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My parents are getting divorced and i keep having weird mood swings if someoen says hi i sometimes just swear or shout at them and i cant tell anyone about my home life cause what they migh say ↓
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| Name: ally | Date: Dec 17th, 2005 1:41 AM |
| dont worry bout it anonomous cause they both we'll love you mine are too but i told my friends the skool consellor and teachers cause i knew that they would all be supportive ttowards me so you should tell someone cause you'll feel beta k love ally ↑ |
| Name: Don't Be Scared | Date: Dec 22nd, 2005 6:19 AM |
Sweety how old are you? Or what grade are you in? Depending if you are in elementary..middle..or high school could have an affect of how the kids will treat you.
But the fact is....a LOT of parents are getting a divorce. And I bet a lot of the kids that you would tell are probably having the same problems at home that you are!! Maybe not divorce..but that their parents aren't exactly getting along. My point being is that no ones family is perfect and I doubt you would be made fun of because most families go through situations like this.
It is normal to have mood swings :) You are going through a difficult time right now and you need help/support. Talk to your parents and see if they can get you into a counselor or go to your school counselor or just talk to some friends!! Any support is better than no support. ↑ |
| Name: Anonomous | Date: Dec 22nd, 2005 12:09 PM |
| Thank you for the help, Me and my two other sisters are helping each other threw it ↑ |
| Name: Anonomous | Date: Dec 22nd, 2005 12:11 PM |
| and also Im 13 years Old for the person who wanted to know ↑ |
| Name: JackieS | Date: Dec 22nd, 2005 10:06 PM |
Hello it's me Don't Be Scared :) Bonding with your siblings during this time is crucial!! I know it made me and my siblings stronger and it made my fiance and his siblings stronger. As a matter of fact....all my siblings and all of my fiances siblings are best friends. We ALL hang out together. We do everything together.
Friendship is very important for you right now. And the fact that your friendship is with your siblings who know what you are going through right now only makes things better for you :) ↑ |
| Name: bianca | Date: Jan 5th, 2006 3:07 AM |
| first you need to realize that you are not the only one going through this. you would be surprised at how many people have family behind closed doors, they just dont talk about it. you need to talk to someone because it is killing you inside. ↑ |
| Name: Ellen | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 2:45 AM |
| what i did was tell my best friend and with in a few months my closest friends knew....this way I didnt have to tell all of my friends, i just purposefully told a big mouth...... ↑ |
| Name: some1.. | Date: Mar 15th, 2006 7:17 PM |
hey
I've been living with my parents now for 16 years..and we have always been having it good..both of them have jobs and they are healthy and everything and they love me..
but for these last days my parents haven't been talking 2 each other.. and today..just a few hourse ago..I heard my parents aruging and stuff..damn it hurted so much in my heart..I couldn't think or hear anything at all.. it was so unreal..
now I'm sitting here and just thinking, quiet for myself..is this really happening to me..? am I dreaming ? I just can't face the fact , I just can't =(..and I don't have any brothers or sisters..I'm just all by myself with me feeling..I don't know what to do..it's too much.. ↑ |
| Name: Courtney | Date: Mar 17th, 2006 8:58 PM |
| I'm 11 and my parents got divorced a year ago.It was horrible.I had to stay with my mum one week and with my dad the next.At school everybody kept on teasing me by calling me The suitcase kid.Now my dad has a new girlfriend and they live together and my mum has got a new boyfriend and she is expecting a new baby of him.Someone help me!!! ↑ |
| Name: Ms. S. | Date: Mar 29th, 2006 4:51 PM |
| Hi honey - I'm a mom and I'm so sorry for what you are going through. You should definately talk to someone though. Believe me, people are interested in you and what you have to say AND how you feel- and there are others out there too with home lifes who are too scared to talk about it. Just be truthful with yourself - feel what you feel - and its ok to express it to someone you trust - everyone needs to share. Once you share and talk it out (your feelings and everything) you'll feel better. You'll be able to get different views and hear others thoughts about it. Also, it's SO normal to have mood swings- especially now -..but please please just talk it out with someone you trust. good luck with everything- ↑ |
| Name: Anonomous | Date: May 9th, 2006 8:25 PM |
| THANKYOU EVERYONE !!!!!! I talked to my friend about it and we all had a good cry and a nice talk, and its nice to know people are their for me no matter what happens in my family, thankyou you everyone, and thankyou ms.s you really made me feel kind of warm inside lol. ↑ |
| Name: aa | Date: Jun 30th, 2006 1:27 PM |
| Name: Anonomous | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 9:33 PM |
| My girlfriends parents are getting divoreced, she seems real sad and lately she does not want to do anything. What are some ways that I can cheer her up and make her feel better, and show her that life countinues regarless of what is happing to her parents. ↑ |
| Name: chazzys | Date: Aug 9th, 2006 9:44 PM |
hi im chaz
my mum and dad are getting divorced aswell i hate him hes a dickhead but anyway
just chill out abit if ur gonna take it out on someone take it out on ur pillow or sommit but DONT self harm that the most stupid thing u can do im goin completly of the point sorry bout ur mum and dad
chazzy ↑ |
| Name: pj754 | Date: Aug 10th, 2006 1:14 PM |
| To Anonomous: Being there for your friend is the best thing you can do. Try explaining to her that the issue is between her parents, not her. I'm sure both her parents love her dearly. Tell her to think of the positve things. She still can have a good life with both parents. Tell her to set a goal at being the best person she can be. Even though, she is experiencing difficulties with her parents as long as she stays focused on the postive things, she will make both of them proud. Tell her to enjoy her childhood. Don't let this get her down. As much as it hurts her deeply, she has to try to rise above it. Yes, she may feel like it's the end of her world but it doesn't have to be. Perhaps she will be able to do more fun things now, than she did when her parents were together. Tell her not to allow her parents to bash one another. Have her stand up against that. Have her explain to them that she deserves both parents to love her and not involve her in their issues, especially if she has a great deal of love for both. Have her remind them that it's their job to look out for her best interest and that's what she's looking for. Yes, these are strong words for her to say to her parents but if they love her dearly, they will be glad to hear what she's has to say. Even though, the parents dislike each other, there is no reason why they can't be a part of her life together. The feelings of hurt and anger she is experiencing will pass but she has to be the one to rise above it. You are a very good friend for being there for her. Very commendable on your behalf!! Happy wishes and I hope this helps. ↑ |
| Name: reva | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:38 AM |
| Dont worry about what others will say- they probably wont say anything to be truthful. You need to talk about it to someone. ↑ |
| Name: DONNA | Date: Aug 26th, 2006 3:19 AM |
| THINKING SERIOUISLY NABOUT DIVORCE HUSBAND IS MAJOR ALCHOLCOLIC HAD A SEISIOR ON JUNE 22 06 WAS SCARED AND GOOD FOR 30 DAYS I DFONNA DECIEDED TO GO AWAY FOR 5 DAYS THE DRINK BEGAN BLAMED VSELF BUT GOT OVER IT AWAS TO GO AWAY LABOR DAY WEEKEND SAID SHIOULDNT GO DECIEDED TONITE GFO WHY NOT I DESERVE WHAT I GAVE UP I GAVE UP A LIFE I WANT BACKKKKKKKKKK ↑ |
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