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Name: Nicky
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My baby's daddy is leaving town about 3 weeks before my due date. He's moving, he wants to be with his other kids, even though he left them in the first place, ages 16 and 17. Then made up a story he wants to get custody of his daughter with another lady-age about 9. What about me? New born child -no daddy around to watch him grow. I know he just wants to be free without being tied down. I've offered him everything, to stay with me, everything to make him stay and he is determined to leave. What do you recommend form here on out-I'm truly heart broken over this. i'm 7 1/2 months pregnant age 22 he's 33. (Thought he was mature.)
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Name: Tasia | Date: Dec 21st, 2005 12:51 PM
Have you ever thought of moving with him? Or does he want to be with someone else? He's only hurting himself in the long run. He's the one thats going to miss out on everything. You need to be strong for you and the baby. It sounds to me like he only wants to be a dad when the kids are half grown. That's not a true man you need someone better than that. As for the comment (thought he was mature) some men never grow up. I know your heart broken this is the hardest time of your life and when you need him the most he wants to run away. Good luck! 

Name: Jackie | Date: Dec 22nd, 2005 6:08 AM
Sounds like he has ran from all of his children. You are right he isn't very mature at all. You deserve better. Do what is best for you and your baby. You will find a great man that will love you and your baby who will love to help you raise your child :) This was the case with my step-father. He was the best father I ever had in some ways. I did still talk to my real father and visit him. I was very close with him actually. It just took him a LONG time to grow up and become a mature adult.

Do what is best for you and the baby sweets :) Sorry for your heartbreak :( 

Name: Nicky | Date: Dec 23rd, 2005 7:42 AM
Tasia and Jackie,
thank you so much for your response =) You guys are the best ! And yes I mentioned moving with him but he's opposed, I believe. he said something like "After your done out of the hospital you can spend 2 months with me during your leave. -great so just pick up all the baby stuff and put it in my VW bug-like thats gonna fit. -lol. I hae no idea girls I'm just tired to worring so much about it. Jackie, I'm glad you had a great step father. I hope one day we all find a perfect someone.
Thank you guys so much! 

Name: bianca | Date: Jan 5th, 2006 3:05 AM
hes only hurting himself. i know youre scared because youre young but you will survive. im 24 and my husband is 33. i moved from texas and came to georgia for him. all i could think about was doing it on my own and i couldnt see it. im from a single family household an it is a job but thats why we are so phenomenal. when you let a dog run away they will come back. if he doesnt he will get fleas. focus on what you can do for your child. if you need someone to talk to email me @ [email protected] 

Name: Sharneeda Payne | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 3:33 PM

Name: Sharneeda Payne | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 3:38 PM
Im only fithteen with a six month old baby. As soon as gave birth to this baby my botfriend didn't want anything else to do with me. 

Name: sonia | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 12:27 PM
Being alone and pregnant is so hard. Make sure you find a good midwife to be with you for the delivery. 

Name: JE | Date: Apr 20th, 2006 8:07 AM
Men Hey... what nasty pieces of work they can be 

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