Look, some people just don't kids, some do. It's the kind of discussion you need to have before becoming so deeply committed. If you really feel that it "could be the end of us" then the problem is yours, not his. You already have a son, so it's not as if you've never known what it is to birth a child.
Sometimes things like unhappy childhoods make people adverse to the idea of reproducing, so try talking to him about that. Some people just feel there are too many people in the world as it is and there isn't a real cultural need for more of them - the earth's overflowing as it is. ↑ |
