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Ok I have been with him for 2 years and we had problems in the begging of our relationiship similar to this but it was on the phone all the time talking to one girl. Finally that stopped after 3 times of catching him and him lieing. Meanwhile while he does this I take care of our 2 sons (really his 2 sons) clean, cook and work. Well the other day I came out of the shower in the morning and he had clothes laid out on the bed and I asked him "why are you taking clothes to work"? and he replied "no I am getting the ready for friday cause I want to go out with you" I knew this didn't make since cause he had never done this before. I had already bought a voice recorder and put it in his car because I have had a feeling letely and I checked his phone and the last phone calls are always deleted. Well during the day he calles me and asked if it was ok for him to go out and "admited" thats why he took the clothes and that he was sorry he should of just told me the truth. Well when he got home and went to sleep and I got recorder out of the car and started listening to it. To my surprise he was talking with some girl from his job and his other friends (male) that he was meeting up with his friends nad that girl was going to meet up with him. He told his friends not to make a big deal in front of her.(I guess cause he has another women meeting up with him) and I know all his firends. Then he calls me after (remeber I'm hearing this on the recorder) and tells me he is sorrry and he understands how I feel and that he loves me so much. BS!!!!! well I won't keep going on but I confronted him he denied everything and tried to make me feel like I was crazy and he started to yell at me. I finally told him I heard him on the recorder and he still tried to denie deni deni. Well this happened on fri I am sick to my stomach I am still at the house and he is acting like nothing happened. I don't know whta to do???? Should I leave to my sisters house to give him a wake up call, I do love him but I am going crazy, the trust is out the door and I need some advice. ↓
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