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Name: mary123
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I'm 15 and 5 months pregnant. My Boyfriend the father
wants to keep the baby and get married. My Mom said she willn't help me or see me again if I get married to him. She said she would help me raise the baby if I don't get married. I don't know what to and I need help.
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Name: meganwoodall | Date: Nov 12th, 2008 6:39 PM
wow what a situation you have yourself in. can the father take care of you and the baby? your 15 you cant get married and your mother has a reason for not wanting you to get married. if you are concerned about the father trying to take the child from you if you refuse to marry him that isnt possible as long as you live with your mother and the child is being taken care of he has no legal right to have the child. if you were smart youwouldnt put his name on the birth certificate either. if you need anything please contact me at [email protected] 

Name: Roze | Date: Nov 22nd, 2008 5:48 AM
It's good that he wants to be in your's and the baby's life but are u sure that u want to get married so soon. Will your mom let you stay with him so he can be apart of his baby's life to or dose your mom want the baby's father out of both of your lifes? 

Name: mary123 | Date: Dec 16th, 2008 5:08 AM
Yes My Boyfriend can take care of me and the baby his Mom and Dad left him alot of money and a house. My Dad will let live him if I pick him over my mom and would love to marry him but I don't want to lose my mom or him. 

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Name: RaRaa03 | Date: Apr 23rd, 2009 5:30 PM
how long have you been with your boyfriend? ill tell you for my experience i think you are moving too fast. i was going to get married to my boyfriend(now husband) when i was 18 but out of chance we were too young and its good that we didnt when we wanted to because we werent really thinking of the future. we ended up breaking up and 2 years later got back together. and at 21 we got married with the blessings of everyone. i honestly believe if we had gotten married wen we first wanted to we would have already been divorced. you should wait, you want him to marry you because he loves you not because hes trying to do the right thing. it may be a sweet gesture but it also may ruin everyones life if you're both not ready. 

Name: RaRaa03 | Date: Apr 23rd, 2009 5:34 PM
plus marriage is only worth it if everyone you love is truely happy for you and him. i hope you two wait, theres nothing wrong with a wedding when you've already had a baby or a yr or 2 later. 

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