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Name: Serina
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My husband has 2 kids with his ex w.We have them every Fri. and Sat alt holidays... ex wife M is a piece of work... to say the least.I am always nice to her especally in front of the kids. When I know she worked or was ill on a time we drop of the kids I always say be nice to Mom or try and help her out tonight M is tired or what ever the case.
Any Way... she wanted pictures of her kids at My husbands and my wedding. The photographer was told to take some shots of JUST the kids... well he never did so the only phots I have is of the kids with us. I was trying to figure out how to maybe crop some to figure out how to give her a few . But then... My husband told her the photographer did not take any sorry. She said if she does not get them she will make things harder for us. Like not letting us have a weekend with out the kids.
3 or 4 times a year we ask for a weekend off . So she is saying she does not have to do that anymore but she forgets that we take them on Sundays when she needs us to and during the week and so forth.
I can not stand being manipulated in to giving her pictures of our most private time together as we became a family. I worked so hard on making everthing for the wedding and set up everthing.
I would have given the photos to her the (Of just the kids) but it did not happen.
That day was just about us! Not her. If we let her get away with this she will always get what she wants regardless.Now I really do not want her to have them!
What should we do?
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Name: amazing | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 6:12 AM
I wouldn't even give her pictures of her kids alone from MY wedding. If she wants pictures of her kids, let her take them herself. 

Name: Serina | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 3:38 AM
I posted this a whilre ago .. Do not worry I did not give them to her and never will. SHe is so mean to me and I never did anything to her too bad but she is a wast of air. I wish the kids had a better mother
Thank you !!! 

Name: pj754 | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 5:35 PM
Serina,
Glad to hear you did not give her the photos. She doesn't deserve them. Even if she was nice to you, she has no right to your personal family affair. They are your husband's kids too. If she wants photos, then she needs to take them somewhere and get them done. Stand your, girl!!! No matter how manipulating she may try to be, don't listen to a word she says. She's all mouth. You won't ever get rid of her until the kids are out on their own. So, just ignore what she says or does. You are a stronger person than she will ever be. You have a happy family and she knows it. Hang in there. 

Name: Serina to PJ | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 7:23 PM
Thank you so much . You are such a doll !! I wish I could chat with you but I am off to another DRs apt.
God Bless and Looking so forword in talking with you again!!
Blessings 

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