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Name: gaiamom
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Father of my baby lives in a different country since my baby was born its has been back and forth , on and off, 4 months in my country then he leaves for 4 months we lived there for 6 months then separated for 2 and so on for almost five years
The things is that the most time that he used to be away from my son was for 4 months...now is close to 8 months that he doesnt come to see him, the relationship is very bad between us thats the main reason,
since he is not a baby baby anymore he talks more and he understands more so he asks more
when is my daddy going to come to see me?
i miss him , when is he taking us to live with him to new york? why daddy doesnt come?
Im not sure if you tell him : soon, one day, i dont know, we are not going to live to ny anymore.......if to make it softer on him or tell him the straight truth,
I just dont know how to handle it, i been thinking on going to a child psychologist for her to give me more guidance abut this but I would love to hear what u guys have to say
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Name: Priscilla the Egg Tree | Date: Jun 7th, 2007 10:21 PM
Let him speak to him over the phone. It's better than nothing. Give him a photograph and tell him that he can't visit as he's working away.

Give the father a phone and tell him to get his fkn ass over to see his son - he should take some fkn responsibility. What a dumbass. 

Name: gaiamom | Date: Jun 8th, 2007 12:44 AM
Thanks for the reply, I used to let him speak over the phone he used to call often buuuut....i found out he still talks to his ex, (and i dont know if they are together) but is not for that that i dont let him speak to my son,,,that woman sent me an email one day saying that they were going to take him away from me to the states and that my son was a retards that she will put him on a straight jacekt that he is a bastard...horrible nasty hurtfull things...AND HE STILL TALK TO HER!!
thats the way he stands up for his son still talikn to someone that disrespected him.....so i said until you make a 3 way call and you trhow that btch out of your life for disrespecting your son and i make it clean again that is not tell her you choose me over her, no its about him
so i said
choose or you talk to her or you talk to him
but you are not going to use the same mouth to speak to my beautifull baby and to talk to that monster who disrespected my baby
guess what...he hasnty madfe that call....he choose her..he told me is no tabout that he said he wont play my games and he doesnt do what i said
so i said..that i run the show here and i said if you want to talk to him or see him you first give him the place he deserves
so i cant let him speak to him or see him until he does that 

Name: gaiamom | Date: Jun 8th, 2007 12:45 AM
whatr do you think,i went over the top or i have the right to say this plsssssss reply 

Name: mskaitlynn | Date: Jul 11th, 2007 9:51 PM
wow..this guy sounds like a fkn dumba** 

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