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Name: Lory
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Well..finally after 6 mos. CSE has claimed they sent the modification paperwork to hubby's employer. Won't know for sure until hubby goes back to work there. (they are having a 1 week shutdown this week) So, he's at his other job for now.
Anyway, we got all of the "overpayment" of support in the mail Saturday...including the state return they intercepted!! What a huge surprise & shock!!! We didn't think we would see any of it, ever! It could not have come at a better time! b/c my pc needs to be reformatted, amoung other things! Whoo-hoo!!! We're pretty pleased right now!
And...I'm sorry for those that may be offended by me saying this but, (hahaha) they will have to short her support payment for the next few months!!! Now...let's see how she feels when you unexpectedly get shorted on $$ that you counted on!!! One final THANKS to those that offered much needed support & advice to help me get through this!! On a negative note (sorry) now's the time when she'll start sending the orthodontist bills our way since we are responsible for 70% of care!! Oh well, as long as he gets the care he needs!!
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Name: Dawn C. | Date: Mar 25th, 2007 10:43 PM
YEAH...WOO HOO!!! GOOD FOR YOU LORY!!!

OMG...FINALLY a child support story with some justice in it!!

I feel like having a party! ♥ 

Name: pattyl | Date: Mar 26th, 2007 1:36 AM
Do you know what happened to get it straight? Did you contact the governors office? 

Name: Lory | Date: Mar 26th, 2007 1:58 PM
Thanks Dawn...If I wasn't on this diet, I may have had a few to celebrate! LOL!

pattyl, honestly no....I did not call the governor. In fact I've been so busy...I kinda let it go for a couple of weeks, and tried not to think about it. It was stressing the family out too bad! What happened was....they called hubby @ work last week and told him it's all taken care of and we should be getting all of the overpayment back. I said "yeah right", I'll believe it when I see it. We're assuming when they put the "hold" on the account back in Feb. they had every intention of giving it to us. b/c if they hadn't there would not have been any to send us. Why they did not just come right out and tell us that is beyond me? But...hey, I'm not complaining this a.m. It all worked out for the best for now. 

Name: tb4 | Date: Mar 27th, 2007 12:19 PM
Good for you all, Lory!!! It's about time. You know, if the ex was more of a cooperative person, I'm sure you wouldn't feel the way you do. However, I agree, she deserves to have her money shorted unexpectedly. She has stiffed you guys for so long it's just not fair. Yet, once again, all that money you did pay to her, should have went towards some of the kids expenses which she didn't bother to take care of. Nope, she gets what she deserves in full force. I know for me, if and when my support money is suppose to end and being the honest person that I try to be....I'd make sure the proper people know. I don't feel I should get what's rightfully not mine.

In my case, I get so little for 3 children that I have to use it to pay household expenses. Sure, I'm able to get the things the kids need here and there but it isn't much. Although, if my ex was working on a regular basis, things wouldn't be so bad but they are. Now that my current hubby is working, my oldest son has been hitting me up for everything under the sun.....a laptop, a stereo, new $100 shoes, clothes....you name it...he wants it. I explained to him that I have two other children to take care and I can't make the money stretch like he thinks I can. Current hubby refuses to allow me to spend any of his money on him b/c of his nasty behavior. In a certain way, I don't blame him for feeling this way but in another, I'm not going to be cruel either. If this makes any sense? See, at first my son was thinking that all the child support money I get is suppose to go toward whatever he wants....well, it doesn't work like that. I have the other two, who have needs, too. However, even though I explain until I'm blue in the face....it all doesn't sink in.

In fact, the ex was questioning the kids about not receiving any medical bills lately b/c they all have been so sick this past winter. Well, thankfully, the insurance I have for them takes care of everything. Even though the dumb ex realizes he's suppose to be the one to carry the insurance, he doesn't bother to do so.

This is great, Lory! So glad to here things are finally turning around for ya. Good things always come to those who wait!!! (just not this long...LOL!) 

Name: Lory | Date: Mar 27th, 2007 3:01 PM
Hey there tb4! Glad to see ya back on line! We have missed ya dearly! I got your email yesterday....started yours and didn't get to finish it yet. Mine seem to be long too...so much to tell ya!

Thanks very much for your thoughts for me. I does make it hard to be nice or think nice thoughts about the x....when she's been so uncooperative for so long! We (assume) she has not sent any orthodontist bills our way b/c she continued to get $$ that no longer belonged to her! I'm sure she didn't want to stir the pot just yet! But...we will surely see them now! And, although I know it will be just a silly lil game to her....with no thought of her son. It's ok by us...as long as he get's the dental care his sisters never got! He turned 16 this month and should have gotten his braces a few years ago! Now...we have Mikaela (11) and him needing braces at the same time! But, like I said...we're ok with it....we'll push on through it! Just maybe we can demand to take him to some of his appts....hopefully?

In your case....to put it mildly here....he sucks! It breaks my heart when the x brainwashes the children, and does all thier bashing....when they contribute almost nothing for their care & well being! My hubby's x doesn't realize how fortunate she has been all these years...he has managed to stay at 1 job for 15 yrs. and the other it will be 5 yrs. this June! She has no clue about not receiving her support....ever! She has no clue how unaffordable it would have been without medical or dental insurance he carried for the children all these years. I wish someone, somewhere could tell her when she starts complaining to shove it up her a$$! And...just how fortunate she has been to have had a Dad that stepped up to the plate and is a father!! OOHHH...it sickens me to no end! Sorry...when I read, or hear of others struggles....she comes to mind! Ingrate!!!

I'm happy your back girl! I'll finish your email today. Got a lovely orthodontist consult today...to see what the damage is gonna be! ttyl....xoxo 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Mar 27th, 2007 7:50 PM
That's AWESOME Lory!!!! Finally!!!!! Hip-Hip-Hooray!!!!!! :) 


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