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| Name: moma2316 | Date: Jul 29th, 2005 8:52 PM |
| well i think your being to nice you need to think to yourself that if you keep allowing him to do that hes just gonna feel that you dont care therefore hes gonna say you didnt care then why do you now ↑ |
| Name: moma2316 | Date: Aug 31st, 2005 4:06 PM |
| It is unfortunate your ex-husband does not spend MORE time with his children ↑ |
| Name: Sara | Date: Sep 1st, 2005 1:41 AM |
| Abba if your circumstances which resulted in his contact being limited to once a month is anything like mine, I would be very concerned when he has not brought the children back proptly. I would contact the police if there has been any history of violence and see what you can do. A court order my have to be put in place. Moma2316 I am a little confused with your feedback, you seem to have changed your tune in month between messages. Is there something that you would like to share with us? ↑ |
| Name: Zoe | Date: Oct 2nd, 2005 11:18 AM |
| No you are not being unrealistic. Being a man he could do anything with them, no horrible thoughts won't help you sleep at nights but keep in mind that men are capable of anything. They're BASTARDS. ↑ |
| Name: Zoe | Date: Oct 2nd, 2005 11:19 AM |
| Can someone tell me how to put your problems on here so that you get a response? ↑ |
| Name: melanie | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 8:07 PM |
| at last some one who thinks like me. me and my husband have been sepatated for 3 years though we have been trying to work thru our problems. he has just informed me he has a new girl friend and we are arranging visits. i am nervous about leaving my 2 yr old with any one and the thought of him taking him away for even an hour is crucifying me. i am so scared that he will not bring him back. i dont know if either of us are being irrational but in my opinion it is better to side with caution. good luck x ↑ |
| Name: Amanda | Date: Nov 12th, 2005 12:40 AM |
| im glad some one thinks like me. me and my boyfriend have been broke up for 4 years we have been trying to talk things out . he has just told me he has a new girl friend(samantha) and we are planning a visit . i am nervous about leaving my 2 1/ 2 yr old Brooke with any one. the thought of him taking her away for even a second is horrible to me. i am so afaid that he will not bring her back to me.and that frightins me big time Brooke is my only child and i love her and dont want any thing bad to happen to her. ↑ |
| Name: sandy | Date: Nov 14th, 2005 8:24 PM |
| No. You are completely being realistic. What you need to do is take him back to court and let the judge know whats going on. My ex took to court trying to take my then 6 month old child. He thought he was going to full custody; he was wrong. The end result was visitation every 6-8 wks. And not too long ago he came by to take my daughter for the day promising he was going to bring her back the following day. He lives in Florida, and at the time it was not his time to pick her up (for visitation)but it just so happened that he was in town. my gut instinct was not to let my daughter go that night. Im glad I didnt. I had soon found out that if I have, if we wouldve gone back to court. the judge would have dismissed my claim and I wouldve been in the wrong for letting him take my daughter on the day that was not his visitation. You need let your lawyer know whats going and if you have to call the cops. Dont take no chances! Trust your gut instinct. ↑ |
| Name: cat | Date: Apr 16th, 2006 3:37 AM |
| I believe that you are being realistic. You should always trust your inner voice. ↑ |
| Name: dan | Date: Mar 23rd, 2011 11:00 PM |
| happens all the time. remember. the most important detail. the kids. look up equality in parenting. You need learning. why do you people alwys fight fight fight. dont make your kids crazy too. ↑ |
