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Name: Samantha
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I met my husband 4 years ago and married 1 year ago. He has two boys and I have one girl. The kids love each other , !! and I adore/love my husband. When I first met my hubby his relationship with his ex was civil. I also have a CIVIL relationship with my ex. It seemed that as soon as she found out about me she suddenly wanted to become good friends with him. It didn't bother me much. Then I heard she was moving to our town (about 3 miles from us) which I thought was a good idea for the children. Well then I heard she had gotten a job in the same place that both my husband and I work. It was difficult but accepted it and coped with it very well. Well now she is moving a mile closer to our home!!!! I feel invaded. She is also calling and texting my husband more and more for simple little things like "our son has a fever what should i do" seriously!!! I am not a selfish person and i love his boys. I cook for them I always make sure their rooms are nice and clean when they come home. (We have joint custody) I am having a difficult time with her calling and texting him all the time. Don't get me wrong I understand that they must communicate because of the kids but is this normal? She acts as if he is her best-friend. If he walks by her at work and doesn't say hi or smiles she immediately starts calling him or texting him asking if he is mad at her!!! is this normal. Please help Am i being selfish....I dont know what to do.
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Name: jk | Date: Feb 21st, 2011 4:01 AM
No you are not being selfish at all. I would feel invaded too. Talk to your husband ...communication is really important. Your husband needs to set boundaries and may she'll stop texting or calling him all the time. If she calls and texts him all the time its because he is allowing it to happen. That's very disrespectful of her and him. If he loves you he will understand. I am sure he wouldn't like either if your ex called and text you all the time. I am so sorry you are going through this... I feel you pain. 

Name: sue | Date: Mar 8th, 2011 4:26 PM
No, you are not selfish. She has a problem with boundaries. She wants to stay close so she can keep a good watch on what you and he are doing. Creepy. She does not have any legal right to talk to him unless it is a significant issue not "are you mad at me?" It sounds like she is a bit of a narcissist. It is not normal. 

Name: dee | Date: Mar 29th, 2011 2:49 AM
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Name: konanbay | Date: Mar 29th, 2011 7:52 PM
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