think I could get some help. I think it's wrong to have an abortion since my baby comes from love and honestly I want it. Although, he has another child who will be 4 in August and he just pays child support monthly. Can anyone please help me? I think I would regret for my whole life if I had an abortion! I don't want him to be miserable and I want my baby to live a good lifestyle. PLEASE HELP.
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Name: Shannon | Date: Jun 11th, 2012 11:55 PM
Sweetheart, you have other options. If you think that it is impossible to support your little one... Put it up for adoption. If you want to keep it... There are government programs that will help you! The fact that he was having sex with you and knowing your views on abortion shows that he is not respectful or very loving of you. If you are close to family, see about getting support from them. Try to talk to him again. Tell him again how you feel and that in no uncertain terms are you having an abortion. If he threatens to leave... That is not love and he is not worth wasting your time on. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Remember, there are plenty of women in your situation who manage to keep the baby and make it work as a single parent. You can do this! Be strong! I will remember you in my prayers! 

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