I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my 1st child, a wonderful baby boy.
His father left the day I told him I'm pregnant & has made it very clear he wants no involvement at all, which is fine by me that's fully his choice & he made it. I've decided not to tell my son about his father until he's much older, if I tell him at all.
My problem is I'm with a great guy, we love eachother very much (and have so for a few years now just too blind to see it) & he already loves my unborn son, talking to my belly, making plans for him etc.
But at the end of the day my son's not his & we're both unsure what title to give him, we don't want to make Xandir call him "Dad" then for him to hate us later when/if he finds out about his father. But I don't want Xandir just calling him by his name or a nickname then getting confused about it all.
Arrgh this is doing my head in!! ↓
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