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Name: katie
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Three years ago, when I had just turned 20, I met the man who has been my bf ever since. We were friends at work and I loved everything about his personality, but unfortunately he was married. I was not thinking straight at the time (a lot of it was due to my naivity and immaturity at the time), and we both acknowledge that we went about things the wrong way. His now ex-wife, whom he had a baby with, obviously thinks I was the reason for their divorce. I understand that she is going to think that way, but the truth is that he was not happy for a long time and she was extremely controlling, along with her family. I know that doesn't justify what we did, but it wasn't like a happy marriage was broken up. Now, it is three years later and we are still together. We also live together. He loves his 3 year old daughter more than anything, and would do anything for her. I know he feels guilty about only being able to see her two days a week, but his ex also feeds on that fact that she can constantly make him feel guilty about "walking out on them". Recently, I have been able to see his daughter too, because he felt it was time for me to get to know her. This didn't go over well with the ex, though. She tortures him with the fact that he is disrespecting her by bringing their daughter around me, and she constantly fills the little girls head with poison about me, even though she is too young to understand any of it. She will repeat things that her mother tells her to say, but when she is around me, she loves me. Like I said before, I understand that his ex is always going to hate me, but I think it is so sad that she is pulling their 3 year old daughter in the middle of this because of her jealousy/anger/animosity. I love my bf's daughter to death, but I am so afraid that when she is old enough to understand more, she will hate me because of what her mother is telling her. Does my situation have any hope?
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