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Name: laurenrose
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Hi everyone! My names Lauren and im 9 weeks pregnant! My fiance has a son (2 years old) with his ex wife, and lately i just dont know how to feel about it. Not his son, of course, he's precious and my feelings aren't towards him at all, but i get upset when Nate wants goes to his ex-wifes house for HOURS to see his son. I should add, that his wife only just learned about me, and has no idea of the pregnancy. I've never met her, shes never met me, and he tries very hard to keep it that way. The most either of us has done, is parked on the street infront of each others houses to pick up or drop off the baby. My question is, is it okay to feel angry about this? or even normal? or is this just my mood swings making something small, a bigger deal? i've talked to Nate about it, and i trust him 100%, he's not the cheating type, and actually loathes the women. I just dont understand why i feel this way. Please ladies, i need ya'lls help. thanks!
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Name: lucy | Date: May 15th, 2010 9:31 PM
If he loathes the woman then he does not need to spend hours at her house viisiting the kd. The kd is 2 so he is old enough to stay with his dad for the weekend. It's okay to feel angry about this and this needs to stop because he is giving people the wrong impression.
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Name: Sara | Date: May 15th, 2010 10:08 PM
Your feelings stem out of the fact that your fiance does not have boundaries where you feel like you are the 1 and only woman in his life. I am a stepmom and have many stepmom friends from various local SM groups. Spending hours at his wives house is not typical. If he does not have set visitation or custody then he should pursue it so his ex is not in control. If you have not shared your feelings towards these visits at his ex then you should do so asap. It is better that the two of you set boundaries early on so this does not become a bigger issue. 

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