I am to a breaking point now!!!! My husbands son from his first marriage who is 12 years old is driving me crazy!!!! His constant lies now that I look back on it might be the reason as of to why his mother is so hateful to me. For instance when my husband and I first got together we went to one of my family reunions down on the lake one year. Well, both my husband and I had to go into work the following morning that the reunion started, and we both thought everything would be fine--boy were we wrong. My parents were there and would be watching over my daughter and his son while we were at work, so the night before we explained to the kids to stay in the cabin until their MeMe and PaPa who were next door came and got them (the camp site consisted of only my family members in a private part of the camp grounds, and the kids were both 10 years old at the time) I returned by 12 noon that day and my husband got back a bit later. Well, needless to say my step-son went home and told his mother that we left him and my daughter in a hotel for 5 hours by themselves and he was scared because there was a strange man that kept walking back in forth in front of the door. Needless to say the ex called and screamed at my husband about all of this, so we all came together the next day (after everything was explained to the ex) and sat his son down and asked him why he would say something like that. His response was, "I don't know--I didn't say that". Well, other lies have been told as time has gone by which I won't get into, but the ex has gone from thinking I was a sweet person to just a miserable one that she doesn't want her son left alone with me for any amount of time.........My husband and her just got finished with some court issuses and he has been awarded Thursday evening visitation during the whole school year from 6 to 8, and he told her if there was ever a problem to where he couldn't exercise that visitation he would call her. Well the thing is she calls every week to see if he is coming, and it is driving me crazy....what part of "I'll call if I(my husband) can't get him" does she not understand........also last weekend when we had him for our visitaion he had to go to UIL on Saturday so my husband left with him in plenty of time to get there and she called being very snippy asking if they had already left because they were still waiting on him to get to the school--my husband showed up with him 3minutes later which made him 18 minutes early before the competition started--His mother wasn't even there she was at her step-son's football game!!!!!
So what do I do?!!? I've considered taking my two children somewhere else on the weekends so we don't have to be around all the lies and BS that is and has been going on now for 2 and a half years... My husband says I'm being crazy and that I worry to much about things...Please give me some much needed advice because I'm starting to think I made a bad decision letting my husband who I love dearly and my step-son as well(but doubting Now) into my life and my daughter's life...then again what fairness is it to our baby as well?!!!!? ↓
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