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My husband and I are most likely going to get a divorce. I want one he wants one, the only reason we have stayed together this long is because of the kids, and for stability. My question is; what is the right thing to do when it comes to the house and our belongings. For starters we have 0 kids together. I have one and he has three. We have been married for 4 years WE bought a house last year, but the mortgage is only in his name and the title is in both of our names. He said he would put everything in my name but there is no way I can afford it. I know he has a 4o1k, but is it even right to try to get half of it( or any part of it0 or is it even possible. Would he pay alimony? Should we have to sell the house and split the money? With my little girls dad I never pursued child support because I wanted him to be able to live ok too, but he has so taken advantage of this and we have barely ever gotten anything from him. I don’t want to be unfair in the situation but I don’t want to have to start over again either. I no longer have good credit because of not being able to pay bills on time. See when it was just me and my daughter I had a better paying job and less bills. I didn’t have a whole lot of credit, but what I did was good. But after I got married things did get paid on time because of lack of money, and his credit was shot, so all the bills were in my name and still are. But they also get paid late. Well he has worked on repairing his credit to buy to by this house, but mine is still shot. I also have no money saved because, well there is never any to save because we live pay check to pay check. So i just am looking for some good advise. I really have no clue where to even start or what to do. ↓
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