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Name: bug | Date: Sep 29th, 2007 3:05 AM
i want a divorce from my husband but i can't afford the fee. another problem is that we moved in this house together and the house is in his name and he say that i have no part of it. Is this true? 

Name: jenniferb | Date: Oct 1st, 2007 8:11 PM
i was with a guy for 7 yrs and we went through the same thing but during the first week he got with someone else and it was hard on me and my kids but now they have come to coupe with it after 2 yrs of seperation they see him every other weekend they want to see him more but he doesnt u just have to let him see the child as much as he wants dont push it 

Name: Missy | Date: Oct 26th, 2007 4:33 PM
My husband and I have been married for almost 21 years. We no longer have anything in common. Neither one of us are happy, but we can't seem to let go. I'm pretty sure our marriage is over but I have never worked in my life and getting a divorce scares me to death. What should I do? 

Name: josephine | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 2:20 AM
I am married for 26 years with the same man. I came to conclusion that I had to report him to police, because he violent abuse . For instant , he punch me with a close fist three times. I just dont know what got in. I finally made a conclusion that I contact my lawyer to divorce him, I really dont know if a made the right decision. 

Name: celestine | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 10:27 PM
I am indeed sorry women, but lets be candid here. Are you all sure that some of you all are not indeed guilty of cheating? After all, men donít just act like that out of the blue; something has to trigger such reactions. As woman I am not advocating that men should abuse, assaulted or even cheat on their wives and/or partner. However, having said that, as a woman I know that there are some terrible out here who have very good men but cause them to turn bad because of these women actions.

Some of us women and (its sadly is in majority) tends to cheat and do it dangerously as that. These days marriage union means nothing anymore as society has condone the evil of cheating, etc., and even in the Churches is has become prevalent. Women divorce their husband to be with ex and so-called first night stand. Some are married for years with children and some of the children they know are not their husband child but they falsely give him the child. The bottom line is some women and many at that, are making other good women look bad in the sight of men today. 

Name: celestine | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 10:29 PM
By the way divorce is not the answer Ė there are too many of that as we speak. Get right with God is the answer! 

Name: marky | Date: Jan 1st, 2008 6:49 PM
Most of the postings are from women who sound like they have been wronged. Probably they have. I am a 47 yr. old man who has a wife who has very deep-seated mental health issues. She has been in therapy and on anti-depressants for 5 years. The children have grown up without a 100% mom. It's been hell. I'm still fit and young looking and am an active athlete. I finally got up the courage to walk out the door. I've worked so hard and long on trying to be a good husband that leaving was never a concept until I started looking at my friends' relationships and discovered that most of them are very happy with their wives. I began to think "gee, is this my life? Am I going to suffer with her mental illness forever?" I finally got up the nerve to leave. It was very hard. So far it has been 10 days, and I feel resolute that I will not go back to my wife unless there are serious changes, including a change in psychologist. So, is it right to say enough is enough..I'm entitled to find happiness too. Aren't I? 

Name: Paris | Date: Jan 6th, 2008 9:36 PM
i'm in the same boat as you, what did you end up doing? i don't know what i should do, he's so controlling,i'm so scared to make the wrong choice, i'm afraid to speak up. 

Name: CHRIS | Date: Jan 9th, 2008 3:56 AM

Name: K | Date: Jan 9th, 2008 3:30 PM
My husband and I argue on an almost regular basis, we scream and raise our voices-over the dummiest things. It has stressed me out so bad-I cant even eat dinner anymore. 

Name: cjsims | Date: Jan 10th, 2008 5:54 AM
a child would rather be from a broken home than grow up in one. 

Name: jennifer | Date: Jan 25th, 2008 12:53 PM

Name: Mary | Date: Jan 25th, 2008 2:33 PM
Jennifer, you make women look bad. Listen, have U ever heard of this: Therefore, shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wise, and they shall be one flesh? Sadly, that also means women as well shall leave her mother and father. Also, whatabout submitting yourself one to another? Wives, submit yourself unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Does that mean cheating with other men while married Jennifer? How can U be in loved with another man and married to one? U are hurting the poor man where is your morals? BTW, U ask what should U do....well, what about telling your husband that you have been cheating with another man? Also, if U need advice in breaking up marriages perhaps U should consider contacting an expert in that area Mr. Julien Henley at St. Thomas Gallery [Main St.], 5195 Dronningens Gade Ste. #2
St. Thomas, USVI 00802, Tel: (340) 777-4580
Fax: (340) 777-4582. Manager: Julien Henley, Email: [email protected] 

Name: tjelegant | Date: Jan 31st, 2008 9:58 AM
I dont know why a man should divource his wife, A responsible man should know how to treat his wife to avoid misunderstanding. if i get marry i dont think that will happen and i pray God should give me a good wife.. 

Name: Mary | Date: Jan 31st, 2008 1:07 PM
tjelegant, way to go but for the most part you do not have any control when these women want to do what they want (i.e., cheating). Would you remain in a marriage where your wife is constantly cheating with other men and in particularly her ex who resides on St. Thomas, USVI? This woman and this guy Julien deserved each other they are both immoral and she has her turn coming - because what goes around comes back plentiful. What a "B". 

Name: giovanna | Date: Feb 3rd, 2008 5:48 AM
My husband and I have been married only 1 yr and 1 month-but been together since 2001.We have a son and a baby on the way. lately i have been feeling like something is going on and have been receiving mail with his ex-girlfriends name and our address - I don't know what to think-Is he helping her in credit or something going on- 

Name: sad | Date: Feb 14th, 2008 8:36 PM
i've been divorced once leaving two wonderful daughters though i still have weekly contact, thank god. I remarried 8 years ago and things have been difficult for many reasons .Now i am on the verge of seperating again and i feel so low about it - i just wanted a sole mate but instead my wife and i are so miserable 

Name: Pam | Date: Feb 15th, 2008 1:23 AM
will I make it the few months it takes to get things settled and him to move out! 

Name: Mr. Sex | Date: Feb 16th, 2008 9:33 PM
Pam only you know the answer to that question. Would you like to come over by me after the divorce? I came make the travel arrangement but as you know, you will have to settle for my other women too. 

Name: [email protected] | Date: Feb 16th, 2008 11:40 PM
Move in with me. 

Name: mike | Date: Mar 2nd, 2008 1:27 AM
been there done that and getting ready to do it again. have 4 kids and the kids are much better off with a happy family than an unhappy family where the parents don"t get along. if your thinking about your child think about a happy family & if he is anykind of a FATHER he will be there for his kid and get along with you for that reason!getting ready to go through it again and adopted her son and he is MY SON and will always think that way!! splitting while we are getting along and being civil for him! 

Name: woody | Date: Mar 31st, 2008 8:50 PM
I've been married for over 18 years, I love my wife more than anything in the world. I found out that a brief affair that she had 10 years ago never ended ( i thought it did but had my doubts). we have three kids, she isn't happy with me. i still treat her with respect and give her anything. what do i do. I can't stay but what do I do 

Name: bob | Date: Apr 3rd, 2008 7:16 AM
Remember what you said at the alter. 

Name: lea | Date: Apr 13th, 2008 1:56 AM
are their any women out here who want to talk about being mentally abused by a long time husband & can't break away due to finances. All the chat lines are for married people who want to act ridiculous . Does anyone want another woman just to talk to about what is going on in your horrible life & U don't know what to do? 

Name: DJ | Date: Apr 29th, 2008 2:25 PM
I want to leave my wife for a lot of reasons, but cheating isn't one of them. I am scared, but I don't want to go on being unhappy. How do I handle this 

Name: kim | Date: May 3rd, 2008 9:14 PM
i have been with him for 7 years i have 9month old and one on the way but he lies to me about money its always gone and none of the bills are getting paid and he tells me not to work because it will cost us more in day care but all the bills come out of my account and put me into a - and then i have to find some way to get money in my account to stop the overdrawl 

Name: Heather | Date: May 9th, 2008 3:19 AM
I would try to work it out 

Name: Hokie | Date: May 14th, 2008 2:53 PM
If he is any kind of a dad your child will not miss out on anything I have been married 19 years and have filed I have 5 children I wish I had left 10 years ago my kids would have been happier now they are proud of me and if their dad wants a good relationship with them then he will 

Name: James | Date: May 27th, 2008 3:47 AM
I am considering divorce and need some advice 

Name: DRichardson | Date: May 29th, 2008 5:14 PM
Ha HA I made it all up but was interested in feed back to find out how does this sound for a book or a movie please read me previous letter and send me your response. Sorry about the profanity and harsh thoughts. I'm only 15 and interested in become a write when I go to college on drama. 

Name: Laila | Date: Jun 15th, 2008 3:05 AM
My husband constantly tells me that he loves me but he doesnt want to be with me... that he doesnt want to be around me. He kicks me out of his car if we have a disagreement and he is very cold. What is wrong with me. 

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