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Name: Lory | Date: Mar 27th, 2008 1:38 PM
Victoria---No...your new hubby's income will not be a factor in child support. It will always be based on yours & your x's income. 

Name: blas | Date: May 6th, 2008 8:19 PM
I've been fighting for custody for almost 5 years now.....the judge issued 4 drug test already and he has failed them all.....so why are they still giving him a chance to hurt my daughter......I think its my lawyer!!!!any suggestions? 

Name: REY | Date: May 30th, 2008 3:49 AM
I RECIEVED ORDERS FOR CHILD SUPPORT I HAVE TWO DAUGHTERS MY OLDEST DAUGHTER I AM NOT PAYING CHILD SUPPORT FOR MY YOUNGEST ONE HER MOTHER PUT ME ON CHILD SUPPORT. I ASKED THEM ALL OF THE RECIEPTS THAT I HAVE IVE BEEN PROVIDING FOR BOTH OF MY CHILDREN WHENEVER THEY NEED SOMETHING I GET IT NO QUESTIONS ASKED I WAS TOLD IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT I HAVE BEEN PROVIDING IF IT WASNT A MONEY ORDER MADE TO HER SAYING CHILD SUPPORT IT DOESNT EVEN COUNT NOW I HAVE BACK PAY AND AN AMOUNT EVERY MONTH THEY I KNOW I CANT PAY BECAUSE I ALSO HAVE TO PROVIDE FOR MY OTHER DAUGHTER IT IS CRAZY HOW SOME WOMAN CHILD SUPPORT IS ALL THEY LIVE OFF OF I NEVER FELT COMFORTABLE GIVING HER THE MONEY BECAUSE ALL SHE WILL DO IS SNORT IT AWAY AND DEPT OF CHILDREN AND FAMILIES CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT UNLESS THEY CATCH HER IN THE ACT SO WHAT AM I TO DO I AM TRYING MY BEST WHILE SHE SITS ON HER BEHIND COLLECTING FOOD STAMPS UP TO 500.00 DOLLARS A MONTH SHE LIVES OFF HUD PAYING 50.00 A MONTH AND SHE WORKS PART TIME COLLECTS MONEY FROM HER OTHER DAUGHTERS FATHER WHAT CAN I DO . SHES BEEN ON ASSISTANCE FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS AND STILL HAS NOT MADE A MOVE TO TRY AND BETTER HERSELF. IM BARELY MAKING IT MYSELF AFTER PROVIDING FOR BOTH OF MY CHILDREN AND NOW SHE WANTS MORE I AM REALLY LIVING PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK BUT NOW I AM STUCK HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR A SECOND JOB NO LUCK THEY REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND ALOT OF US FATHERS ARE TRYING SOMETIMES WE JUST HAVE OUR BACK AGAINST THE WALL SHE WONT EVEN LET MY CHILD COME TO MY HOUSE AND ITS WRONG I BABYSAT HER CHILDREN WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER BUT I CANT BABYSIT MY OWN DAUGHTER SHE CANT EVEN SPEND TIME WITH HER OLDER SISTER AND IT IS WRONG BUT THE SYSTEM IS IN HER FAVOR . 

Name: Paul | Date: Jun 11th, 2008 5:26 AM
I have a question for any of you to answer. My wife and I are on the verge of breaking up. This past Friday she was arrested and charged with domestic assault against me. I did not call the police; she did. She called them because after she hit me in the face, I left the room so she couldn't hit me again, because I knew that if I would have stayed, I would have seriuosly hurt her. Well, went do stairs and locked the door behind me so she couldn't follow me. That's when she got mad and said, "since you don't want to talk, I'm calling the cops and your azz is going to jail tonight." She said she was going to tell them that I choked her. I told her she was crazy, and that she would be the one going to jail, not me. Well, the police came and arressted her. When she return home early Saturday morning. I stayed at a friends house with my boy. When I returned home that morning, she asked if I would let our 2yr old son spend some time with her, I said yes because I didn't think it would have been right for me to not let her spend time with her own son. While I was out running errands I came back home to find that she had left with our son. She also took 2000.00 out of the bank account. Now I don't know where she is and although I've spoken to her on the phone, she refuses to let me see my son. What should I do? 

Name: sean | Date: Jun 18th, 2008 9:17 PM
can my ex wife get in trouble for keeping my kids tax return for two years 

Name: lisasing | Date: Jun 19th, 2008 9:51 AM
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Name: Annie | Date: Jun 24th, 2008 12:45 AM
My fiance pays 350.00 a week for his six year old daughter. His ex-wife now works only two days a week, just bought a brand new Toyota Fore Runner, Florida every winter, and whenever he picks his daughter up, she's dressed in RAGS. Sooooooo frustrating. 

Name: complicated1028 | Date: Jun 26th, 2008 4:44 PM
it all depends on who has primary custody I think. If it's all 50/50, and they are split placed, but he's only paying you cause he happens to make more $$ than you, then as long as he pays, that's what it's for, and you shouldn't ask him. Some judges make the guy still pay even though it's joint custody, just cause they happen to make more, and that's not fair. but if during the review he doesn't have to pay at all, then yes, you should discuss the bills for the kids be split 50/50. 

Name: bill | Date: Jun 27th, 2008 6:07 AM
hello 

Name: viv | Date: Jul 8th, 2008 6:36 PM
i would like to no if i stoped claiming social for her and recieve the child support of which my x husband is payin 

Name: youlover | Date: Jul 9th, 2008 8:09 AM
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Name: Elizabeth | Date: Jul 15th, 2008 5:07 AM
I think that you should ask him in front of someone who can witness what you are asking.
My husband and I were married for two yearsand he beat me for the majority of the time we were together. I kept thinking that if I done certain things that maybe he would change. I got pregnant after we had been together for about a month. i didn't find out until after I was already a month pregnant. He asked me to marry him before I found out I was pregnant so I thought that he loved me and he would change. I left him when my kids was 18 months old. I had no choice but to leave my kids there and I was too scared to wait or to go back again. I left at night and the very next day I went to apply for custody and I didn't win so now I owe child support. I support my kids, I wished they were here with me. I am in college. when I starte college I reapplied for custody and when I got my money the first time for my school I bought everything that I needed for my kids. I buy them stuff everytime I have money. I have to go to court 2moro and I have already been once, I am just wondering if I have to pay 70.08 a week and I owe that for two months plus an additional 500 would I go to jail. any advice 

Name: lisasing | Date: Jul 15th, 2008 11:36 AM
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Name: ann | Date: Jul 15th, 2008 2:28 PM
I get $500 for two kids when my ex makes $789,000 last year alone....go figure....he is just screwing his kids out of what is theirs to begin with. I really don't appreciate the comment that my kids don't see their "support" I put it in a checking account that is just for them. It is supposed to be money to help take care of them and keep a roof over their head. My daughter alone went through $900 last month and that don't count day to day stuff. She is in Cheer and soccer. SO not all mom use "child support" for themseleves. I would much rather him keep the money and get lost. He was abusive to me and still is to his current wife and he left bruises on my daughter 3 mths ago and CS never even showed up. He makes $$ and has always paid his way out of everything. Next job offer I get away from here I am taking and protecting my children from him and his NUTS family 

Name: dragonangel | Date: Jul 15th, 2008 11:42 PM
Its a good thing your children are older and can understand financial difficulty. There are programs that can help pay for sports. It is not wrong to ask just don't be upset if he cannot help, sometimes just volunteering as a parent can even get you a discount or have the fee waived all together. There are friendly options so don't give up. God Bless 

Name: step mum | Date: Jul 22nd, 2008 3:51 AM
all i have ever done since i've been with my hubby is fight CSA and the ex wife . No one thinks of the other parent who misses out , they lose their kids , all the belongings , friends anything. At the time she took the kids he didnt even know if the baby at a month old was his! Any way she had had an affair. But the kid turned out to be his after a DNA. All through this he aways paid maintenance even some cash in hand to her. She would lie and say he never. She was on the pension for years but doing cash jobs while my hubby now worked two jobs to support our new family. Yes its damn hard and it the kids that count , but its not wrong to find love again and have more kids. It's been very hard all these years and the ex has done nothing but use the kids as weapons. Well, we finally got the older kid last year thinking great, she bloody used us , we spent alot to establish her and had to get alarger car which was alot in payments a month, but she didnt like our rules so ran off to a 3rd party , wont go to her mothers. They now with new laws have to legally claim for child support, they want $432 a month for her when we have 4 kids of our own and 2 of them have a disabitly . HOW IN THE HELL IS THIS RIGHT? I'm so fed up fighting all the time. I love my hubby but i dont know if i can do this anymore. But then my kids miss out. This 15 yr old selfish young girl doesnt give a care about what we did for her. So much for the little blue eyed 4 year old i feel in love with. The CSA system needs to be Fixed. 

Name: MoS | Date: Jul 24th, 2008 6:38 PM
Just because you are divorced doesn't make you any different from any other family, if the money decreases you need to give up something. That's life! Just don't blame Dad, stuff happens. (Do the kids have any idea how much stuff costs, sports, uniforms, classes, the grocery bill, do they do chores or do they get money every week?)
There is no such thing as I paid my half you pay yours. Would it be that way if you were still married? Kids can't be divided they are people. You just have to do the best you can with what you've got.

If YOU want the kids to continue and you have the money, than you need to pay for it with your new family.

But let's think about. instead of spending so much money on extra curricular activities maybe the time could be better spent participating in family activities with dad or mom, camping is cheap and fun, family bike rides. talking. 

Name: charlene | Date: Aug 7th, 2008 11:07 AM
hi 

Name: MARGARET | Date: Aug 18th, 2008 1:50 AM
OMG I WENT TO LEGALBANKSEARCH.COM AND FOUND MY EX'S BANK. THANK YOU SO MUCH 

Name: Brandy | Date: Aug 19th, 2008 5:30 PM
I have 14 year old twin girls and my x-husband does not pay child support. This was an agreement between the two of us. I live in Texas and was wondering can I still get child support. If so, can I go back for back child support? 

Name: Ally | Date: Sep 8th, 2008 8:14 PM
I have some child support questions...can anyone help me? 

Name: 4mom | Date: Sep 10th, 2008 8:15 AM
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Name: tommy | Date: Sep 10th, 2008 7:30 PM
My Parents got a devorce back in the sixties.They tried to get back together a couple of times but it never worked out.Now there was no child support issue and non was ordered and who we wanted to stay with was up to us kids.so we had an open door at both parents house.The courts stayed out of my families buisness.We all got along and to this day there is no problem in my family and no blame.A father is a father not a sperm doner.Open up the doors and just have your kids ask their dad if he says yes or no than thats it ..grow up... 

Name: ame | Date: Sep 13th, 2008 7:05 AM
my husband and i were married in my country... he is a us citizen and i am not... he was not in my country when i gave birth to the our child... he is aware that we do have a child together after we got married... he has not send support ever since the child was born... i was wondering if i am qualified to get child support or to demand child support and how do i go about it if i am qualified ... you advice would be appreciated.. thanks 

Name: berlin | Date: Sep 27th, 2008 1:01 AM
hi 

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Name: Biscuit Tin | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 9:22 PM
I have to agree with amazing. If you want the extra things for the children then you should pay for them. I'm sure if he wants to do extra activities with the children when they are with him, he doesn't present you with half the bill for weekends away or cinema visits etc 

Name: WSmith | Date: Oct 4th, 2008 11:55 PM
Now, this is a story all about how
My life got flipped-turned upside down
And I liked to take a minute
Just sit right there
I'll tell you how I became the prince of a town called Bel Air

In west Philadelphia born and raised
On the playground was where I spent most of my days
Chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool
And all shootin some b-ball outside of the school
When a couple of guys
Who were up to no good
Startin making trouble in my neighborhood
I got in one little fight and my mom got scared
She said 'You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air'
I whistled for a cab and when it came near
The license plate said fresh and it had dice in the mirror
If anything I can say this cab is rare
But I thought 'Now forget it' - 'Yo homes to Bel Air'
I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8
And I yelled to the cabbie 'Yo homes smell ya later'
I looked at my kingdom
I was finally there
To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air 

Name: william | Date: Oct 9th, 2008 12:12 PM
the state take my tax refund back child surport pendley $35.000 dollar that my son wont get no money 

Name: Lydia | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 9:32 PM
I think it's in the best interests of the kids to pay for hime to help with those activities. Life skills, social and esteem building skills are the benefitst of being able to participate in sports, etc. Hopefully he's a good man and will and will do it! 

Name: Lydia | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 10:16 PM
I'm part of a group that just started up a site for parents and children who don't receive child support. They are recruiting to get a group together that wants to promote and participate in making an income for ourselves through internet sales, marketing and donations and advertising....spreading the word through ourselves, friends, family and networking. The hope is to generate income to distribute to the families that need them. The child support system doesn't work for those of us that don't receive help from the NC parents. The concept is rather than waste time with things we cannot change,..we can ban together to make a self supported income that would go back to us so we can be there for our kids instead of petitioning the courts for years on end with no results and working two jobs and waiting for a miracle to occur. If you're interested in getting involved the name of the site is Child Support Angels Network. The site should be live in a few days. It is intended to be a group effort so everyone can promote, submit ideas and bring others on board. 

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