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Name: kimberly
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I have a 3 year old daughter who was diagnosed as mildly autistic. I have been trying to potty train her off and on for about 2 months. I have to admit I have not been very consistent. However, her language and communication is pretty high functioning and she seem to know the purpose of the potty chair. We have sat on the potty for hours at a time reading books and telling "potty" stories and she really enjoys it. I have even made a chart with pictures showing her the steps, since I read that autistic children respond better to pictures. She has even indicated at times that she feels "yucky" when she poops or pees in her diaper. The frustrating part is that she will drink tons of liquids and sit on the potty for hours, not go, but as soon as I put her training pants back on, she will pee! It's like she's holding it until she gets off. It is driving me crazy!! I don't know if she really isn't making the connection, or if she is just playing me. Can somebody out there give me some advice?
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Name: Lisa | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 5:28 AM
Kimberly,
My son did not learn to use the potty until he was about 4 years old,he did the same thing he wouldn't go on the potty but when I would put a diaper on him he would go in his diaper,I don't think that she is doing that on purpose,I think that she is just used to going in her diaper, so thats where shes wants to go. And sometimes kids have a hard time telling when they have to go. Or they are afraid because they think the pee pee or poopy is a part of them and they don't want to let it go.With my son, we made a small bank out of a tupperwear dish and put stickers all over, and we wrote "Austin's potty money on it."Then we would look through the adds in the paper and decide what he wanted to buy with his potty money, and he would save up for that special toy. We would give him a dime for trying, a quarter for pee pee and two quarters for poopy.And its also a good learning tool, for adding. I think it really made a difference for him. Hope this helps. 

Name: Tia | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 6:50 AM
I'm trying to train my 3 year old son but I'm not really too consistant either. My son will go in a corner consistantly, which I don't encourage, but not on a potty. From the way his therapist explained it to me is autistic children often have to see themselves peeing to know they are going. My son also will hold his urine until he gets away from the potty. My husband takes my son to the bathroom with him to show him that's where he pees and always asks if he has to go while they are in their together. Sometimes he goes sometimes he doesn't. Keep in mind a lot of autistic kids are creature of habit. They never had to go anywhere to pee in a diaper. Keep taking your daughter to the bathroom when you go and ask her if she wants to try. I'm no expert on the subject and need advice myself. Consistency seems to be the key with everything else with my son. Make every bathroom trip a "pee party" so she see's everyone goes in the same spot. I hope this makes some sense. Good Luck! 

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