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Name: Jenny
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My mother in law and her friend caught me in bed with another man.She chased the guy out and the price of her silence is my hair.I have to go to a gents hairdress shop and ask him to cut my hair as short as he wants and i have to tell him why im getting a punishment haircut she wants me to be publicly humiliated.Im 22 and i love my husband very much this was a one off mistake which i deeply regret.I have to go shortly what can i say to make my mother in law change her mind or do i own up to my husband??
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Name: Mary | Date: Dec 12th, 2007 7:41 PM
Tell your husband if he loves you he may forgive you if you get all your hair cut of how will you explain that to him anyway. 

Name: Debby | Date: Dec 12th, 2007 9:09 PM
Better to lose your hair than your man Jenny get down the barbers maybe a bit of humility will do you good. I cant think how you are going to explain your lack of hair but maybe you can think of somthing as you are sitting in the chair sorry. 

Name: Joe | Date: Dec 12th, 2007 11:31 PM
I think your mother in law is giving you another chance she is not going to tell on you and your hair will grow back in time tell us how you got on 

Name: Ann | Date: Dec 13th, 2007 10:47 PM
Tell your husband Jenny god only knows what your mother in law will make you do next.Think about it jenny you could be the laughing stock of your area and then your mother in law could still tell all.Dont forget her friend she also knows she may want to punish you in some stupid manner. 

Name: lindalu | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 1:44 AM
I say fess up to hubby, besides... how do you know that after you get all your hair cut off MIL wont tell him any way?

I do have to say....MIL thought up a good punishment. 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 10:43 PM
Thanks Lindalu but I went to the Gents and told him I needed a punishment haircut for getting caught he told all the other customers and they all agreed to let me go before them.They thought it would be a great laugh at my expenss.When I got in the chair he turned it round to face them so they could get a better view.I sat down with hair past my shoulders he started by cutting right round my head above my ears.The men were all laughing and making comments like cut it higher so he did!! Then out came the clippers and he run them up the back and sides then he askd all the men if he should finnish me of with a razor he got a big yes for that so on went the cream and he went round my head with a razor.Some of the men were crying with laughing to much.Then he turned me round in the chair to face the mirror O MY GOD I had no hair two inches above my ears all the way round my head it was all bald one of the men said it was a mushroom cut I ran out with them all laughing and shouting at me.All the way home I could see people stareing and giggling my mother in law and her friend think its perfect my husband has not seen it yet what o what can i tell him? 

Name: Rachel | Date: Dec 15th, 2007 12:06 AM
You stupid fool your husband is going to know your haircut is not the latest style he will demand to know why you have had your hair cut in such a way what possible story can you tell him.If he discovers the truth that public humiliation you went through will be for nothing you had better think fast girl.My only thought is get your MIL to help out it is her doing.But i do agree with Lindalu its one hell of a punishment I only hope its the only one you get. 

Name: Pete | Date: Dec 15th, 2007 12:42 AM
Ha Ha Ha I think its a great punishment boy I would have given a 100 to watch that haircut a mushroom I love it Ha Ha Ha your MIL is a hero. 

Name: Ann | Date: Dec 15th, 2007 11:42 PM
You have made a bad choice Jenny you are will have to do any other thing your MIL or her friend want you to do.\i just cant understand why did you not think I believe you now face more humiliation I do feel for you. 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 16th, 2007 12:15 AM
Thanks Ann you may be right I asked my mother in law for help explaining my haircut to my husband she agreed as long as I agreed to do what ever she asked I agreed to her deal what choice did I have.She told my husband that she had been helping me with a home perm and it all went wrong and that she had cut off all my damaged hair he believed her but that leaves me in her power now and I think that I may have made a bad choice.I had no idea one stupid mistake was going to lead me down this path I cant think of a way out help!! I know its my fault but I have been punished the haircut is unreal it will take me a year to grow it back. How can I convince her that I dont need any more humiliation I have leaned my lesson. 

Name: Ann | Date: Dec 16th, 2007 12:47 PM
Its not to late Jenny you could still own up if you dont your MIL will just go on punishing you in any humiliating way she or her friend want to.Her only hold over you is the fact she caught you in bed with a man if it TRULY was a one off tell your husband the truth he may fogive you.You must also realise that if you are publicly humiliated again your husband could well find out.How will you exlain that? You have been punished I think you have learned your lesson tell all or be prepared to be made the joke of your area. 

Name: Pete | Date: Dec 16th, 2007 1:25 PM
Hello mushroom head Ha Ha Ha your MIL has got you now I was trying to think of some realy humiliating things she could do to you. What about a good old spanking in front of all her friends better on the bare a mushroom head with a red bum what a picture Ha Ha Ha .The MIL from hell what a stupid fool you are Ha Ha Ha 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 16th, 2007 9:48 PM
Thanks Ann I know you are right im in for a bad xmas my mother in law has now told my husband I cant wear a wig because the back and sides of my shaved head must be in the air at all times and shaved twice a week at this rate my hair will never grow back.My mother in law has now told me we are going shopping for some new outfits for me and a new range of underwear god knows what that will mean. My husband thinks its great we are now getting on so well. Its just not fair I look a fool with this haircut and now I have to go around the town so she can buy me some sexless outfits I bet. 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 16th, 2007 10:26 PM
I did tell the truth it was a one off but I have been a terrible flirt around the area I wont be from now on not with this mushroom cut some will say the punishment is long overdue god I wish I could turn the clock back.Thanks Ann. 

Name: lindalu | Date: Dec 16th, 2007 11:18 PM
Jenny did you cut your hair because MIL said to, or was it because you felt guilt? If it is guilt the hair cut will not relieve it, the only thing you can do to relieve the guilt is to tell DH.

Sweetie we are all human thus making us all prone to mistakes. Don't torture yourself any longer! tell DH about it. Personally I think MIL was wrong for asking you to do that. Cutting your hair will not change what you did, it only gave MIL sick laugh at yours and DH expense. 

Name: Ann | Date: Dec 18th, 2007 6:17 PM
Hi Jenny Lindalu is right if you dont own up your MIL will punish you more and more. I know he may not believe you when you say it was a one off because you are a terrible flirt. Your MIL has seen you make him look a fool behind his back and will only publicly humiliate you its a wonder that she did not make you get the haircut at the Gents in the nude.I know its a difficult choice I'm sorry but I will be here if you want to talk.
That bit about the shopping trip sounds bad to me be carefull!!! 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 18th, 2007 9:05 PM
Hello Ann you were right about the shopping trip I am now wearing a shapless sack type dress and the biggest knickers my mother in law could find in my size they are past my waist.I have had to buy a load of them and plain old womens bras if any one see''s me in them I will just die I wont ever live it down she must have a plan to show me of.I will have to tell my husband he knows I only wear thongs I cant think of a story about these big pants.The haircut is bad bad but to be seen in this underwear is just to much.I will own up thanks for your comments and thanks to you Lindalu I will let you know how it went.I think that is was some guilt but I thought my Mother in law would not let me go through with it fool I was. 

Name: Carol | Date: Dec 20th, 2007 6:11 PM
I was havin a bad day till I read your story what a great punishment for a mingin tart a tart like you took my husband I hope your MIL keeps humiliating you I like that idea of a naked haircut you MIL is the best . 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 20th, 2007 11:12 PM
Hello Ann and Lindalu I took your advice and now I'm in big trouble.I told him about getting caught the haircut and the granny pants.She was there and they both went mad real mad shouting and stuff.He thought the haircut was "a dam good idea" I had to take of my dress and show him the undies he just laughed I cried.She said that her plan was to give me a "trim" in front of all the neighbours wifes whos husbands I had flirted flashed my knickers seen topless sunbathing everthing came out.I was to get my "trim" in just my granny pants MY GOD I SAID NO WAY.He said sounds like a good idea I just cant believe he said that.He said he was sick of my childish behaviour and constant teasing and flirting.So thats my choice be totaly humiliated by his mother in front of everyone she can do what she likes as well as the "trim"I just dread to think what can happen.I must wear this bloody underwear and my hair is to remain very short I have to get it cut at the gents from now on.If I agree to this he will draw a line under it and we start again.I followed your advice now I'm really in for it there must be something I can do to avoid some of this WHY O WHY ME I was only haveing a bit of fun.I do need some good advice and ideas PLEASE PLEASE HELP
Im so sorry why does she hate me so why does she want to humiliate me why will he let her do it.Do I really deserve this sort of punishment I'm not really that bad 

Name: Ann | Date: Dec 21st, 2007 2:35 PM
O I'm so sorry darling I never thought it would be like that for you.I'm quite shocked by your husband he must be really angry with you to allow your MIL to carry on with your humiliation.You need to stop the "trim" in front of the wifes that could be very bad if the punishment ends up of a childish nature mega humiliating to some one your age.If they insist in a form of public humiliation for you try to think of one with people that dont know you in another town.Try to appeal to your husband without your MIL there he is a man.Do a deal with your MIL go round all the wifes and appoligise to them with her thats all I can think of now I'm so sorry I do wish you all the best LOL Ann

Ps How old is your MIL? 

Name: Carol | Date: Dec 21st, 2007 2:57 PM
It sounds just right thats what you need a very public humiliation then you can feel like your husband must have felt for all those years you have been messing about flashing and flirting tell your MIL to keep up the good work. I hope you cry and cry 

Name: Janet | Date: Dec 21st, 2007 9:16 PM
Insted of a punishment haircut why does't your mother in law spank you on your bare bottom in public that would be a better punishment, , I know when mom spanks me I get humiliated 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 21st, 2007 9:58 PM
Thanks Ann I did offer to apoligise to all the wifes but that is not what she wants she wants me to be humiliated in front of people like the haircut.I had a private word with my husband but he wont budge his mother is to decide what my punishment will be.I agree I cant let her have her way in front of all those people. I know the idea in another town is good but what can I offer I dont want to even contemplate anything like that stupid bitch Janet has suggested so I need to be carefull what I say my MIL would think that idea was great but NO WAY.It needs to be something she will really go for,a good showing up is what she needs thats what she said. Why are all these people against me what have I done to them I just dont understand please help LOL Jen

PS She is 59 and my husband is her only child I think that has something to do with this hatred or am I just a fool I behave like one 

Name: Pete | Date: Dec 21st, 2007 10:50 PM
Boy o Boy Your MIL is going to sort you out back in the barbers chair I think why not naked that must be the most humiliating haircut in the world Ha Ha Ha Your friends Ann and Lindalu have no advice have they you are a silly childish fool and deserve all you get.You husband has got the right idea let mummy sort it out he should spank you in the front garden let the wife''s watch that. 

Name: Ann | Date: Dec 22nd, 2007 12:04 AM
Hi jennny I thought your MIL was old and you married her only son that explains a lot she is very protective you hurt him now she will hurt you.I''m afraid she is of an age that do believe in some more direct punishment I know you said no way but she would go for it.The idea of another haircut at a gents I dare not say it but some ideas have been suggested I know its outlandish but you will have to consider everthing the final choice is yours which is the worst they are both mega humiliating.
You could always walk away and start new. You are very young then no worries about any humiliation.Those people like Janet are only laughing at you I dont think they really hate you like MIL does.I cant really help you its such a mess it depends how much you want to stay with him in the end LOL 

Name: Joan | Date: Dec 22nd, 2007 2:05 PM
This is stupid Jenny you have already gone and had most of your hair cut of for this vindictive bitch. Now you are thinking about a nude haircut in front of a load of dirty old men or allowing her to smack you like a child.Get a life girl tell them both NO you have had your punisment which was far to harsh all of you need to move on hopefully together.If you let this woman humiliate you anymore all your self confidence will be gone DONT DO IT SAY NO!!!
Remember she is a woman like you ask her what would she feel if her hair had been cut off. 

Name: Lory | Date: Dec 22nd, 2007 4:50 PM
When I read this I thought it was a joke! If it is....shame on me for wasting my time!!

Aside from all that...I would tell my MIL to kiss my a$$! And...as far as dh letting his mommy decide your punishment...no wonder you made the choice you did. I'm sorry.......I have to be brutally honest here....I think some serious counseling is needed for all period! 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 23rd, 2007 7:59 PM
Its no joke Lory.I no its really really stupid I just felt so guilty I just went along with it now I look like a freak.I cant face any more humiliation but I think that I deserve it deep down inside I know its stupid but I feel I need to prove to him I am sorry. Maybe his mothers punishment will do that thanks jen
I just hope its not to public. 

Name: Joan | Date: Dec 23rd, 2007 8:33 PM
For gods sake Jenny you do not need to prove your love or anything like that by letting that vindictive bitch of a MIL punish you in public or for that matter in private.You need to sit with your husband and talk this through does he really want you his wife smacked or stripped in public I think not.Tell him your worries about his mothers plans he will I think put a stop to them. 

Name: Jenny | Date: Dec 23rd, 2007 9:06 PM
Hi Joan I have talked to him he said that so long as the punishment is carried out in front of people who dont know us then that is ok and it will prove i'm sorry and love him.So its up to her now I dont know what she has planned but it involves her friend.I dont feel to bad once its done we can restart fresh I hope. 

Name: Lory | Date: Dec 24th, 2007 1:45 AM
Nope...don't do it!!! Humiliating yourself in front of anyone..anywhere is not going to help any situation....if your dh is truly into forgiving...and, loving...he will not make you humiliate yourself anywhere...anytime!! If that is what he or she expects....it's time you thought of moving along...IMHO!! That's not what someone who says/claims they are willing to forgive, forget & love....is all about!! If this is the case....I'm sorry again...I think you need to think about moving along.....IMHO!! Best Wishes!!
p.s. And...for Christ's sake...MIL needs to stay the he!! out of it...it's not about you, her and him...it's about you & him!!!! 

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