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Name: Cindy

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I have an eight year old and ten year old but my eight year old refuses to go with her dad. I am not getting any help from her dad because if he didn't have to take them then he wouldn't. I feel that if he gives off this negative vibe that he would rather not have them then she doesn't want to go with him. I don't blame her. I wouldn't want to go with him also. I don't know if I should force her to go or just have her stay with me.
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Name: lucy | Date: Jan 9th, 2011 11:44 PM

I would force her to go unless you suspect abuse is involved.
All of us have to do things that we don't want to do and its just part of growing up. Her other sibling is there to so its not like she is going alone. ↑

Name: lucy | Date: Jan 9th, 2011 11:44 PM