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Name: billy22
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So geuss what I've been doing all day? FREAKING OUT!!!!!! So I hadn't heard from the boys for 2 days and thought, well I will call them this morning on my way to work. The phone was disconnected! So I called his mother, father, and brother.....none of them would give me his new number. SO I called my attorney and the COPS! I have been a wreck all day! I still am! Thankfully my sttorney has it under control and FINALLY my oldest was located(at his grandpa's) and was able to call me. Of course, we had to threaten them with a time line and contempt of court....but whatever. I got to talk to the oldest and he sounded fine. The younger one is supposed to call me this evening. They are still lying about the number because it was the new wife who called and left a message on the machine saying that their Dad doessn't have a cell # at this time as of yesterday, when I had just talked to his mom and brother and they both said that he hadn't had it for at least the past 2-3 days! So they are still trying to hide it from me when the parenting plan clearly states that all communications are to be between he and I only regarding the boys! So they are still in contempt! Come next week, we are still going to be filing contempt of court, but are wanting the boys to be back home first! AHHHHH!!!!!!! Keep me in your prayers! I am going crazy from all this! WHY DO THEY HAVE TO BE SO IMMATURE?!
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Name: Lory | Date: Dec 29th, 2006 11:00 PM
Hi! OMG! I would have been freakin out too!! Our parenting plan stated that also. But...she changed her # every 6 mos. We never knew what number she had at any time! Thank God the kids finally got cells of their own!

I'm sorry you have had to stress so much while they've been gone! As young as your boys are I would definately take em' to court for contempt! Hopefully that will make them realize you are trying to do the right thing. They need to do their part to comply also! I don't know billy22! It's always a tough situation when your dealing with immature people! Does she show up to court?

I understand you feel like your going crazy! I've been there! (still go there on occasion) Your doing the right thing for your boys! That's important! I will surely say a prayer that all goes well for you. Good Luck! Keep me posted. 

Name: billy22 | Date: Dec 29th, 2006 11:28 PM
Thank you so much for the support. We haven't had to go to court yet....but it sounds like that is what's gonna happen and I hope she shows up because her mouth will get her in so much trouble! She can NEVER let him speak for himself! It's really bad! Anyway, I am hoping this will work itself out soon....but everyone tells me that it is always bad until the kids get older! EEEKKKK! 

Name: Lory | Date: Dec 29th, 2006 11:36 PM
Hey! It can be bad until they get older. But...I'll say to you what other's have said to me here. You just live your lifeday to day knowing your a good parent, and doing the right thing! That speaks alot for you and your family! All good things come to those who wait. Eventually it does. 

Name: billy22 | Date: Dec 30th, 2006 1:28 AM
I sure hope it comes soon...thanks again:) 

Name: tweetybird4 | Date: Dec 30th, 2006 3:01 PM
billy22---I certainly agree with Lory. You have to do what's best for you and your children. They are your pride and joy and it shows. Unfortunately, the ex & new wife think they can be in control of everything. Wrong!!! Nope, stand your ground and don't let them get the best of you. Just keep in mind, when you do have your children in your care, give them the love, guidance and discipline they need. They will always be looking for it and will appreciate it as they get older. So, no matter how hard the ex/new wife try to disrupt your morals while raising the children, you continue to do what you believe in your heart that is right. Even if you have to take the legal routes, so be it. Your fighting for the best interest of your children and that's your parental right. You have every right to keep close tabs on your children at all times. They courts won't fault you for being the loving mother that you are. However, be careful and learn all about the father's rights, too. Don't do anything that will jeapordize or punish you. Before you do anything always consult your attorney and the courts. It will save you alot of grief in the long run. Just a food for thought. You take care and hang in there. Please, vent anytime you feel necessary. Oh, by the way, Happy New Year to you and your family! 

Name: billy22 | Date: Dec 30th, 2006 8:00 PM
THANKS AGAIN! :) 


Name: Lory | Date: Dec 31st, 2006 6:14 PM
To billy22 and family. Have a safe and "Happy New Year!" 

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